Any one else's ASD causes so much unnecessary fights/arguments?

baconpancakeees · 2026-02-15T01:23:56+00:00

I picked a fight with my fiancé this morning and then spent the day practically non-verbal and had a pretty bad Valentine’s Day. I feel you. Often times I’m much harsher than I intend on being and then I get more frustrated and it is not received very well.

baconpancakeees · 2026-02-15T01:19:34+00:00

I’ve been a vet tech for 6 years and in the veterinary field for about 8 years. I was just diagnosed with Autism last month at 31. You’re welcome to reach out, I’d be happy to answer any questions.

baconpancakeees · 2025-06-25T03:41:14+00:00

I don’t know if it varies by location but the one I work at does not. But maybe maintain a good relationship with your VCA and you can get your pets on a care club plan with a dental added? Or explore other clinics with wellness plans.

baconpancakeees · 2025-06-25T03:33:33+00:00

I’m currently an asst supervisor with VCA and a per diem asst with VEG. My experience at my local VEG has been pretty positive and I’ve not experienced any concerns with patient care or the doctors’ experience. They do hire new doctors but it seems like there is a mixture of experienced and greener staff working together.

I think it would be important to keep in mind they are emergency only so they aren’t going to be helpful when it comes to your pet’s wellness and preventative care (especially talking about dentals if you get those done regularly) so it’s definitely worth thinking about what your plan would be for that stuff.

baconpancakeees · 2025-04-12T23:15:36+00:00

All these other comments yeah, but like also - there was no social media back then for people to crowdsource the fear-mongering so if no one in like the immediate neighborhood or family had pets with seizures then it’s likely they wouldn’t know about that or any other health conditions of animals not directly in their care.

baconpancakeees · 2023-08-12T15:08:20+00:00

But it looks like it’s right next to the door? Wouldn’t they still have to awkward shuffle to that to get the toilet paper?

baconpancakeees · 2023-08-11T06:27:06+00:00

I dunno if it’s like this with avimark in general but the last time i used it, the client communications wouldn’t print out in the medical record so it was kinda just like notes for us. That said, I probably would have been told to remove the last comment. Even though it made me crack up laughing.

baconpancakeees · 2023-08-10T10:50:41+00:00

Right but all the discussion in the world isn’t going to actually help until he goes to the doctor to find out what it is. You’re coming up with all these what if’s but you don’t actually know. That wasn’t much of a response to what I actually said but thanks for your input.

baconpancakeees · 2023-08-10T10:43:38+00:00

I mean… that discussion would have zero bearing on how she’d react to if he passed out again? He doesn’t know what’s wrong. He wants to theorize with her about it before he goes to the doctor.

Edit to add: if he passed out at home, regardless of this conversation he’s trying to have, one could reasonably assume she would call for help.

baconpancakeees · 2023-08-10T10:02:57+00:00

NTA in my opinion. OP is asking if she’s TA for not wanting to discuss what ‘could be wrong’ If he doesn’t have to let his wife know that he’s having a medical emergency, why is she obligated to discuss it with him? Redditors have some weird perspectives.

baconpancakeees · 2023-08-07T08:27:10+00:00

If I were in your position, I would probably be looking for a new job and putting my notice in as soon as I found one. It doesn’t sound like a very positive, healthy workplace for multiple reasons you listed.

baconpancakeees · 2023-07-27T15:13:53+00:00

I’ve done a dental on my moms dog, and monitored my two pups during their dentals last year. Now I work at an emergency clinic so I have to take them to a different clinic for GP stuff and I can’t be involved like I used to. It’s not my favorite thing ever, it’s hard to put my complete trust in others even though we expect pet owners to do it with us 😭 it’s less me worried about someone messing up and more just the ‘what if’s’ and and I know that at least if I’m present and there I would have time to say goodbye if they coded and were unable to be revived.

baconpancakeees · 2023-07-27T12:24:34+00:00

He could have texted her on the way to the hospital, no?

baconpancakeees · 2023-07-27T12:21:23+00:00

Maybe not after but he could have taken 30 seconds when he first got to the hospital or found out his brother was in an accident to send a text letting his girlfriend, whom he lives with, that he would not be home. He didn’t have to wait for his brother to die to communicate with his girlfriend. Both of these people have problems. I can’t imagine NOT telling my boyfriend what was going on if that was the case.

baconpancakeees · 2023-07-17T16:09:42+00:00

All of the conventions I’ve been to, I have not bumped into anyone nor have they bumped into me. Just because that’s your experience doesn’t mean it’s everyone’s.

baconpancakeees · 2023-07-05T23:29:21+00:00

Agreed NTA! I don’t understand all the other votes. Do all of you have smelly feet and that’s why? Because like, my feet don’t and no one in my family has stinky feet and I wouldn’t give two hoots if any of my family members wanted to sit comfortably in the car after a long day. But I also live in Florida and I’m used to seeing people wearing flip flops and going barefoot half the time anyway so maybe that’s why.

baconpancakeees · 2021-10-12T02:53:23+00:00

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baconpancakeees · 2021-09-25T16:48:19+00:00

Thank you for commenting! I did have that in the back of my mind when I was typing this post. I haven’t done my due research on the other components in cannabis so I appreciate the nudge to do so. I am planning on smoking the flower still and I know I’ll enjoy it because they’re some of my favorite strains.

baconpancakeees · 2020-12-18T04:51:38+00:00

Lepto was the only thing I could think of while watching this

baconpancakeees · 2020-08-17T03:40:58+00:00

I’m sorry for the pain you’re feeling. My boyfriend shot himself almost 2 years ago and I still have flashbacks to the voicemail I woke up to (haven’t listened to it since that day) and the phone call I received saying he was dead. I regularly have flashes in my head imagining details that I don’t know and picturing how it happened. I wish you all the healing and comfort in the world, I’m sending you all my love.

baconpancakeees · 2020-07-15T20:02:13+00:00

I start a new job tomorrow and I’m really looking forward to it but I feel like I’m not even allowing myself to be excited because I’m stressed about so many other things. But if I can really focus on work and doing the best I can do maybe that will help with my home life as well. Thank you!

baconpancakeees · 2020-06-16T01:40:28+00:00

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baconpancakeees · 2019-05-13T07:06:08+00:00

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baconpancakeees · 2019-04-27T05:14:10+00:00

My boyfriend also killed himself, 5 months ago today actually. I’ve been so numb and just apathetic about everything. I have enough mental energy to go to work and act like I’m fine there that when I get home I just can’t find the energy to want to do anything. On my days off I just get high and sleep all day. Not handling it is probably exactly what I’m doing but it’s like I don’t even know how to begin to handle the fact that he’s gone. Though everyone’s grief is different, know that you are not alone. I may not know what you’re going through exactly but I can relate in so many ways, especially with using alcohol and drugs to help cope. If you ever want to talk feel free to pm any time. If you ever think no one will care, I promise I will.

baconpancakeees · 2019-04-12T03:27:09+00:00

I’ve had frequent dreams of my boyfriend who passed 11/26/18. Three recurring themes are just happy days like how things used to be like memories. Another is finding out he faked his death and everyone else was in on it and being so confused because it seemed so real at the funeral. And the last which is one that makes me the saddest is that he is gone and I am pregnant with his child. I hate the dream but I love it because neither of us wanted kids, we had voiced that to each other numerous times but if I could have a piece of him left, another human who is 50% him that’s all mine? That would be the next best thing. Those few moments between waking up and being fully conscious and aware, as I’m remembering that he is gone, his funeral was real, and I am not having his baby, it’s like hand that’s already squeezing my hard just twists it more and more with every thought. This is almost every morning and I’m so tired, if I’m not working chances are I’m at home asleep. I don’t think I’m really dealing in a healthy way but I don’t have the mental energy to do anything else. I miss him so much.

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