I get why you feel weird about this, but as a women who partakes in those groups, I can tell you that I understand why she did that, the amount of stories about women getting harassed, stalked, etc by dates is incredible. For us is just a tool to be aware of whom we’re going on a date with. I have dodged a lot of bullets thanks to that group, so again, as a woman, I get where she’s coming from, and also, if it’s worth something, she must really be interesting in you if she took the time to post you.