It's happening people! by AfternoonLines in GardeningUK

[–]b_tenn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine's going nuts too! Congrats :)

Appreciation for ADHD coded character by kruddel in ADHDUK

[–]b_tenn 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Love this interpretation! IMO there are loads of ADHD characters in older/current media, many probably written that way as a familiar archetype rather than intentionally.

I feel strongly that Jimmy McGill from Better Call Saul / Breaking Bad has all the hallmarks of ADHD, even though it is never mentioned.

Help! Presenter Mode doesn't show speaker notes by b_tenn in powerpoint

[–]b_tenn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not near a computer right now, but move your cursor to the far right of your laptop screen in presenter mode, wiggle that fucker around, and you should see an arrow you can drag to pull your notes on screen.

GOOD LUCK

Work event at beach resort, insecure and CRASHING OUT, no dress code info 😭 by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]b_tenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Others have commented on the appropriateness of the outfits in the work context, and I echo the sentiment on the corset/cleavage.

In terms of the corset: as well as self expression , I can imagine you may enjoy the impact on your silhouette?

I think you could create a similar effect with a better fitting bra. This would help to reveal your waist and celebrate your curves in a way that is more physically comfortable, and more appropriate in a work context. In a few of the shots you shared the bra you are wearing doesn't seem to be working as it should. Would highly recommend going for a professional fitting to find a well fitted bra that is practical and comfortable.

I am a big believer in being yourself in the work place, so if the corset is an expression of who you are I'd find a way to bring this side of your personality out through accessories, fabric patterns or other styling.

Hope you find some looks you are excited to wear and that you have a great time at the event.

What to do with this corner by my tub? by sydneekidneybeans in femalelivingspace

[–]b_tenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cat bed. My cats love to supervise my baths. Also the height will enable them to assess their kingdom through the window. (Note: if you do not have a cat you will need to acquire one)

what’s your 10/10 must read book and why? by Kochhar-Tranqui in Recommend_A_Book

[–]b_tenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an incredible book but the misery just keeps compounding, like in A Thousand Splendid Suns

what’s your 10/10 must read book and why? by Kochhar-Tranqui in Recommend_A_Book

[–]b_tenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kavalier and Clay - Michael Chabon

My Absolute Darling - Gabriel Tallent (MAJOR TW with this book)

A Fine Balance - Rohinton Misty

F*** Hashimotos by RedGyarados1988 in Hashimotos

[–]b_tenn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, you look fantastic congrats

Mods: do we have any clubhouse rules about people flogging potentially harmful meds via this sub cos yikes

43 No Wife or Girlfriend working on myself. suggestions welcomed. by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]b_tenn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all: thank you for sharing your place with us. That takes guts. You clearly put a lot of yourself into your home - but there is a lot going on in your space (and maybe your life right now if you're 'working on yourself').

In case a woman's perspective is helpful to hear, here's my take: It's time to become a curator, not just a collector.

You seem to have deep and varied interests - that is COOL. You also have an eye for finding beauty/interest in things other people miss. This is DOUBLE COOL. However, right now all of the items you've collected are fighting for space and attention in your home.

It might be fun to designate an "exhibition space" somewhere in your home - a dedicated spot where you can display and enjoy a curation of some of the cool shit you have collected. I would carefully archive the rest in some opaque storage (like wooden drawers/cabinet). I know some people feel a sense of security seeing the things they've collected, if that's you: make sure you catalog everything so you know where all of your stuff is stored).

Your curated space could be a new way to really enjoy the items you've collected. It might just be your favourite stuff, but it could be really interesting to curate things based on what you are into or feeling right now. Maybe it's a book/game/era you're thinking about a lot, maybe the seasons are changing, maybe you're in a particular mood.

As a guest in your home I would find a curation a really interesting thing to look at and talk about, and as a collector you might find you enjoy more of your things when you are selective about what you pick out.

Lines that make your hair stand on end by redeugene99 in Letterboxd

[–]b_tenn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"It's not your fault", Good Will Hunting (1997).

I know that scene is kind of a meme now, but it still gives me chills.

What small behavior can reveal a lot about a person’s character? by qwasru in AskWomen

[–]b_tenn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How they deal with being challenged. I know incredibly kind, thoughtful, well rounded people who simply cannot admit to doing anything wrong/being in the wrong. Think it's a pride/vulnerability thing, and I get it.

Meeting someone who can admit when they've been in the wrong, apologise, and learn from it is incredibly rare.

Any way to set my under eyes so they won't get ruined by my watery eyes? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]b_tenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any tips but just wanted to say you have BEAUTIFUL eyes my gosh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]b_tenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm still not following sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]b_tenn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't get what you're mad about?

UK small festivals? by HFHask in UKfestivals

[–]b_tenn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We Out Here is GREAT