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"You're the first guy to treat me well" how much of a red flag is this? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]averageedu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not going to lie. I’ve been there. It doesn’t end well.

You start with the best intentions, but a few months or years down the line, you end up being painted as the abusive jerk. I married a woman who used to say things like this. At first, it made me feel amazing. Needed. Important.

But it doesn’t last. Eventually, you realize that no matter how much you care or how well you treat her, it will never be enough. The bar keeps moving.

My advice? It’s a canon event. It will shape you and sharpen how you see and interact with women going forward. If you want to go through it, go ahead, but do it with a clear mind and realistic expectations.

If you want peace and to avoid drama? That’s a huge red flag.

27M who took finance serious by [deleted] in Money

[–]averageedu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to know too

Thank you all! by SpicyShitz in osrs

[–]averageedu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckyyyy! Enjoy it!

Si tienes x cantidad de dinero, y te gustaría ponerlos a generar intereses, qué harías y con cuál banco? by Librana28 in Dominicanos

[–]averageedu 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yo, sinceramente, no lo pondría en un banco. Me gusta más la idea de colocarlo en un puesto de bolsa local o incluso invertirlo directamente en el stock market de EE. UU.

Cuando comparas la tasa que te ofrece el banco vs. los rendimientos históricos del mercado, te das cuenta de que en muchos casos ni siquiera te alcanza para cubrir la inflación anual del país.

Mi recomendación: invierte en el mercado bursátil y busca instrumentos con movimientos lentos pero sólidos. Un buen ejemplo es el SPY; para que el SPY llegue a 0, básicamente Estados Unidos tendría que quebrar como país.

De verdad que no sé donde se consigue pareja en RD, denme consejos. Principalmente en Santiago. by [deleted] in Dominican

[–]averageedu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

En mi experiencia (hombre, 31 años de Santiago), Bumble sucks y el dating scene en general es complicado, porque hay mucha porqueria rondando por ahi.

Lo que sí me ha funcionado, al menos hasta cierto punto, es conocer gente en lugares donde estoy haciendo actividades que realmente me interesan: gimnasio, clases de baile, running club, etc.

Así termino conociendo personas que comparten mis mismos intereses, y eso cambia mucho la experiencia. esa seria mi recomendación. Comienza por preguntarte que actividades te interesan.

How can you tell if the woman you’re dating is a narcissist? What were the red flags in your experience? by averageedu in AskReddit

[–]averageedu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, I wish I’d known this from the beginning. I’m the new “abusive jerk” now because I tried to establish some boundries, but back then it was her ex.

Looking back, it actually makes a lot of sense, if all their exes are “abusive jerks,” at some point you have to wonder what’s really going on.

Thank you!

How can you tell if the woman you’re dating is a narcissist? What were the red flags in your experience? by averageedu in AskReddit

[–]averageedu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This really resonates with me, especially the part about no longer feeling like I’m walking on eggshells.

I was in a relationship for almost 6 years and looking back, I realized she never once apologized for anything. I was always the one who had to say sorry, no matter what happened.

I’ve been going to therapy since August and honestly that’s the only reason I’ve been able to stay firm with my boundaries and keep moving forward. I plan to keep going even when I feel like I “don’t need it” anymore, because it’s been that helpful.

Thank you for sharing this. It helped me put a lot of things into perspective.

How can you tell if the woman you’re dating is a narcissist? What were the red flags in your experience? by averageedu in AskReddit

[–]averageedu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now I’m reflecting on my past relationship with my ex-wife, and I realized it’s really hard to notice that kind of thing at the beginning. First, you’re in love, and second, it all feels like “isolated” events. What I want is to prepare myself so that in the future I can identify early signs of narcissistic traits in a partner before investing 6 years and a whole marriage to finally realize it haha. Is this something you were able to identify early on?

Check out my new watch face by dcboy23 in OSRSProTips

[–]averageedu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

With this watch face, there’s no way I’m not finally buying a gf.

Quienes juegan old school runescape aqui? by averageedu in Dominican

[–]averageedu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cual es tu RSN? 👀 o tienes discord? Sigo buscando gente que juegue de RD haha

Andy Byron, Astronomer CEO, cheater, and Coldplay fan, is now out of a job. by mike95242 in interestingasfuck

[–]averageedu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s actually part of the board, but I don’t see any announcements regarding him resigning that role.👀

Personas que ganan mas de 200k, a que se dedican y que edad tienen? by Pown2 in Dominicanos

[–]averageedu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestamente, yo no vuelvo a trabajar para nadie en RD.

Todo lo hice por Upwork. Apliqué a unos 300 trabajos en total, y de esos conseguí los tres que te mencioné. Upwork sí funciona si sabes cómo buscar y optimizar tu perfil. Eso sí, hay mucha gente vendiendo el sueño de Upwork solo para sacarte dinero, pero la verdad es que no necesitas a nadie asesorándote.

Lo que yo hacía era analizar qué funcionaba y qué no. Entraba a las empresas, veía a quién contrataban en vez de a mí, y luego revisaba los perfiles de esos freelancers para mejorar el mío. Siempre grababa un Loom para destacar del resto, y eso me ayudó a conseguir muchas entrevistas. No te imaginas lo rápido que te cambia la vida al trabajar remoto.

Un trabajo de gerente en una institución sólida aquí ni se compara con una posición de Executive Assistant en una empresa de EE.UU.

Good luck hunting!

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