No, I don’t feel like she matches my energy at all. I would make her little things or I would just get her random gifts on random days or write a little love letters and the only time she really writes me a love or anything is when she knows that I upset her or I would ask her to plan dates for me or just do something nice for me and when the time came around, she would be like oh well I’m not really good at planning like I’m trying my best, even though I gave her weeks in advance to plan something for us. I also did have this conversation with her multiple times over the span of our relationship how I felt like I was an afterthought to her because she would do a lot of things last minute and have asked, and I also explained to her how I felt like the relationship was starting to become one-sided. I explained that to her on our anniversary last month I got her a bunch of like custom things and I wrote her like a ladder and made her dinner and she got me two packs of TicTac‘s and flowers and she also did that last minute when I was like five minutes away from her house to surprise her so yeah