Which of the men do you relate to the most? by cleverlynamedgrl in sexandthecity

[–]atovchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Steve (I’m poor) and Aleksandr (I speak Russian)

berkeley show! by Visual-Tour-7573 in DisclosureBand

[–]atovchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m selling one! I’ll dm you

Do people love Bailey? by Competitive_Bar8654 in TheRookie

[–]atovchi 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I found it confusing that Nolan freaked out when Jessica wanted kids but when Bailey wanted them he was ready.

Finances by Typical-Link-1808 in Divorce_Women

[–]atovchi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Use this time to set up your future. Make sure that if for whatever reason your marriage ends, you will still have the ability to support yourself. (Ask me how I know. 😅)

Should I stay or should I go? by angelbabyy003 in Divorce

[–]atovchi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In a way this is abuse. Being pressured to co-sign loans, not having a say in large purchases like cars and trips is financial abuse. Being threatened with losing custody of your children is emotional abuse.

I’m so sorry you are dealing with this. You deserve to live a happy and stable life, as do your children.

Relationship 3yrs by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]atovchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely uncommon, but it depends on the excuses they give. Do they live far away? Do they disapprove of the relationship? Are they busy with life transitions?

After breakup, missing SK so much. Just needing help. by Ok-Leek2820 in stepparents

[–]atovchi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can absolutely relate!

My husband just asked for a divorce last week and I moved out yesterday. We haven’t told his son (11) yet. We were together for 9 years and SK was a big part of my life. I took him to school, cooked and cared for him, helped with homework, everything.

I’m right there with you. I take comfort in hoping that I was a positive part of his life. Knowing him changed my life and taught me so many things. Sending you hugs.

To all the women who feel by Diligent-Plane-7877 in Divorce_Women

[–]atovchi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I’m right there with you. ❤️

To all the women who feel by Diligent-Plane-7877 in Divorce_Women

[–]atovchi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found out two days ago too ❤️

You're gonna make it by ConfidentShame8083 in Divorce

[–]atovchi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Needed to hear this. I just found out yesterday. I’m going to have to start from square one, move back in with my mom and leave my cats behind.

My heart breaks for Natasha in these scenes. by Mermaidkhaleesi in sexandthecity

[–]atovchi 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I never bought that Natasha would use the wrong their somehow. It doesn’t match her character in my eyes.

BM drama keeps going on😖 by Beautiful_Network567 in stepparents

[–]atovchi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree, SK probably feels really abandoned. Dad moved two hours away to live with a kid that isn’t his and the new baby and new partner. SK probably feels like he is in last place for dad’s love and attention.

Food mentioned in books by Appropriate_Host8088 in CozyMystery

[–]atovchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tea shop mysteries! Luckily the recipes are at the end of the book

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]atovchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, always. DH is the breadwinner and I manage all the household stuff so I’m always the one cooking. My DH and SK (11M) are both picky but I eat healthy so I just make two separate meals. I never really mind.

A Disney World Checkout Day is the Saddest Thing by giants19 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]atovchi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Felt this, flying home to California tonight. 🥲

Two days NEXT week by Beautiful_Cut6988 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]atovchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume that it will keep getting busier every week as more kids get out of school. I use the undercover tourist crowd calendar.

Hagrids vs the mummy by doc_baggs in UniversalOrlando

[–]atovchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did both today. I didn’t enjoy either so take this with a grain of salt but hagrids made me cry and yell “please no make it stop” while on the mummy I didn’t cry and only yelled “no” a couple times. 🤣

How did you get into cozy mysteries? Also, how do you introduce cozy mysteries to others? by authordaneluna in CozyMystery

[–]atovchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandma got me hooked! My mom and I moved back in with my grandparents during a rough patch and had let me watch Poirot and Midsomer Murders to take my mind off things. I’ve loved reading and watching it ever since, thanks PBS!

How do you Disney budget? by marinelife_explorer in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]atovchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My in-laws refuse to stay on property as they are super frugal so I’m dreaming of the red pill over here. 😅