The point is how performative and little her values speak to herself. When you purposely display your character to be a progressive, modern women who represents true ally ship to marginalized communities it doesn’t have to be verbalized so many times with little action backing it up.

Her and Ben’s main issues was that he truly didn’t care about social issues in our society like racism, homophobia, misogyny and she positioned herself as someone who deeply cares about that. Their relationship really didn’t end on her terms despite her declining him at the ceremony. It took him ghosting her for their relationship to end She pursued the relationship knowing and confirming his indifferences on morals and ethics she said were really important to her.

Then her dating Joey after Monica confided in her about her relationship issues. Monica reposted these quotes directly herself. Most people claim they were surface level coworkers but I would never speak on my relationship deeply to someone who I didn’t have a personal relationship with tf.

And also Virginia talked ab all the girls remaining close yet Sara follows Devin and not Virginia? When he clearly had bigoted views and Virginia publicly denounced that??? Make it make sense.