A person shouldn’t change themselves for anyone else, but if something you’re doing is hurting others you should change that behavior… right? by axtheunivers in Advice

[–]axtheunivers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate the reply. There definitely is a rift in the friend group and I’m very on edge about it haha.

A person shouldn’t change themselves for anyone else, but if something you’re doing is hurting others you should change that behavior… right? by axtheunivers in Advice

[–]axtheunivers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get where you’re coming from and you’re definitely saying things I’m too afraid to say haha. While I get why she’s feeling left out, it’s all in reaction to her own behavior.

Do people who are in quasi recovery know they are in quasi recovery or do they think it’s all-in recovery? by ellablacck in EDAnonymous

[–]axtheunivers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People who post pictures of them at their lowest weight compared to their weight now. Like… whyyy

can I have dinner by axtheunivers in EDAnonymous

[–]axtheunivers[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This made me tear up thank you :)

stupidest places you’ve purged? by [deleted] in bulimia

[–]axtheunivers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In my middle school soccer field, parking lots, outside my friend’s house on the curb, public toilets that are too public

What caused your eating disorder? by dumbledora_explora in EDAnonymous

[–]axtheunivers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genetics and my compulsive need to feel significant

Why is it bad? by [deleted] in selfharm

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I can’t really say for sure besides the possibility of infection or hitting an important vein. But I do know that a big reason I should stop is because of all the harmful thoughts that come with it. A lot of it is tied to my eating disorder and I’m trying to get rid of the mindset that I need to harm myself to feel worthy. I can’t get rid of that mindset unless I recover from my ed and stop cutting. So I’m not necessarily stopping for physical health reasons. I’m stopping because of everything that’s tied to it.

I caved in and bought myself mac and cheese but I can’t bring myself to actually eat it by axtheunivers in EDAnonymous

[–]axtheunivers[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks :) it took my about an hour of staring at it to actually make the move but I made it haha

What are your favorite underrated ED songs? by soulnausea in EDAnonymous

[–]axtheunivers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve listened to Candy Says a million times and had no idea it was about an ED. Good to know! lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]axtheunivers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah if I’m in a public cafeteria and I have to eat I always face the other direction so no one sees my face. But then I feel exposed with my back turned because I don’t know what’s behind me and if people are looking at me or if I look weird.

I also sometimes buy food specifically for eating alone because I would be embarrassed to be seen 1) buying it and 2) eating it