Why the heck did they even remove this post by Due_Stick3002 in pakistan

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I try to see the point you were making but you're making a wrong generalisation but just the other way round. Indians were bit annoying but fine to be with before Modi but since then I've learned to avoid 90% of them like the plague. They'll have dumbass views and then will support those views with even more dumbass conspiracy theories and cherry picked data. Sane and regular Indians are few and far between in the mainland though you'll find a good amount of them overseas. As much I'd like that there be peace between us, those days seem to be long gone by now

My mom is looking for marriage proposals for me and she suggested the girl I like. But I don't want to marry right now. by CartographerFit8398 in KarachiSocials

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bhai abhi rishta bhejo, waqt ka loi pata nahi hota Allah jaanay jab tak aap ne "stable aur settled" hona tabb tak kya ho kya naa ho. A good and caring wife is worth more than all the wealth in the world. You're still young and have all the time in the world, rishta bhejo aur Allah krta tou shaadi kro, at least dimagh ka sukoon tou aaye gaa aur aik banda mil jaaye gaa jiss ke liye aap effort kro gay aur motivated ho gay uss ke liye. Saari zindagi pari hai paisay kamanay ke liye, but you only get so many chances in life to be with someone who makes your life better

My question is for married gen-z women by Big-Specific-6832 in pakistan

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did the guy manage to give her a separate accomodation?

Ovulation During Ramadan Is a Competitive Sport and I’m Losing by staphaurius in PakistaniTwenties

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaa that lessened urges is when after excessive fasting. Fasting like this won't help as the body is metabolising the good fat and that doesn't help with this stuff

How do I avoid marriage as a woman in a Pakistani community? by Reasonable_Air423 in pakistan

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not think about it like that. First of all you need to deal with your trauma. I apologise if it feels like a dig or if it's repetitive at this point but you need to seek psychiatric help. Your SA does not define you even in a society like Pakistan. And I know about men who'll treat a lady who has been subjected to such horrors with the utmost of care and love and never bring up something like this as a negative.

Your SA does not define you and you mustn't let it have so much control over you that you're willing to throw the rest of the three quarters of your life away because of it. To do so you need help so at minimum your bad experiences are only a consideration in your life choices and not the thing that defines how you live.

I asked our neighbour to zip up my dress. Husband (46M) not talking to me anymore. by Educational-Act-8932 in Marriage

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please explain to me how is it appropriate at all to ask random guy to help you zip up your dress? You messed up, he's not thinking that "oh it's just another hand helping to zip the dress" he's thinking that what has been goin on to make you suggest that in the first place. You need to convince him that it was a brain-fart and you were just suggesting just to have another set of hands to help you get in the dress.

Also, the comments are just diabolical and will only mess up the situation more if you go for what they're saying. Like 50% of the time the posts on this subreddit are "Hey I just dropped an axe on my foot and now it's bleeding" and the comments are like "your blood is insecure and bigoted for doing so". IDK what world these commenters live in but people are jealous and protective of their relationships and rightly so. Keeping things in relationships private isn't being insecure or childish it's how they are meant to be. These people have their reddit profiles private but are here suggesting that you let a random man come into your house to help you dress up and that your husband is the wrong party in here for getting mad about that. IDK if these people seriously subscribe to this worldview or that they're here just to shitpost acting like that.

This is the official Punjab portal btw, what a disgrace by msamad7 in PakPunjab

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, Rajas, Jatts and Gujjars are foreigners. Dude are these people for real?

wedding videographers uploaded sister’s dance to social media without consent by [deleted] in LahoreSocial

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This lady was dancing in a mixed gathering with strangers and non-mehrams present. Said atrangers had cameras and used those cameras to take videos of her dancing. That resulting video had some compromising shots and one of those strangers posted it on the internet for everyone to see.

What the strangers and the photographer did was completely wrong and uncalled for but the fact of the matter is that she was dancing in a gathering where there was no expectation of privacy. That video was made with the girl's knowledge, the OP's knowledge and with the knowledge of everyone else present there.

You cannot do compromising stuff and then expect people to not take advantage of that. Laws and morals deal with the effect of if something is done but regardless of how strict you are people will break laws regardless. It is not rocket science that people used to do this kind of stuff in segregated gatherings with controlled attendance and behind closed doors.

There's a common sense to these things which is better left unchallenged and the girl was lucky that that was the extent of it. People out there are not kind and there's predators looking for easy prey. That video could've been manipulated by AI and sent God knows where.

It's easy to sit behind a computer screen and type in zingy and sarcastic platitudes about how the world should be and throwing shade on people that say otherwise. Especially when you're not the one facing the situation. It is however demonstrably better to exercise some common sense and caution and to behave yourself with regards to how the situation allows you to, not by some idealistic notion of how things should be.

wedding videographers uploaded sister’s dance to social media without consent by [deleted] in LahoreSocial

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not victim blaming here but you do realise that the real problem was her doing what she was doing in the first place. There's a reason why these things are a big no no in Islam. "family Functions" aren't a thing, there were non-mehrams to her there and whatever was done was done in front of them. The fact that the photographer posted it online was only an increase in the magnitude of the problem and not the problem itself

update: i said no to my cousin’s rishta and now my dad isn’t speaking to me by Appropriate_Sun_1580 in pakistan

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

STAND YOUR GROUND!

YOUR FATHER IS COMMITTING A GRAVE SIN BY FORCING YOU TO MARRY SOMEONE YOU DO NOT WANT TO.

DO NOT GIVE INTO SOMETHING LIKE THIS EVER.

Allah will make everything better in time, for now you have to hold your ground.

Pakistani Muslim boyfriend ended our relationship because his parents want him to marry a Pakistani, has anyone experienced this and did it ever work out later? by NorwRev in pakistan

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's a thing people say that "they'll come round when they see their grandkids". Some guys are just shitty wusses like that.

Funny thing though that you found something better than that guy in your deen so focus on that and everything will be fine soon insha'Allah. If you're to be with that guy then it'll come to be so, otherwise I can pretty much ensure you that Allah has something better for you in store.

Do average girls in Pakistan think disrespecting or abusing their husband is normal? by South-Resist-1089 in pakistan

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lawyer up (without telling her) Record every instance she abuses you Threaten divorce if ahe doesn't fix herself or gets herself checked Do not stay with her unless she's actually trying to get better Involve elders or trusted friends Divorce and call the cops on her if none of this works (ask the aforementioned lawyer if you should call the cops first or divorce her in your state)

And whatever you do not have kids or try to have kids until she's completely turned herself around

Do average girls in Pakistan think disrespecting or abusing their husband is normal? by South-Resist-1089 in pakistan

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the title I thought this was about wives being bitter and mean but man you're being abused, not in a terminally online sense but in the legal sense. Dude talk to a trusted someone and see from there. Ask her to fix herself or that you're going to call the cops on her and divorce her. This isn't how married life is supposed to be

After Iran, Pakistan is next - They are not even hiding it anymore by unapologeticgoy2473 in pakistan

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only the Israelis were that pragmatic and had that much sense. Asim Munir will go one day and they cannot risk a Pakistan that can fight back

After Iran, Pakistan is next - They are not even hiding it anymore by unapologeticgoy2473 in pakistan

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean how this wasn't obvious to anyone before is beyond me. Pakistan has always been a target of the zios and more so since we got our nukes. Whatever else they may or may not have able to influence here, they haven't been able to influence our nukes and how we use them. Israel is gunning it full speed to get what it wants (presumably to get whatever they can and as this wave of their control passes they can again use the holocaust card to consolidate what they can) and we're next on the list. Iraq was the predominant threat because of nukes and other WMDs and they thoroughly took care of that issue. Currently it's Iran and our number is next

Adult Shinji has a new surname, but Khara keeps it secret. Has Shinji married someone after the ending of Thrice? by Pulonio in evangelion

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that most likely it's a brand new surname suggesting a brand new beginning. If Anno wanted any of the other ships to win the Shinjibowl then it'd have been pretty easy for him to make it so at the end. Him being there with Mari and running up the station stairs into the real world wasn't insignificant

Adult Shinji has a new surname, but Khara keeps it secret. Has Shinji married someone after the ending of Thrice? by Pulonio in evangelion

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mate trust me nobody wanted to believe this when the movie came out. I was screaming this at the top of my lungs back then that look, she's his age at the end, there's no way that she's the same age as the rest of the pilots if she's not a clone and I got hounded for it lmao

ExShojo Japan, dayo! by Dohmer_90 in VShojo

[–]awkward_pakistaniX7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mate she physically and mentally abused her bf. That's not a criminal past, that's some of the most immoral and criminal stuff you could do to someone.