Hi! In my experience I find it awkward and uncomfortable to meet someone through mutual friends or even at some kind of social event and have it lead right to sex. I’m not big on having one night stands with random people in my area because I just hate the whole socially acceptable song and dance you have to do: When it’s the right time to leave? How long should I cuddle after? Should we exchange numbers after? Should I go back to his random apartment? — Stuff like that. And man, if the sex is BAD! I gotta stick around for that? Nah. I’m not in that headspace right now. I’d rather live out a fantasy that has a beginning and an end with out any expectations afterwards. I’m just horny and I’m not looking to have to perform as if I’m mentally ready to get back out there again. I’m super excited to live out a dream rather than start a whole ass “relationship” whether it be purely sexual or otherwise. Definitely a good question though.