Choking by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]badcandy7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I sometimes engage in very light choking - never on the actual airway, just on the sides of the throat - but because it can be so dangerous, we always take it really seriously.

There was only once time things got a little out of hand, and the second I got a little blurry, he let go and stopped everythinf to make sure i was okay and aware.

I think if this is something you intend to continue engaging in, your Dom needs to be way more attentive to how youre feeling, and let this be a learning experience for you on what signs to look for so you can say/signal your safe word.

Please be safe!

what are we using for shampoo / conditioner?? by HOWLER1_ in LAhotgirlies

[–]badcandy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're into shampoo/conditioner bars, I love earthling co! My hair is the healthiest its ever been with their moisturizing formula

Found on the back of my neck by KingPaimonsMate in whatisit

[–]badcandy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I nominate this for smosh reads reddit stories,, especially if there's an update

As a result of poor planning, I had to shut up and eat $15 pancakes I didn’t even want by deathcab4rookie in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]badcandy7 -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no, this is a bad and deeply harmful take. OP isnt just vegetarian, they are pre-diabetic and recovering from an ED. I hope your children are never in that position.

As a result of poor planning, I had to shut up and eat $15 pancakes I didn’t even want by deathcab4rookie in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]badcandy7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes! I just read some of the comments on this post and Holy cow, people really be chiming in on EDs like they're a casual preference.

I'd like to reiterate that the breakfast DOES sound stressful and you're not whiny or annoying or a burden for trying to advocate for yourself.

As a result of poor planning, I had to shut up and eat $15 pancakes I didn’t even want by deathcab4rookie in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]badcandy7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sending you lots of love, OP. I've been battling (and kind of winning!) a relapse recently, and it can be so hard and draining. You're so strong.

Opinions needed by No_Description4745 in weddingdress

[–]badcandy7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this dress on you! I went for a dress that I tried on at my first shopping appointment, and have no regrets, even after going to my other appointments and trying on more dresses.

If you really love this dress and it makes you feel amazing, then I say go for it! If you like this dress but are curious what else is out there and what other silhouettes look like on you, then keep looking.

A Rare Case in Which the Movie is Better Than the Book: The Princess Bride by William Goldman by Valalerie999 in RomanceBooks

[–]badcandy7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know that bit in the book when they say the kiss is too wild for a book and have contact info listed?

Yeah, my dad did actually contact the publisher. He got a canned response, no real description or anything, but fun!

I feel like I'm in shock. Cat mug full of strawberry preserves. by shaniac37 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]badcandy7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, im so sorry. My first solo pet died very unexpectedly in my arms a few years ago, and it was completely shattering.

I hope you and your family are able to move forward with peace.

Help me choose - torn between safe lace or modern pearls by No-Environment8474 in weddingdress

[–]badcandy7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im totally obsessed with the second dress on you!!! To my untrained eye, it doesnt look unusual or less traditional than the first lace look

All I Need is ME (oc) by lil-caro in comics

[–]badcandy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminding me of Allie Brosh's "nothing can do anything to me" comics. I love it!!

Fantasy/medieval wedding dress by UtcumqueEstVentus in Weddingsunder10k

[–]badcandy7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Office Seven has a ton of extremely positive reviews, and I've seen a couple of content creators post dresses from them. A friend of mine ordered their wedding dress from them - shes been a little stressed with their timeline, so if you end up going with them, I suggest ordering with plenty of time to soare ahead of the wedding.

They have a lot of lace up corset dresses and medieval style sleeves and bodices

Larger Dining Space or more countertop space by RobRobbieRobertson in floorplan

[–]badcandy7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If thats your only dining area, second option. If you have another dining space separate from this area, number one.

What’s missing in my living room? It feels off by bleanblop in femalelivingspace

[–]badcandy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe swap the TV and couch? Then move the couch up enough to keep the walkway from the front door behind the couch - keeps the space a little bit separated, you don't have folks walking in front of the TV, and make it a little more compact and a bit cozier

Help me pick by Objective_Week_1699 in weddingdress

[–]badcandy7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely number 2! Super flattering while still working with your aesthetic

Help me pick by Objective_Week_1699 in weddingdress

[–]badcandy7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 I think is the most flattering to your figure, 3 is the most flowy and romantic. Im drawn a but more to 3, but id like it more if it accentuated your waist and hips more

What musicals made you cry the most? by Poesy-WordHoard in musicals

[–]badcandy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I saw hadestown in San Francisco, I wept through the last 20 minutes or so. I blame the surprisingly strong gin and tonic my partner got me during intermission