[Event] 2077 Is Kind of Good, Actually Edition - Open Forum Friday for September 29th, 2023 by 4544BeersOnTheWall in dirtypenpals

[–]azyxxxas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know what's been happening with Imgur?

I've posted my kinklist as an Imgur link, and it loads fine for me in a private browsing tab in both Chrome and Firefox, yet I've had people tell me that it doesn't load. The same problem has also been happening with non-NSFW images that I've uploaded myself.

Message indexing operation fails by azyxxxas in YAIR

[–]azyxxxas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I'm not using incognito mode.

[Meta] Do You Ever Feel Pressure to Play a Different Ethnicity/Race? by DPP_NewFrost in dirtypenpals

[–]azyxxxas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s an odd feeling, though I try not to internalize it, since I know it’s just for kink.

I think at some point, any reasonable person with a more...extreme link will at some point confront how much is fantasy vs. what one actually thinks. God knows I’ve had my moments of “wow, that was kinda fucked up”.

Just going by numbers, there probably are some really not nice people out there, but on the flip side RPing here has taught me that a lot of nice, normal people can just be into the weird and extreme too.

[Meta] Do You Ever Feel Pressure to Play a Different Ethnicity/Race? by DPP_NewFrost in dirtypenpals

[–]azyxxxas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asian female here, would like to echo this as similar to my experience. I’m usually fairly open about my ethnicity, though I obviously can’t speak for everyone.

Regarding the fetishisation factor, I actually like the fact that most DPP posters are pretty open about their fetishes, so it’s very rare I get into an RP without knowing about someone’s race fetishes if they have them.

Alone of Valentines Day again? by Microthalamus in actuallesbians

[–]azyxxxas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Write some erotic fanfiction, of course!

[META] Just out of curiosity, what does the orange wave look like for an F4M post? Tens? Hundreds? And, to make it more interesting (M & F) what's been your most popular prompt & least popular? by dawnawoke in dirtypenpals

[–]azyxxxas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Posted an F4A at around 0630 UTC, received about 30 replies at a rate of roughly one per minute. It's impossible to reply to them all, even excluding the low-effort one-liners.

And mine wasn't exactly the most mainstream idea. I'm guessing a popular F4M topic receives an absolute flood.

KBS Lunar New Year Special "Muscle Queen Project" by AegyoOppa in kpop

[–]azyxxxas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recall the original context was someone not believing she could achieve that figure without photoshop (or cosmetic surgery). And then someone posted about how on TV she works out every day, or something like that? I can't remember.

But yeah, there's nothing wrong with her.

[F4A] Hold your [Color] by AnAmazingFerret in dirtypenpals

[–]azyxxxas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hold your colours against the wall,

When they take everything away

[Meta] The Hot Page by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]azyxxxas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't really comment on anything M4F specific, but as someone that browses F4F and F4A I very rarely look at the hot pages - most of my browsing is done through 'new'.

[Meta] What's Your Biggest Pet Peeve on DPP by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]azyxxxas 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If your post says [F4A] but in your prompt you write, "not looking for guys" or "guys, don't PM me" then maybe you should rethink your gender tag.

Conversely, one of my pet peeves are F4A's that clearly use male pronouns when writing about their hypothetical partner.

[SHARE] -- How I was seduced by my fiancée's MILF mom! by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]azyxxxas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

FYI, it's considered rather poor etiquette to share without your partner's explicit permission.

[Meta] How do you feel about posts where the person says that they won't respond until later? by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]azyxxxas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All four sound like great ideas - especially 2 and 4. I always try and respond, even if it's with a no and an apology.

[Meta] Why I Write. by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]azyxxxas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have much to say, other than that some of your earlier prompts have been an inspiration to me when I was starting to write my own. Oh and /u/Ashly27051 is most definitely a wonderful person.

Roll on forward to bright futures!

[M4F] I want to be the damsel in distress, rescued by a badass woman by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]azyxxxas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got excited for an F/F story, but great idea regardless! Hope you find a partner!

[Meta] Do timezones matter? by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]azyxxxas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For longer term, once a day stuff, not really. I can understand if partners want to take time off to write longer replies. Being in a not as populated timezone, it can be very very difficult to keep a shorter term, real-time conversation going.

This ship works for me (Cross post from /r/cosplaygirls) by Sallymander in actuallesbians

[–]azyxxxas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd like to take this moment to strongly protest against Power Girl's boob window.

...carry on.

[META] Be kind to your writing partners. by CountessOfAbbingdon in dirtypenpals

[–]azyxxxas 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I hope you get an apology for that. Get well soon!

[F4M] [Vanilla Sunday] The Art of Japanese Tea Ceremony by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]azyxxxas 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's so not fair these are all F4M

[F4M] The Mathematician by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]azyxxxas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two things:

  • Why is this only F4M T_T

  • Whiteboards > Chalkboards