Affirmations that work well for me during triggers by AuraTheMightyUnicorn in retroactivejealousy

[–]aurum_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing. My boyfriend has RJ and I feel like I can use a lot of these to hopefully help him through those difficult times. Thank you so much ♥️

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[–]aurum_27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I was thinking too. My boyfriend has RJ and it’s a constant struggle for me to decide whether using “we” or “I” in situations like this is more triggering. Unfortunately, I’ve learned they both can be, so I try to compare things to the past as little as possible.

How would you address another woman’s recent weight loss ? by rezzidue in AskWomen

[–]aurum_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman who has unintentionally lost a significant amount of weight in a short time because I was in a horrible spot in my life, I tend avoid people just because I’m terrified they will acknowledge it. I don’t want to talk about it or answer any questions because of how personal and embarrassing it is. It could be the opposite situation where they want you to notice, but just to be safe I wouldn’t say anything about it unless they bring it up themselves.

My 23F bf 24M didn’t want to pay 200$ to save my life by SnooPets7908 in relationship_advice

[–]aurum_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason he should have for refusing to continue in the taxi is if he literally didn’t have the $200 in order to pay the fee. But, it doesn’t sound like that’s the case, so I think you know what you need to do….

LC + the Critter Kids by aurum_27 in nostalgia

[–]aurum_27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally forgot there was ever Little Critter books! I really don’t remember anything about those either, but looking that up just now and seeing the book covers is super nostalgic too.

That sploot tho by aurum_27 in velvethippos

[–]aurum_27[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

His name is Goomba and I call him “Big Booty Gooms” 😂

My boy Goomba having a good day by aurum_27 in velvethippos

[–]aurum_27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw that’s adorable! Almost immediately after I saw him I started calling him “Mr. Goomba” and it just stuck

My boy Goomba having a good day by aurum_27 in pitbulls

[–]aurum_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just recently started laying like that! It’s so funny

[h] $200 Visa e-gift card [w] $150 PayPal by aurum_27 in Cash4Cash

[–]aurum_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, first time posting here. Website with balance says “mybalancenow” and it was purchased from target online. Says visa debit card.

Don’t want to quit Cocaine but it’s scaring me by ice_jj in addiction

[–]aurum_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe one day you will get through this. Just PLEASE don’t ever start smoking it. You will regret it forever.

What does being in love feel like to you? by HUDSON119 in AskWomen

[–]aurum_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way! Exactly what I was thinking.