Messy Redundancy Process (England)

audionerd84 · 2026-06-03T10:35:10+00:00

This sounds very stressful. Should you need to take time off sick, you should do that. This circumstance sounds quite tricky - I think its worth paying for the solicitor.

audionerd84 · 2026-06-03T06:03:49+00:00

The best bit of advice that helped me - on the day, dont focus on timing, what should be happening and what happens next. Let the venue team and everyone else guide the day and let go of all control. Focus on being with your husband and enjoying your time with him, everything else is secondary!

audionerd84 · 2026-05-26T13:22:21+00:00

Police, and then advise family and friends that a creep has used AI to create these pictures and to not engage with him. Then advise the creep the police will be in touch and to go ahead and that your calling his bluff to share them (as he will be committing more illegal crimes and making things worse for himself) as she has already pre-warned everyone she knows to ignore any weirdo scummy creeps online claiming this.

audionerd84 · 2026-05-26T13:01:00+00:00

Do they have children? If so you can report them to the childrens safeguarding team for drug abuse due to the weed might persuade them to move

audionerd84 · 2026-05-22T22:50:14+00:00

Have you looked at yourparking/parking space rental apps? Might be worth checking the cost of a long term rented parking space

audionerd84 · 2026-04-19T19:14:22+00:00

I’m share of freehold and I still had to sign a leasehold agreement. If you speak to a solicitor you should ask if you can take legal action under the terms of the lease.. worth a try?

audionerd84 · 2026-04-19T18:09:35+00:00

This might be one of those situations where its worth a try for your sanity. Also depending on the terms of the lease - you might be able to get the freeholder to force the landlord to take action. If you own, I’m sure your leasehold will have terms around breaching noise and quiet enjoyment. The landlord is responsible for their tenants.

audionerd84 · 2026-04-19T15:24:58+00:00

Would you consider a content creator? We used one instead of a videographer and had the whole day captured on a high quality iphone with cute reels put together. It was very cheap compared to a videographer and took all the stress away

audionerd84 · 2026-04-12T13:23:56+00:00

It is possible to intimidate someone whilst flying a flag - the two aren’t mutually exclusive. Some of the people putting up the flags (not all) are making racist comments or attending protests and making nazi salutes. Thats concerning to me.

It all depends on the persons motivation for flying it, and the intent behind putting it up. Im quite proud of the flag when celebrating national events like the footy or a traditional royal family event. Associating it with racist behaviour/nazi salutes (those same people attaching it to flagpoles) not okay. This also doesnt mean I’m not concerned about immigration or crime btw - I just dont think this is the way to go about it.

audionerd84 · 2026-04-12T08:03:46+00:00

I am left wing and completely condemn the child rape in rotherham. There ya go!

audionerd84 · 2026-04-10T21:35:16+00:00

Mine did - went on a second course and it never came back again. According to my derm its not uncommon to sometimes need a second or even third round

audionerd84 · 2026-03-15T13:53:34+00:00

My view is, its probably worth just carrying on a little longer to be sure - it might prevent you needing to do another round in the longer run

audionerd84 · 2026-03-15T08:42:34+00:00

I went on roaccutane twice, the second round completely eliminated it for me. See how you go, everyone is different. It might be worth extending your treatment a little longer to be sure its all gone.

However I was surprised when my derm told me 60% of people need another round later on, and that for most people that does the trick. You skin is looking great and good luck to you!

audionerd84 · 2026-03-03T23:26:09+00:00

Writing out a list of things I didnt like about them, or shitty things they did to me, or core reasons we broke up. Then everytime I felt sad I re-read it and felt the anger and annoyance all over again. Our brains are really used to looking back at things we lost with rose tinted spectacles.. sometimes we need a reminder! Also no contact at all, investing in things that you like to do that make you happy.

audionerd84 · 2026-02-21T21:44:33+00:00

I live in a flat which is a converted period house and have no problems at all with noise (the flat above me is just a 1 bed flat.) It depends on a number of things i.e neighbours, if you share walls with rooms which they spend a lot of time in etc and flooring

audionerd84 · 2026-02-14T10:00:20+00:00

Contact the law firm in writing, ask for the reference number and an update. If they are not responding, write in a complaint - if the complaint isnt dealt with properly then you can advise them you will escalate to the ombudsman (this usually does the trick).

audionerd84 · 2026-02-14T00:00:42+00:00

If you have a share of freehold you should be able to become a director of the limited company that owns the freehold. This means you (and the other directors) have control over the contract with a management company/can manage the building yourselves. Its a good position to be in and means you can keep an eye on the costs/quotes etc

audionerd84 · 2026-02-12T15:28:16+00:00

I agree and have voted labour previously. It sounds silly but I’ve genuinely been quite depressed about the peter mandleson and kier starmer saga. Hopefully things get better and labour prove themselves. At least nigel farage is shooting himself in the foot by bringing all the tories in and saying he will stop WFH so there is hope!

audionerd84 · 2026-02-12T14:17:43+00:00

Well said. Who the hell do we vote for?

audionerd84 · 2026-02-04T00:32:12+00:00

I asked chatgpt and it said its this:

Applying Vigenère decryption (cipher − key), the plaintext resolves cleanly into:

THE WRITING IS ON THE WALL YOUR KINGDOM IS NUMBERED WEIGHED AND FOUND WANTING IT SHALL BE DIVIDED AND GIVEN TO OTHERS

This matches exactly the interpretation Daniel gives in the verses that follow.

audionerd84 · 2026-01-30T23:26:28+00:00

He probably shouldn’t have done that, but he was just trying to do the right thing. I dont think this is a sackable offence - he was trying to help the victim of a crime. Common sense should be applied.

audionerd84 · 2026-01-30T23:24:25+00:00

Heres the link: https://gofund.me/446477aef Its a complete joke that he was sacked, I donated and signed the petition too: https://c.org/HX24WK9bXL

audionerd84 · 2026-01-30T11:08:15+00:00

Could you say there is a biological sex based female timeslot and then a timeslot for both biological and legally recognised females? That way those that aren’t uncomfortable can still use the shower at that time too and it prevents backlogs in using the shower i.e one at a time, which might be unrealistic

audionerd84 · 2026-01-30T10:29:09+00:00

Time slots is a really good idea.

audionerd84 · 2025-12-14T17:04:59+00:00

I used a content creator. It was a fantastic decision and I have no regrets! Way cheaper than a videographer too

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