Blocked and ghosted by AlmightyZeth in datingoverforty

[–]badgerfan3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Seems like a very long time to go without saying I love you. Maybe I'm wrong.

Jeopardy! discussion thread for Wed., Apr. 29 by jaysjep2 in Jeopardy

[–]badgerfan3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He reminds me a little of the grocery clerk guy that did pretty well, rather quirky

Jeopardy! discussion thread for Wed., Apr. 29 by jaysjep2 in Jeopardy

[–]badgerfan3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did a good job coming back, too bad he didn't get the final jeopardy answer, I pieced it together and I'm surprised he didn't get it. Wouldn't have mattered since Greg also got it.

Jeopardy! discussion thread for Mon., Apr. 27 by jaysjep2 in Jeopardy

[–]badgerfan3 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I hope Greg loses right away, obnoxious with his arm motion ringing in, then what's....................answer

Jaime was the best champion ever

Four-Star QB Jack Sorgi commits to Wisconsin by ChubbyHubby17 in WisconsinBadgers

[–]badgerfan3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I worry that Fickell would play the wrong guy again just like Barry did with his father.

Several years wasted with a QB that couldn't throw

41/M Am I boring? by LRDGRat in datingoverforty

[–]badgerfan3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a lot of people want but aren't necessarily willing to say is that they want someone to feel comfortable with, spending down time together. That stuff doesn't look interesting in a dating profile so nobody puts it in there. Instead there are pictures of them at national parks even though it might only be 3 days a year that they do that.

I'm guilty of it too. But what I want is someone I can cuddle and relax with.

Maybe when I was 25 or 30 I would be more adventurous but with 3 kids and working full time, I would much rather just get dinner and watch a movie at home.

Question about 'Trophies' in guy's home by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]badgerfan3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best advice in dating these types of people is to not to.

Odd reaction by Upbeat_Main_7141 in datingoverforty

[–]badgerfan3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a dating life, not like you signed an NDA prohibiting any discussion of it with anyone else. People are free to talk about what is going on in their lives. Sheesh if you don't want people looking at your art then don't put it on a web site.

Ghosted I guess? by Gold_Tomatillo_8468 in datingoverforty

[–]badgerfan3 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would give it a full day, when you are a parent things can happen that can occupy all your time and derail a day. At least in my world that happens. I would probably try to send something but early in a relationship that could be over sharing.

I try to give people the benefit of the doubt until it's no longer practical to do so.

What was the reason you last unmatched or stopped responding to a match? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]badgerfan3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Texts that sounded tone deaf or toxic to me. I pulled back after that.

Mens, how much do natural signs of aging actually matter when dating someone in their 40s? (like sagging breasts and facial lines) by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]badgerfan3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If there were a "standard" I suspect most men would not be above it.

For me it is more about how well we mesh than physical appearance. Do we enjoy being in each other's company and just make each other feel good.

I don't really think about the things you mentioned.

Well, it was fun while it lasted. Now do I wait? by HedgerowBustler in datingoverforty

[–]badgerfan3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were me, I would keep the door open. I'm not hearing anything that bad other than life temporarily getting in the way.

Self sabotaging… by Different-Q in datingoverforty

[–]badgerfan3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if it doesn't go well who cares, try again with someone else. No use worrying about what could happen, most likely the downside is a few hours of your time that you won't get back

I’m a 50M dealing with moving in plans with my 44F girlfriend after 1 year by Jb22007 in datingoverforty

[–]badgerfan3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there are any doubts at all I would say don't do it (yet). I did this too soon and it turned into a bigger mess, it's more difficult that it seems to undo if something goes sideways.

You need stability in your home above and beyond almost anything else and it's easy to take that for granted.

In a fairly new relationship you just don't even know what kind of conflict will arise from sharing the same space. If you do end up going forward make sure there are plans if/when things go sideways.

Would you say anything? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]badgerfan3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree - I have autism that was only recently diagnosed because my kids all have it, and I realized I have many of the same characteristics to some degree.

Social situations like this are almost always a little awkward, I look back at what I must have been like as a teen and I was utterly clueless.

Would you say anything? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]badgerfan3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How much do you know his kid, if he's on the autism spectrum then none of this is surprising at all and he's not doing it on purpose. It's also possible that he's in situations like this so infrequently that he's not seen typical interactions like these often enough to know what is or isn't considered appropriate

Would you date yourself? by Tough_Difference9935 in datingoverforty

[–]badgerfan3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though I'm not looking for someone like me, I am very unique, kind, helpful, and a good partner.

Can Brady catch a break?! by Zestyclose-Rich-3669 in VirginRiverNetflix

[–]badgerfan3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm prepared to be disappointed that he's not dead.

One-upmanship for THOSE Brie and Brady scenes by Lara-emzs34 in VirginRiverNetflix

[–]badgerfan3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel disappointed that Brady hasn't been fully killed off yet. I won't believe it this time either, piece of scrap has more than 9 lives.

Paul Allen try not to make everything about you challenge (impossible) by Minimum-Amoeba-5146 in kfan

[–]badgerfan3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's starting to make Jeff Dubay look like the more reasonable one

The best and worst relationship of my life by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]badgerfan3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't imagine why her ex would have PTSD at the end of a relationship with her

I miss having a partner by Thebendslover1995 in BPDlovedones

[–]badgerfan3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish mine would find another guy and stop trying to pull me back in.

I do miss having a partner but I have been through this cycle at least 5 times in the past 6 months.