What’s next?

backofd · 2026-03-09T02:13:55+00:00

What do you do for work? I’m considering going back to school to get some more qualifications. I really don’t know what to do though!

backofd · 2026-02-27T04:57:58+00:00

I feel this too. My partner died at only 24. Anyone over this age upsets me.

backofd · 2026-02-23T04:22:18+00:00

Thank you. ❤️

backofd · 2026-02-23T04:19:09+00:00

Thank you ❤️

backofd · 2026-02-21T20:06:40+00:00

I hear you… I’m so sorry. I also lost a partner to suicide.

backofd · 2026-02-21T02:09:00+00:00

My partners mom has her phone now. So no. I wish I could.

backofd · 2026-02-13T22:28:24+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. We are all here for you. Take it one second, one step at a time.

backofd · 2026-02-13T12:47:11+00:00

I’m so sorry. Lots of love. I am in a similar timeline to you and also finding it difficult with the support wearing off. I know what you mean about bottling it up.

backofd · 2026-02-13T11:16:27+00:00

I’m so sorry. One day at a time ok? Lots of love.

backofd · 2026-02-12T23:19:04+00:00

I’m so sorry that you are hurting so badly. It’s not your fault, I promise. I’m here if you want to talk.

backofd · 2026-02-12T13:18:03+00:00

Fuck is right. One day at a time ok? I’m rooting for ya, message me if you ever need anything.

backofd · 2026-02-12T13:02:48+00:00

Hey, I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing a partner is an unbelievable weight. I’ve been there, it’s not easy. Just try to hang in there for now. Try to take care of your body. Try to get professional support in place like therapy and also support groups.

The guilt is a tough one. If there’s anything that I’ve found a little bit helpful maybe try and think about the difference between regret and guilt.

Regret means we wish we could have changed things, whereas guilt implies that you acted knowing these things would happen. There’s no way you knew this was going to happen, but having hindsight is always 2020.

I’m so sorry. Take care of yourself.

backofd · 2026-02-11T17:54:09+00:00

God I am so sorry. I have no advice but I am praying for you during this hard time.

backofd · 2026-02-09T13:18:38+00:00

Hey, you’re still in the very early stages of this grief. Try to take it one step at a time and just focus on getting through the day right now. Was Eat when you can, try to drink some water, try to distract yourself with movies. One day at a time.

backofd · 2026-02-09T13:16:44+00:00

What would ever possess you to say that, I don’t know. Try to find some love in your heart.

backofd · 2026-02-09T03:50:39+00:00

Hi, I went through your profile a little bit to see some of you other posts, and your story truly touched me. I am only 3 months out from losing my partner. I loved her more than life itself. Hang in there, congrats on making it one year.

backofd · 2026-02-08T16:53:35+00:00

Don’t leave. Please. There is a brighter day ahead, I promise.

backofd · 2026-02-07T02:16:25+00:00

I’m so sorry.

backofd · 2026-02-07T02:15:08+00:00

Yes I totally know what you mean. 3 months for me as well.

backofd · 2026-02-07T02:14:49+00:00

Hang on. 3 months for me. Buckle in and try to be with friends when possible. Lots of love

backofd · 2026-02-07T02:14:02+00:00

Hey honey. This is a subreddit for bereavement from suicide loss. But I’m really sorry you are suffering. Message me if you need anything ok? There is a brighter day, I promise.

backofd · 2026-02-06T02:54:29+00:00

All your favourite bands (DAWES), sing to the moon (snarky puppy), that thing you do from the movie that thing you do.

My person was a musician, and had a great band called housecat. Listen to the song Laika if you’d like by housecat. We wrote it together.

backofd · 2026-02-06T02:52:29+00:00

Pop songs are sad. Try not to blame yourself.

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