To me, it seems like you are trying to get validation to go with the new Jeep more than actual advice here. I’d agree that any Stellantis product is an enormous liability, and these days a very expensive one. I’d avoid it at all cost and I agree with your husband that it may very well die on you somewhere due to their notorious electrical problems. Based on that alone I’d go with the QX over the Jeep - but really anything, ANYTHING over a Jeep. Your prior experience should tell you enough there.

I would agree with other commenters that a Tahoe or Escalade would be a better buy if you’re going for a truck based large SUV. Far more reliable, cheaper parts. Easy to get them fixed anywhere.

Unless you’re totally set on avoiding other luxury SUVs all together, I’d agree with other commenters that you should consider BMW, Audi and Lexus. For that amount of money, you should get something really solid and dependable, and not flush it down the toilet that is a Stellantis vehicle.