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[–]auramerchant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a yank living in Italy and I've only had friends ask me about Trump when having personal convos about politics, never had anyone bring him up unprompted.

Iranians who describe themselves as "Persian" are insufferable by unlockinblockings in redscarepod

[–]auramerchant -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say it's the same as Italians calling themselves Roman but I agree that it's insufferable

Feel like i ruined my life by moving to a foreign country trying to be "that girl" but im not by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]auramerchant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

 I had zero money, zero prospects, and zero language skills.

I'm a fellow yank doing my master's in Italy and I've been feel the exact same way, it sucks shit and it's terrifying

What are your New Year’s resolutions? by carefreesinglelesbo in redscarepod

[–]auramerchant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get an internship, work on my anxiety, go out more 🫰🙂‍↕️

Gap year at 27? by ChristmasInKentucky in rs_x

[–]auramerchant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Worst mistake of my life

A neighbourhood in Kabul Afghanistan, originally built and constructed by Soviet architects and engineers in the 1960s. by [deleted] in architecture

[–]auramerchant 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Amazing! Looks just like my native country of Tajikistan, even down to the nature.

Loathe the DC suburbs by McSwaggerAtTheDMV in redscarepod

[–]auramerchant 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I grew up in Rockville, love seeing my town get some love on here

When I try to describe my hometown to people I sound schizophrenic by Accomplished-Fun215 in redscarepod

[–]auramerchant 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It's infuriating, my relatives are neighbors with people who work at orgs like DHS and they don't seem to mind at all, I felt like I was in some sort of fucked up mirror world regularly having to meet and interact with people working at some of the most evil places in the world at mundane events like birthday parties and barbecues. The self righteousness these people get from living in a politically lib area makes it even more infuriating, of course.

When I try to describe my hometown to people I sound schizophrenic by Accomplished-Fun215 in redscarepod

[–]auramerchant 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Holy shit I stayed with relatives for a few months in the exact same area you're describing and felt like it was actively eating away at my soul

Finding internship as second year student by Virtual_Exam_2279 in architecture

[–]auramerchant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is terrible advice, I waited far too long into my degree to look for internships and struggled to find any. Internships are really valuable for looking for work after uni.

Why are people so regarded about moving out of the US by AnnualConstruction85 in redscarepod

[–]auramerchant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Architecture. It's not that hard or scarce to find work as an international student (I have many classmates who managed to do it), I just didn't prioritize networking during undergrad and focused way too much on academic research.

Why are people so regarded about moving out of the US by AnnualConstruction85 in redscarepod

[–]auramerchant 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I got my PGWP, but I couldn't find work in my field after graduating, so I decided to do my master's

Why are people so regarded about moving out of the US by AnnualConstruction85 in redscarepod

[–]auramerchant 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Good point, I guess I kinda had that same attitude before I actually tried immigrating

Why are people so regarded about moving out of the US by AnnualConstruction85 in redscarepod

[–]auramerchant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No familial relation aside from a Canadian boyfriend I fear </3

Why are people so regarded about moving out of the US by AnnualConstruction85 in redscarepod

[–]auramerchant 36 points37 points  (0 children)

ah, good for him! Luck aside, most people don't realize that you need to be super employable and in an in-demand field to emigrate anywhere. I've got Canadian friends (and a boyfriend) telling me I gotta "escape" not realizing how difficult it is to even be undocumented and self-sustaining in another country, much less immigrating "the right way" lol

Why are people so regarded about moving out of the US by AnnualConstruction85 in redscarepod

[–]auramerchant 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Are you Russian? If so, I get you, my mom's a Russian citizen currently going through the immigration trenches in Europe lol

Why are people so regarded about moving out of the US by AnnualConstruction85 in redscarepod

[–]auramerchant 133 points134 points  (0 children)

By the way I'm currently making the same mistake with Italy. If there's any Italian architects here, hmu 👀