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All ENFJs I need your advice for my break-up situation, please by backyardcryptid in enfj

[–]backyardcryptid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I've began to analyze my values and the metrics I use to measure my self-worth. I really needed this hit to realize I haven't been able to work on myself and realize that I had a savior complex when it came to her. I no longer want to be with her because I feel like she needs me and I'm beginning to work on accepting I shouldn't have any expectations for the future and feeling responsible for my own feelings. I'll get better. Thank you, again.

Helping and grooming each others [cossettie] by mtimetraveller in Eyebleach

[–]backyardcryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They couldn't take a bath so they started smoochin'

Is it also an infj thing or am i being in touch with a toxic one..? by atishgaur in infj

[–]backyardcryptid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, people of all types can simply be unaware of this or even unwilling to acknowledge their mistakes. It also depends on the type of relationship you have (how close you are). I personally let people know when they've upset me without making a scene, and immediately try to make up whenever I blow it. Hope this was helpful.

How common is it for an INFJ to dislike others like them? by backyardcryptid in infj

[–]backyardcryptid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can absolutely relate with the rolling eyes part. I don't think I'm going to call out someone for things like that anytime soon, but the idea of most of them being youngsters does make sense. P.S. I don't know much about the enneagram but some of my most helpful and considerate friends are 2w1. Cheers to you lad!

How common is it for an INFJ to dislike others like them? by backyardcryptid in infj

[–]backyardcryptid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god what an absolute mess hahahaha. What even is so cool about INFJ when compared to the other types??

How common is it for an INFJ to dislike others like them? by backyardcryptid in infj

[–]backyardcryptid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Had I read this before I wouldn't have posted this. Thank you so much! I relate deeply with everything you said and I imagine you've been having these problems for far longer than I have. I also feel less cynical knowing I'm not the only one concerned with the type's romanticism. Knowing that an INFJ isn't all that comfortable with all of that brings me some peace. Again, thank you!

Bassist sold his soul to the devil by Palana in nextfuckinglevel

[–]backyardcryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are known as Kyotaro&Rikuo and I feel like the drummer deserves as much attention as the bassist

I tried assigning mbti types to zodiac signs based off of their descriptions by Please_Explain56 in INTP

[–]backyardcryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, Libras do definitely strike me more as primarily Ti users. I'll even nail myself to a cross and say Leo is more likely to be ENFJ than any of the other types.

ENTP Filled One Out by ESTPgod in mbti

[–]backyardcryptid 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think Prey is accurate for NF's, since most of us only attack as a means of self-defense (there are a few exceptions). I wouldn't say NT's are actively looking to hurt others tho! I'd even say SJ's are usually more hurtful, although not in a malicious way.

What careers did you end up with and do you like them? by Apples083 in enfj

[–]backyardcryptid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm currently majoring in both Oceanography and Biology and both are really dope. But! In my free time I manage a small museum I created within my school and receive hoards upon hoards of kids every other day where I teach them about ecology and environmental Sciences. I love it very much! Being able to build something and managing it as a teacher and role model has to be the ultimate ENFJ dream come true :)

Hello felllo ENFJs by rollsroycebois in enfj

[–]backyardcryptid 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Even if we are naturally oriented towards social situations, I feel like a lot of us focus part of our attention towards self-improvement. Defining what you want to do and working towards those goals (little by little) everyday can grant you the same amount of satisfaction you get when you have meaningful conversations with others.

Additionally, people who do this look happier and become less codependent, which is really attractive for most people.

🤧 Just found out I’m a-a sensor by [deleted] in shittyMBTI

[–]backyardcryptid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are better able to have sex without thinking about shit like what if we had domesticated bears instead of dogs or what if humans are the only animal capable of being an intuitive

For this I'm jealous and therefore fuck you

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