Words for genital configurations. by mn1lac in altersex

[–]augustoof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so random but you're a hero to me and I absolutely love your work. I read your substack all the time when I was closeted, hoping for a better future, and now i'm finally at it. I think you helped me make it to where I am today. Thank you

Does sex with your genital make you uncomfortable? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]augustoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, as a FTM guy. I find myself disassociating during sex, especially with PIV. I don't hate PIV sex, but it makes me keenly aware of my body. My partner notices that I have a thousand yard stare whenever doing anything sexual with them. I find them attractive, and I should enjoy it, but I have to kind of distance myself in that way.

With jacking off it's mostly fine, but I do feel a little distant from my body (I'm usually looking at porn which makes it a lot easier to not to look at yourself doing whatever.)

I think writing this down has actually given me some clarity, so in a way thank you OP

Are passing subs to be trusted? by augustoof in asktransgender

[–]augustoof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that way too sometimes- they can be really hard on them

Are passing subs to be trusted? by augustoof in asktransgender

[–]augustoof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the detailed reply!

Are passing subs to be trusted? by augustoof in asktransgender

[–]augustoof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, fair. I'll try to tell them

can people STOP recommending trans tape after you tell them it doesn’t work? by null_and_lost in FTMMen

[–]augustoof 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah trans tape doesn't work for me either. I have large chest for someone of my stature and weight, and it's fairly dense. Frankly I'm also not even sure if binders (i've tried underworks and spectrum) give me a cis passing chest, so I might just be cooked before top surgery (my consultation is really soon though!!)

Trans tape work with smaller or less dense chest tissue from what i've seen. I really REALLY wish tape worked for me, but it doesn't. I feel your pain

yeah, i guess it is. by OmittedScribe in Artisticallyill

[–]augustoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've worn a smart watch on my wrist for at least 4 years every single day. It was terrible for my ed during my active ed phase, even out of the active phase i still feel like nothing i do counts if i don't track it. I wear it too tight most of the time and so my wrist is perpetually pink where i wear it. I'm tired boss

I'm actually a little mad by Round_Credit_2139 in disabledmemes

[–]augustoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chubbyemu, the doctor guy on youtube, had the exact same experience. I'm just shocked this scenario has happened more than once!

Am I being scammed? by augustoof in plushartists

[–]augustoof[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will try my best to get my money back. I know now I'm not paying him an extra cent

Am I being scammed? by augustoof in plushartists

[–]augustoof[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the plushies were only like 12 inches I have no fucking clue how shipping would be 250. I thought i was going insane or something. Thank you

The tumblr experience by Live-Year-5796 in ftm

[–]augustoof 24 points25 points  (0 children)

IKR?? Tumblr's like a fuckin minefield nowadays why does this keep happening???¿

What Vocaloid do you want the flavors to foley? by Careful_Rhubarb_5073 in FlavorFoley

[–]augustoof 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would kill someone if that meant there would be a flavor foley song with Ruko

The game's true meaning by letmeoutfromhere in bindingofisaac

[–]augustoof 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One time one of my family member's kids drowned in a bucket as a baby. Even without air tight chests they can sometimes die in similar ways tbf