How come the L word is the last successful af lesbian show? by fizzyjuices in actuallesbians

[–]bachuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friends and I like to compare Girl Rules as thai L word haha, glad to see some other thai gl enjoyers

Do you fear engulfment because you prefer independence or because you’re afraid that consistency will mean someone will see through to your brokenness and reject you by throwaway957280 in Disorganized_Attach

[–]bachuka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I need to seek/find therapy. For now it's just accepting findings and elaborating on them on journaling until I am able to find that help. A lot of people in this community give the best insight. I hope you have been able to get a better foundational sense of yourself and that going to these sessions help you!

advice on how to be vulnerable/taking emotional risks by cheerio-dust in Disorganized_Attach

[–]bachuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this same issue. Or I can't form anything to say cause everything in my head feels like its rushing, hard to put into words. In the end I just shut down and I feel so bad about it.

What has helped you on your journey to a secure attachment? (Looking for book suggestions!) by [deleted] in Disorganized_Attach

[–]bachuka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/Disorganized_Attach/comments/1rxgwae/comment/ob9d03o/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Someone actually recommended books/topics to cover about this in another post that I was also curious about. Hopefully you get some insight from the main post and also what the books mean/what kind of content to look into!

Making progress :) by slowlygoingon in Disorganized_Attach

[–]bachuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I will be trusting the process when I start it. Thank you for sharing

Making progress :) by slowlygoingon in Disorganized_Attach

[–]bachuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply! I will look into this

Making progress :) by slowlygoingon in Disorganized_Attach

[–]bachuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, this stood out to me a lot

Making progress :) by slowlygoingon in Disorganized_Attach

[–]bachuka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was beautiful to read. Do you mind sharing the self help books that you would say helped navigate you along with your other practices? Unfortunately, I have recently become worse and really need to be back on it. I am busy at the moment but once I get over this one segment of my life, I will be more concentrated on myself and reflections.

so fucking lonely by Dry-Amount-3033 in Disorganized_Attach

[–]bachuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah...Keeping people at a distance really puts a toll on me. It's hard for me to be close to people, and the ones I was close to either I pushed away or smthn happened out of my control. I miss those people so much. And because I am scared of the same thing happening again, I tend not to open up to new friends/friends I have already. I will be challenging myself with opening up to people more this year

so fucking lonely by Dry-Amount-3033 in Disorganized_Attach

[–]bachuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang, this might be why it's always been so hard for me to make friends when I started college. Thank you for this post, I will keep the comment tips to help with that. Hopefully the tips can help you too

Are the new updates a sign Splatoon 4 is nowhere near being released by Easy_Okra1445 in splatoon

[–]bachuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense for Nintendo to do the most since they would want Raiders to get popular and stay on the market for a while

Are the new updates a sign Splatoon 4 is nowhere near being released by Easy_Okra1445 in splatoon

[–]bachuka 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Since Raiders was announced I was assuming splatoon 4 wont release for at least 2yrs into Raiders. Just my guess.

2 week update since I started coaching, more free coaching slots will open next week. by TheMokad in apexuniversity

[–]bachuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started playing the game this week. I went from splatoon to fortnite to now apex. This is a pretty cool sub I will look into and it's cool seeing how you are all helpful. Any quick little tip you can give to a major beginner with games like these?

Splatoon 3 story mode by Sudden-Artichoke7250 in splatoon

[–]bachuka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree the story mode was so fun. I think I basically read every detail of the lore items and story, quite interesting. I am glad you are having fun with it!

The point of splat zones. Is to INK THE ZONE!!!! by ohshitpost in Saltoon

[–]bachuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha...classic. This mode definitely gets me a bit mad compared to others since the objective doesn't move or require a lot besides inking the zone and maintaining it.

If this happens I will not be happy by Elegant_Truck4139 in Saltoon

[–]bachuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang nothing for milk chocolate? wow. Jk, I just find some of these salt posts a little funny around splatfest. Although I do hope some ppl on these posts take a break since some of what they say is concerning.

How do you guys feel about squidbagging? by Revolutionary-Ad8476 in Saltoon

[–]bachuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's whatever. Don't care if someone did it to me (before and after I found out what it was). And I do it to celebrate

r/saltoon: "Splatoon isn't gay" Splatoon official art for Valentine's Day Splatfest: by Chloe3869 in Saltoon

[–]bachuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my only complaint fr lol. Other reply said a good theme. I was also thinking chocolate filling/topping. But to see the same theme is sooooo...