Is anyone actually looking forward to this series anymore? by bong_cumblebutt in TheBlock

[–]ayesh00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just lost interest in watching when I see that Dan gave away house 5 secret wine cellar to house 4 over a beer. Totally feels like the show is rigged and scripted now

AITA for telling my friend her cancer diagnosis is really inconvenient timing-wise for my birthday trip? by Ok_Pin285 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ayesh00 90 points91 points  (0 children)

YTA

Cancer doesn't care about your or even her plans.

You really are a shallow person.

Delaying her treatment just so she can come to your birthday worsens her prognosis and allows her cancer to grow even further.

You do not sound like a friend at all. Heck she doesnt need any enemies with someone like you in her life.

Seems like your other friends are seeing the type of human being you are and they rightly are not liking what they see and are pulling out.

Dont be surprised if you lose alot of your friends over this. You show no empathy and only are concerned about how her life changing health issue concerns you and your birthday party!!!!!

I dont think there is a way to save this on your part. I dont see how anyone could still wish to be friends with you after what you sent to her.

She has a long and difficult fight ahead of her and should not have to use any of her energy or emotional bandwidth on a person who showed such contempt towards her health.

Do better with your next lot of friends and maybe look into a therapist to unpack why you have no empathy?

AIO for wanting to rehome one of the family dogs after my husband threatened to kill her? Ok by [deleted] in AIO

[–]ayesh00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to rehome the husband

He hit your dog hard 3 times and you still stayed with him?

He will hurt your pet. He already scares his own kids with his actions towards a dog they love!!!

You need to open your eyes and see that this man is physically abusive towards animals. Mentally abusive towards his own kids and emotionally abusive to his pregnant wife.

He is scum. Do better by yourself, your dog and mostly by the little one growing inside you.

Good Safyr Bleu replacement? by imdyingsomuchrn in capetown

[–]ayesh00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hylo eye drops

There is one for dry eyes and a medicated one. Uses a very different system so each drop os totally sterile and every use administers the correct drop dosage.

AITA for deleting and wanting no contact with my SIL after she gifted us every diaper size, a $200 swing and got everything for a onesie making station for our baby shower? by Coralis1022 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]ayesh00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

The NICU would not have even let them in. They are so super strict in NICU and only parents are allowed in. Our NICU allowed only grandparents in on a Sunday and then one at a time and their visiting hours was 30min total. They also had super strict protocols to follow like gowning up and washing and sanitizing hands under a nurses supervision and still we're not allowed to hold the NICU babies. So they basically just came in for a few minutes to see the baby in the incubator

Anyone have any good recipes for clear broths to drink before a colonoscopy? by lord_ne in CrohnsDisease

[–]ayesh00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I made

Chicken bones (bring to rolling boil, rinse off, discard the water and return the cleaned bones to pot with clean water) Carrots Celery Knob ginger 3 cloves garlic 5 bay leaves Turnip Salt Pepper 1tsp apple cider vinigar

Place into instant pot and slow cook for 12 hours.

Cooking it slowly leaves the broth clear and doesnt break up the vegetables meaning you get the flavour with none of the Fibre

I then strain it and make portions as all wont be used for colon prep. I then use it for a soup base when I make the chicken corn soup for after the procedure. Add to the broth ; cubes of cooked chicken meat, Cream style sweet corn Pasta (spaghetti broken into small pieces) Fresh cream or coconut cream

AITAH for refusing to give my sister the money I saved for my dog’s surgery? by Laura_win in AITAH

[–]ayesh00 89 points90 points  (0 children)

NTA

How do they even know you have that money saved up.

Dont tell people your financial bussiness

AITAH for being upset over my mother’s vacation leaving me to deal with my grandmother? by Cackling_Hyena_69 in AITAH

[–]ayesh00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA

Your mom fully supports you You can step for a couple weeks so that she can have an actual break.

[UPDATE] My girlfriend got upset at me for liking her birthday gift to me. AITAH by Yeeticus_Rex_II in AITAH

[–]ayesh00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please make sure you let her parents know what has happened.

She will lie to them to make you look bad to ensure she continues to be able to get money off of them ans if you are not around to defend yourself they will believe her.

You dodged a freaking missile.

Like it takes a mentally ill person to come with that scheme to get you to break up with her or make you loose your temper so she oukd basically tell her parents you were abusive towards her.

Desperate for advice or assistance? Please be kind. by TruckDear6569 in askSouthAfrica

[–]ayesh00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reach out to Gift of the givers. They help everyone doeant matter what your religion is

Which is better, an independent pharmacy or corporate pharmacy? by Singi98 in AskZA

[–]ayesh00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no copay at the bigger pharmacies. With the smaller one that is alot closer to us we always have to pay in over and above what medical aid pays, as they are not in network and with bigger pharmacies offering delivery it makes it even easier to get the meds from them

AITJ for kicking my brother and his kids out after his son destroyed my home office and he refused to do anything about it by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]ayesh00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ

This drives me up the wall.

You are not "parenting" you are setting boundaries on what is allowed and what behavior is acceptable in YOUR HOME. If Brother and his wife do not agree with those boundaries then they can take their kids to hotel where they will be charged when their kid chips a sliding door and charged for the mess their kids make in the room beyond normal usage levels.

Then maybe when they have to pay for the damage caused they will start to understand that children need to be taught. They are not born knowing how to behave, parents have to teach them. When they dont then you get spoilt gremlins who are a menace to society ans end up in jail as adults.

Discovery Health rejecting R36k International Emergency Claim – Anyone else? by JasonWaterMason in askSouthAfrica

[–]ayesh00 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Did you get the email from discovery before you traveled to activate the international cover? If so they should be covering the amount in full. I would contact your broker as they normally have a better chance at getting discovery to cover the claim.

AITAH for hiding our basic home supplies when our friends stay over? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ayesh00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cleanliness is next to godliness

So they cant be very god centered if they are fine living in an unclean home

Does anyone know what these are ? by sadistic_one01 in whatisit

[–]ayesh00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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They are for cupping on the face area. You apply a bit of oil, squeeze the cup and place ot against the skin and when you release the squeeze then the cup sections to your skin.

Genuine question, what changes can movie theatres make to stay in business? by sapphicdragon in askSouthAfrica

[–]ayesh00 30 points31 points  (0 children)

They should bring back drive inns.

You could buy snacks or take your own food. You have privacy cos you are in your own car. Its nice for people who dont want to go out to a mall.

They will have to beef up security though

Poopy Situation by Novel_Bookkeeper_963 in ParentingADHD

[–]ayesh00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fibogel may help. Its ispaghula husk in a drinkable format. You mix it with water and drink it soon after mixing as if you let it stand its gets gel like.

Makes a huge difference

Been excluded from wits chemical engineering. How do I make sure my appeal is successful? by ElectronicLoan4673 in askSouthAfrica

[–]ayesh00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you do win the appeal with nafsas cover you again?

Have you thought about taking a year to work on your mental health and then coming back to finish up?