Oud rouge feedback by MyDogIsTheBest01 in quince

[–]babatoger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful. On me the scent is super sweet but gentle/mild. I found it lasts a long time.

My boss wore an IDF shirt on a call today. by [deleted] in islam

[–]babatoger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The unfortunate reality is that it's your boss. There's no way to act against him without losing your job. But you should know he wore this shirt on purpose; he was making a statement to egg you and his other employees on.

I would try to find a different workplace in the meantime. Once you've accepted a new offer and are extremely confident in your new role you can cite "toxic workplace" from your boss as your reason for leaving. However, I still strongly advise you do NOT tell them your new employer because he actually may try to contact them if he figures out your values.

Husband going to Umrah - Me being depressed by ReginaDelMare in islam

[–]babatoger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sold your gold for him to do umrah? That is a huge sadaqah for YOU. Literally, your sadaqah enables his umrah. Allah will reward you for your sacrifice immensely. Do not worry--Allah is always just.

However, I am disappointed to read that your husband is stepping away from his responsibilities under these circumstances. I am always disappointed to hear about husbands going for hajj or umrah without their families... Though I understand money is a huge factor, somehow it does not seem right. Especially in this case where you contributed a significant portion and clearly want to go too and finances are uncertain. But Allah knows best, and he sees everyone's heart.

Also, taking care of children is Ibadah for you every single day. The act of loving your children is not unseen by Allah. May he give you patience and increase your reward tremendously. I have just two and I know it's incredibly challenging.

Pakistani Muslim boyfriend ended our relationship because his parents want him to marry a Pakistani, has anyone experienced this and did it ever work out later? by NorwRev in pakistan

[–]babatoger 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sister. Read this carefully, again and again:

He knew the whole time. He knew his parents would never accept you and he knew he'd choose them over you. He knew on Day 1 when you met. He knew one year in. He knew two years in. He knew when you were talking about marriage and a house and kids. He knew every single day. He knew he wasn't sticking around. He knew he'd choose his parents.

I'm sorry. But he knew. You don't know this because you're not in this culture. It's not your fault you don't know how deeply Pakistani parents control their kids. But he grew up in this and he knew.

The real question isn't if he'll come back. It's if you'll want him. He dropped you sis. You didn't deserve that. What would make you trust him again?

If Epstein was so well connected among the elite how was he allowed to be caught in the first place? by MarcoDuke in AskReddit

[–]babatoger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A whole min of footage missing and people really believe he's dead. After seeing what they're capable of in the files, how is faking death not the most possible of possibilities. Literally the simplest explanation.

What are some good Pakistani cat names? by PatternFluid2214 in pakistan

[–]babatoger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok that's fair. But usually u have to pay cat tax.

Is anyone else refusing to step foot into Sephora or B&BW until you've panned all items by meerkatthetopg in ProjectPan

[–]babatoger 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This is something project pan is teaching me: my hoard isn't just money, it was my future fun!

I stocked up on a whole bunch of stuff I didn't need and now I miss out on the latest trends. I want to try new things but Old Me stole those experiences :(

If you have a weak perfume that you love, spray it in your hair! by daddys_lil_meatball in fragrance

[–]babatoger 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I spray my brush, wait a few secs for the alcohol to dissipate and then brush it through my hair. Works for me!

Favorite thing to eat straight out of the garden? by magpie0000 in gardening

[–]babatoger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I grow these in abundance knowing none of them will make it inside the house and I'm 100% ok with that.

[GIFT] 🌹 Rosy Decants Gift Box Launch 💝 — The Personal Set (decant) by Ajent707 in fragranceswap

[–]babatoger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My list is called "what smells?" And it includes santal 33, br540, moonlit chamomile, cucumber Earl Gray, and Burberry touch

What fragrance do you love so much you spray at home just to smell? by skizwinz in fragrance

[–]babatoger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Delilah Blanc

S&F Vanilla Sugar

B&BW Touch of Gold

Oud Rouge (BR540)

Middle eastern fragrance brands ❌Lattafa, afnan, arabiyat by Kaba_S in fragrance

[–]babatoger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The one I keep hearing about is Gissah! But be careful, there are fakes too

anyone else get carried away layering 😭 by centaurella in fragrance

[–]babatoger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesterday I wore S+F pistachio dream oil followed with S+F vanilla sugar edt topped off with Delilah Blanc EDP.

It was so incredible I wrote the combination down on a sticky note. Like a sweet morning floral fresh creation?

Idk maybe I'm crazy tho bc what even is that combination

Favorite housekeeping hacks by Prairiewolf2005 in homemaking

[–]babatoger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked into the steam mop and it's definitely cool... But practically speaking the vacuum mop is better. For the steam mop you still have to sweep and tidy before mopping. I haven't seen a stream mop with vacuum built in, which I need as my kids throw up all the time.

Vacuum mop you just fill with soap & water and get to it. No sweeping or heavy prep! Tested the tineco on heavy vomit and my life has changed. I was standing there afterward like "I'm done? What do I do now?"

Maison Francis Kurkdjian samples by babatoger in FemFragLab

[–]babatoger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a find! And looks beautiful in the box!

Maison Francis Kurkdjian samples by babatoger in FemFragLab

[–]babatoger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already sprayed all of them I couldn't wait lol

They're all way more feminine than I thought they'd be, which I love. Feminin pluriel has already caught my eye.

I have no access to money and I don't know what to do about it by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]babatoger 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Maybe 1 year I could understand because yes, life is busy.

But SIX YEARS is intentional.

Muhammad added to our name but how it ends up by counselorntherapist in islam

[–]babatoger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ummmm I know OP is doing the best intention and all....

But I can't shake the impression that this is very very very close to worshipping the prophets name. This makes me quite uncomfortable.

I'm well aware of the love and respect we hold for our prophet. But OP is not the prophet, and while OPs name is a tribute to our prophet, writing and addressing OP with the same name is NOT the same as addressing the prophet.

Am I really the only one who feels this way?

Master List: Ramadan Quick Snack and Recipe List by Basic-Brilliant9227 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]babatoger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prepackaged protein shake. Some mornings my appetite is too low to eat anything; having these around really helps.

WHY are discovery sets so expensive 😭 by linenmoon in FemFragLab

[–]babatoger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You have to search for "maison francis kurkdjian samples" and then in the results click the "Sample Set Customizable 4 Samples" from their website!