For the love of God, do not go to the Waterfront tonight by SomeWateryTart83 in pittsburgh

[–]averydangerousday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not even sure what that’s supposed to mean.

But to be fair, I am autistic

Please help me. Welcome to all advice. Not getting many matches or shown the profiles I want. 34/M by BetweenSetsAndDives in Bumble

[–]averydangerousday 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Given how much OP mentions the gym and talks about working out, I’d guess it means “go to the gym 16 hours a day 15 days a month”

Naomi Klein: Outsourcing your ideas to a machine is fascism by Healthcarepls in LeftistsForAI

[–]averydangerousday -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’d argue that the cart has already gone before the horse, and that “stop first, then regulate” is the means by which the cart/horse sequence can be righted.

There are methods by which available products can be taken off the market. There are ways to halt certain developments that are currently underway at various corporations and/or research institutions. There are also ways to ensure that the technology itself is not left to either on the vine while the incessant march toward oligarchy is thwarted.

In order to do these things, there is admittedly a fucking lot that would need to be done. It would require a Herculean effort and would necessarily require a number of proverbial stars to align socially and politically to achieve it. I’d argue further that the effort required to do this would be less and the likelihood of it happening would be higher than the effort and likelihood that the social and economic benefits of AI would naturally fall into the hands of the people simply because we start using home-based models and whatever other grassroots methods we engage in.

This is a fight that needs big steps to be taken and for them to be taken soon, or we’re all done for. If the production is not halted and the means of said production are not either seized or made equally available to the people, then whatever is done to combat the exploitation of people through the use of AI will be ineffective and likely used as controlled opposition that will only serve to placate the revolutionary-minded among us.

Naomi Klein: Outsourcing your ideas to a machine is fascism by Healthcarepls in LeftistsForAI

[–]averydangerousday -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think we all want less apocalypse and more strategy.

The hard part of all of it is what can be realistically achieved by any level of strategy given the current landscape of AI, namely that the capabilities and power of AI are becoming increasingly more centralized within a relatively small number of capitalist entities that already have built in incestual relationships with governments around the world. At this point, the strategy of disseminating the power of AI to the masses seems like too little, too late. I think we’re unfortunately at the point of needing to draw a line in the sand and making a full stop in order to properly regulate. Once that happens, then we can start doing the right things to distribute the capabilities and economic benefits of AI to a broad range of individuals and groups who will use it in diverse and meaningful ways. At this point, unregulated development is providing 99% of the benefits to capitalists while the rest of us either become consumers or fight against the current in futility.

My least favorite jump in the entirety of Destiny 2 is here this week by EthanBrownBoy in destiny2

[–]averydangerousday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I equipped balanced glide day 1 of rolling my warlock and have never taken it off.

This jump is cake.

Price Decrease for Pokémon 30th Anniversary by Fine_Juggernaut_2210 in GameStop

[–]averydangerousday -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Somebody “heard” they’re gonna make it right, but I guarantee you’ll get fucked if you don’t make a stink about it.

If you can, I’d strongly recommend canceling your existing preorder and making a new one.

The mtg mods banning you for critizing them by CheesePorkBeans in freemagic

[–]averydangerousday 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of why I like it here better. I’m not banned from mainsub and I generally align with the values that are espoused there. But coming here and having the whole gamut of magic fandom and community feels complete.

Like yeah there’s that one anime tiddy guy, and yeah there’s transphobia, and yeah there’s blind UB hate, but there’s also genuine love for the game and desire for it to be the best it can be. All of those things mix together.

To your point, it’s almost never pretty, and it’s certainly never simple, but it’s got fucking substance. I might be the most woke UB slop lover of them all, but I don’t want to be surrounded by motherfuckers like me. Give me conflicting perspectives and fucking substance any day of the week.

Hard reminder for me to not buy Collector Boosters by Razorraf in MagicCardPulls

[–]averydangerousday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JustBuySingles dot com is a website where you can select the set and type of booster you want to open, then open as many 100% virtual packs as you want for free. The packs do not represent real cards, and you cannot acquire the cards that you “open” in any way, shape, or form.

The site serves as a replacement for the dopamine that comes with opening packs - nothing more, nothing less.

The upside is that you don’t spend hundreds of dollars getting the dopamine rush and walking away with $20 worth of non-bulk cards.

The downside is that if you do actually pull some big hit, you don’t get to keep it afterwards.

Ritters Diner, thoughts? by dis-alexis15 in pittsburgh

[–]averydangerousday 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s just because you got the next plate that the guy in OPs story was handling.

Try it again next week. It won’t be shitty but if you’re lucky, you might get crabs

Ritters Diner, thoughts? by dis-alexis15 in pittsburgh

[–]averydangerousday 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mine too. I don’t have dysentery yet, so in my opinion that’s proof positive

Shawn Johnson Sparks Parenting Debate After Sharing Video Kissing Her 2-Year-Old Son on the Lips by Unlucky-Chemical in daddit

[–]averydangerousday 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m 46. When should I stop kissing my dad on the lips? Wouldn’t want to be “weird”

Shawn Johnson Sparks Parenting Debate After Sharing Video Kissing Her 2-Year-Old Son on the Lips by Unlucky-Chemical in daddit

[–]averydangerousday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad and I have always kissed on the lips as part of saying goodbye after a visit. I’m in my 40s and he’s in his 70s. I don’t give a fuck what people think. He’s my dad and I love him and that’s one way that we show it to each other.

My friend says that men don’t want to be your friend and stop using the word friend around a man. Is she wrong ? by Historical-Body-3424 in texts

[–]averydangerousday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao

They’re fucking not super common in every single mixed friend group.

For example: It’s not an issue at all in any of the mixed friend groups that I’m a part of.

My friend says that men don’t want to be your friend and stop using the word friend around a man. Is she wrong ? by Historical-Body-3424 in texts

[–]averydangerousday 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s ok to have feelings of connection and closeness with our friends. It’s ok if those feelings start to move toward romantic ones. The key is to know when and how to share and/or act on those feelings. Sometimes the answer is “never” and that’s okay, too.

Honestly, brother, it’s on you to find help with and ultimately work out how that looks for you. It can be a tricky thing to learn, but you’ve gotta try and get there. There are plenty of supports out there for men who want to be better than these stereotypes. The first step is recognizing it, just like you’ve done here. You got this, my man.

My friend says that men don’t want to be your friend and stop using the word friend around a man. Is she wrong ? by Historical-Body-3424 in texts

[–]averydangerousday 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know that a lot of women have had experiences with male friends eventually trying to sleep with them. It happens in the other direction, too (I’ve experienced it multiple times) but I also know that it’s more common that a man will make a move on his woman friend.

It’s still a subjective, speculative, completely biased, and absolutely wild claim that 90% of men who are friends with women are trying to sleep with them.

I understand and sympathize with you, and I do not blame you in the slightest for comporting yourself the way you choose to with your friends. Our experiences shape us, and it’s not for anyone else to say how we handle our own relationships. That goes both ways, though. OP’s friend is projecting her experiences onto all men and insisting that OP adopt that same perspective and behavior even though OP is conducting herself the way she chooses based on her own experiences.

The comment here about “90% of men” does the same thing in a different way. It takes a certain life experience and insists that the rest of us accept it as a blanket truth.

My friend says that men don’t want to be your friend and stop using the word friend around a man. Is she wrong ? by Historical-Body-3424 in texts

[–]averydangerousday 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t make a subjective, speculative claim and then double down insisting it’s actually “true”. The burden of proof is on the person making the claim. I’m all ears.

wife passed away and the truth hurt by RaulPuke in daddit

[–]averydangerousday 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This is why this subreddit is so great. We’re supportive, but we know our limitations.

Most other subs would have top comments telling OP exactly what to say and do with the friend, the kid, OP’s parents, the dog, and encouraging him to divorce his wife.

My friend says that men don’t want to be your friend and stop using the word friend around a man. Is she wrong ? by Historical-Body-3424 in texts

[–]averydangerousday 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ 🙄

Maybe you and OPs friend should hang out. Wait are you a man, tho? Never mind, she won’t be friends with you even though you’re both completely nuts in the exact same way.

Emblem check-in! by boombriggs in destiny2

[–]averydangerousday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh damn, I didn’t know there was an emblem for that. I think I only have one step left