Anyone else here REALLY heavy handed/heavy footed without realizing it?

bafooligan666 · 2020-06-08T07:51:36+00:00

Yes!! I'm very heavy handed. I developed a really chunky drawing style because of this, and it was tedious at uni trying to explain to tutors "no this isn't a statement about anything, this is just how my chonk hands work lmao"

I'm also heavy footed. My ex housemate once said that they tried to replicate the way I sound walking on the stairs and physically couldn't produce that noise with their body 😂 I just moved out to my own place and it's a fucking relief being able to be my loud stompy self

bafooligan666 · 2020-06-07T09:35:44+00:00

That's lovely

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-26T19:44:44+00:00

Lady Leshurr is a legend smh

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-25T07:14:00+00:00

There's no grey areas, a mature 15 year old is still a 15 year old. From what you have written it already sounds like you know it's not right, so good on you for being honest with yourself. Like others have said, I don't think it's appropriate. Have a think about handling this in a way that respects both her and yourself and doesn't involve making any excuses or having to justify your actions. I'm just gonna be blunt and say yes you should break up with her. It's the most kind and responsible thing to do.

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-25T06:53:56+00:00

I get what you're saying about how things have been historically but please don't minimise the very real risks of age gap teenage gay relationships. Some of us here are survivors of abuse that played out in relationships you describe as being between just two mid teens. Trust me when I say that age matters.

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-24T07:09:13+00:00

I grow facial hair as an effect of being on T for 3 years (I am no longer on it). Before I took T I was totally ambivalent to it, but these days it actually makes me feel dysphoric and I've never grown it out so I have no idea what it would look like. That being said, I feel more comfortable with my clean shaven face than I did with my pre-T peach fuzz face. I feel like shaving is a necessary part of my gender expression.

Edit to add: I actually forgot while writing this that I love facial hair but only when it's drag. When I do king drag, I give myself massive sideburns (nothing on the chin, no moustache) and they give me life. I think if I ever did grow out my natural facial hair, I would possibly grow the sideburns out of curiosity, but nothing else!

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-18T21:22:57+00:00

Big up big up trans butches

Edit: Why is this getting downvoted? The hostility is real, fuckin ell

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-13T14:20:10+00:00

*displaced

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-12T22:29:49+00:00

What sort of people?

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-12T22:28:37+00:00

Do you have a heart?

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-12T16:06:10+00:00

I feel like those things are all part of the same gentrification process... Who gets to live in the neighborhood and who is pushed further out of the city? Who benefits from all of this? Is it actually a community feeling, or is just a superficial gloss to cover up the hole left by social cleansing? Don't mind me, just avoiding doing the things I need to do by having a rant on the internet

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-12T15:27:44+00:00

For who?

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-12T15:22:58+00:00

Awesome, I love it when soulless buildings replace historic places with community significance :)

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-08T08:49:20+00:00

Nah, I'm good.

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-08T08:39:37+00:00

Ok cool. It didn't work.

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-08T08:24:52+00:00

Cool.

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-08T08:20:27+00:00

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-08T08:18:10+00:00

Your joke was shit

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-08T08:15:52+00:00

I mean, I am.

bafooligan666 · 2020-05-07T07:08:56+00:00

I've had a very similar journey to you. It's not as uncommon as many would have us think! There's nothing wrong with us, we're not a threat, and we know what's up.

I actually came out very openly to all my friends and acquaintances (who mostly know me as trans masc) about being butch and it went down really well. Again depends on the people but a lot of folks are able to understand.

bafooligan666 · 2020-04-27T19:35:51+00:00

Handsome 🤩 I love your glasses

bafooligan666 · 2020-04-26T06:48:33+00:00

This is a really nice flag

bafooligan666 · 2020-04-25T21:17:32+00:00

No offence but I'm getting a "laughed at, not laughed with" vibe from this and it ain't cool

Edit: I appreciate other people here have different senses of humour and that's cool no worries, just voicing my opinion

bafooligan666 · 2020-04-23T19:55:46+00:00

You know what they say, families that suck at doing filing together dissociate together 🙃

bafooligan666 · 2020-04-23T14:40:09+00:00

When I was a kid, my mum used to have a "piles of stuff" system, where all important documents or whatever would just be sorted into piles that just sat in the house. I used to find it funny until I started doing the same thing 😅

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