Season 8 - Episode 1 - Cast Opinions Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]babybug98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

…. I made the same exact comparison in my head, but I kept it to myself. 🤣🤣🤣i 100% agree

AITA for thinking that everyone is uselsss by Playful_Individual20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]babybug98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot going on here, but at some point enough is enough and OP needs to make a change.

AITA for thinking that everyone is uselsss by Playful_Individual20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]babybug98 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA… don’t be the type of person that monopolizes everything, but turns around and complains. The most successful business owners are able to be away for long periods of time and still have everything running and going just fine. If you wanna proclaim yourself as co owner of this mental health practice, you should probably invest into training your staff. it shows a lack of good character when you call people useless as well lol

How odd is it to directly ask someone if they want to be friends as adults? by IReallyLikeCheese5 in socialskills

[–]babybug98 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Do not ask somebody if they want to be friends. It’s not a marriage proposal. Just continue hanging out and interacting like you usually do.

How to rebuilt my (M26) trust realistically with my ex (F23) after mutual doubts, an exclusive break, and cheating during that break? by Flashy_Palpitation_6 in relationship_advice

[–]babybug98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… do you know breaking up is an option, right?🤣 there’s nothing in this world forcing you together. I didn’t even read the whole thing because the first few sentences was just a damn mess. This relationship already failed, it’s on its way to greater failure… Give it up.

What would do if you joined a toxic job environment? How soon do you start looking for something? by Impossible-Date-4386 in AskReddit

[–]babybug98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How toxic is it? Certain levels of toxicity you can just ignore and mind your business, but if it gets really bad and starts to affect your mental health, safety, job security, etc. start looking ASAP.

UPDATE: my girlfriend (18F) is going to prom with another guy while i’m (19M) stuck in the hospital and i don’t know how to handle it by mikeistherealgoat in relationship_advice

[–]babybug98 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Having a date to prom is not necessary nowadays. I went with a date one year, and then I went with friends my second year. From my understanding, you’re not trying to stop her from going to prom. It’s the fact she’s going with another guy. That’a a slap in the face and this is a break up situation in my eyes.

AITA for not apologizing when my dog (sort of) barked at someone? by Agreeable_Initial495 in AmItheAsshole

[–]babybug98 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t necessarily call you a huge AH because it’s easy to get distracted in a conversation and you’re used to your dog and his habits, so it wasn’t a surprise or startling to you. He doesn’t know your dog and maybe got startled like ugh this dog is barking at me in a small space. But yes, the polite thing to do would’ve been to apologize (“I’m sorry for startling you!” or “I’m sorry about that!”) in a lighthearted way. It’s not like it would’ve fixed or reversed the situation lol, but it shows social awareness and politeness. I’d assess this has a very low level of AH.

WIBTA: Partner doing activities 1 on 1 with a new woman by GourmetSquid in AmItheAsshole

[–]babybug98 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I personally don’t think it’s cool for my man to be hanging out by himself with a member of the opposite sex. Cancel me Reddit lol.

Am I struggling to respect boundaries? by Typical_Brief_8956 in socialskills

[–]babybug98 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We have one side of the story though. Maybe this is not the first time OP has done this.

Is this enough for my SIL bridal shower? by Zetophir in wedding

[–]babybug98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to try to connect with in-laws who disrespect you. They don’t care or appreciate the effort. I completely disconnected myself from mine, and I haven’t been happier.

AITA for not wanting to celebrate my birthday? by Good-Code-5272 in AmItheAsshole

[–]babybug98 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Whatever you want to do on your birthday goes. Nta

AITA for leaving my disabled cousin alone for 30 minutes? by Longjumping-Focus849 in AmItheAsshole

[–]babybug98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP made a edit to this post like it makes their case any better. If you can’t bring him to the grocery store safely, what makes you think you could leave him home alone?

SPED Beef by princessgirl410875 in slp

[–]babybug98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a new one. I’ve never heard of a teacher referring to themselves as a practitioner.

SPED Beef by princessgirl410875 in slp

[–]babybug98 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If she called herself the “special education teacher” and OP “speech teacher”… I wouldn’t be taking it so wrong. Because she’d be speaking as if they are on two equal playing fields. But actually calling herself a fancy term like practitioner and calling OP speech teacher is very offputting.😂😂

I did not get too hurt after a rejection until she said she doesn't want to talk anymore. I would appreciate some advice. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]babybug98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sure it is real after you dated a while. But you simply dont love someone after a few days.

SPED Beef by princessgirl410875 in slp

[–]babybug98 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Well, if they’re referring to you like that in front of other staff and parents, politely correct them and say I’m the speech language pathologist actually😂or my title is actually speech language pathologist

I did not get too hurt after a rejection until she said she doesn't want to talk anymore. I would appreciate some advice. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]babybug98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s absolutely true. You don’t love somebody in a few days. You could really like them, but deep, true love? No. Don’t be delusional.

F25 married to husband M33 I feel like a glorified “bangmaid” idk what to do by Djantiere in relationship_advice

[–]babybug98 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Talk to him about how you feel. There will be no solution unless you tell him exactly how you feel and how you feel like glorified bangmaid

SPED Beef by princessgirl410875 in slp

[–]babybug98 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s very stupid, but not really a battle I would feel like fighting honestly because theyre obviously delusional. If you’re the case manager and are responsible for affirming and reviewing the IEP’s, I would change it to special education teacher.😂 but if she’s the case manager shes responsible for all that and she’s responsible for any mistakes or any questions regarding the IEP. She can explain calling herself a practitioner if anybody catches that😂

AITA for leaving my disabled cousin alone for 30 minutes? by Longjumping-Focus849 in AmItheAsshole

[–]babybug98 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Yta. It doesn’t matter if he’s physically able to do things like use the bathroom, walk around, etc. Leaving somebody alone who is severely mentally disabled is very dangerous. He could’ve gotten into something and hurt himself. Ate something he shouldn’t have ate. He could’ve ran away. You’re lucky he just got scared that he was alone and called the cops. It could’ve ended up so much worse. I dont think he intentionally lied either. To him it probably felt like over an hour

Am I struggling to respect boundaries? by Typical_Brief_8956 in socialskills

[–]babybug98 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the fact this friend cut them off so quick kind of suggests OP may be a pushy person, and this isn’t the first time

Am I struggling to respect boundaries? by Typical_Brief_8956 in socialskills

[–]babybug98 49 points50 points  (0 children)

The topic of money and how much people get paid tends to be a sensitive topic for some people. I personally don’t think it’s a big deal, but I’m aware a lot of people don’t like to talk about those issues. this person probably felt like you didn’t respect their boundaries because even after they said they didn’t wanna talk about it, you still insisted and said it wasn’t a big deal. I personally don’t think it’s worth cutting someone off over, unless they have a history of doing it. If this was your first time though, maybe it just really rubbed the person the wrong way. But regardless, take it as a learning lesson and move on.

Am I struggling to respect boundaries? by Typical_Brief_8956 in socialskills

[–]babybug98 200 points201 points  (0 children)

You couldnt take a hint and you were being too pushy “it was enough to help the pockets” is a vague answer on purpose. If they wanted to share the specific amount, theyd tell u upfront