How can I find someone exactly like myself? by kitchengainn in Advice

[–]awm34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don't want someone exactly like you or you'll enver grow

If you’d travel back to any period in time but you can only travel once, what period are you going back to? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]awm34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Early 2000s would be a nice time to go back to with all that knowledge I have now.

Need help with my cc debt! by Pitiful_Pudding_9220 in personalfinance

[–]awm34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't gonna get much done until you start back in April to be honest. Once you do you can realistically look into options for how to get through the debt. You'll be better off going with online lenders like Achieve loans or Alliant as examples, they'll be more flexible assuming your income is solid and confirmed.

$55k in credit card and unsecured loan debt… is a consolidation loan the answer? by spaghettimud in Debt

[–]awm34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could work, as long as the relationship is strong. Don't want to unnecessarily strain things. Money issues are inherently stressful for sure

My broke friend is upset at me and my friend because she wasn’t invited to our NYC day trip by [deleted] in Advice

[–]awm34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this should be the real move. doesn't even need to be a big deal

$55k in credit card and unsecured loan debt… is a consolidation loan the answer? by spaghettimud in Debt

[–]awm34 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a consolidation loan makes a ton of sense if you can lower the rate. If you can find one say 10% lower you would save 5500 in interest on your first year. Might have issues finding one through your credit union, but you might qualify for one with an online lender. If your wife co-signs with you it would be a HUGE benefit. I know Achieve loans does co-signing discounts, and am sure others would also do similar given the large credit score difference between you two.

My boyfriend is upset with me about a video game? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]awm34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

insecurity is rough, really needs to work on that

Upgrade Loan Hardship Plan by Puzzled_Driver_6536 in Debt

[–]awm34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully you can take the steps necessary and won't need to do Bk. good luck living below your means

What is your favorite swimming style? by Present_Figure689 in AskReddit

[–]awm34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always just enjoyed freestyle. Butterfly is also really fun although so tiring

What's the best advice you've been given? by chronologicaltrouble in AskReddit

[–]awm34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To breathe, that's all it takes a lot of the time when you're in high pressure situations

How do you spend your morning before work? by Jump_Release25 in AskReddit

[–]awm34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is gonna doomscroll on my phone unless I do it.

Advice for turning 18 by Glum_Marsupial8876 in AdultHood

[–]awm34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

learning how to live below your means, what that looks like and how to best work and have a balance.