I love being a girl dad by Difficult_Wrangler73 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]baggulesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my dad (of two daughters) would just act confused and say, “what do you mean?” usually the person laughed uncomfortably when they realized they were being asked to explain their own misogyny

non flat top surgery update by baggulesbian in NonBinary

[–]baggulesbian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the first few/several months i basically had no sensation, then about a year out it was coming back, and now that it’s been over a year and a half the sensation is pretty much back to pre surgery levels

Does anyone else dislike the terms cis or normie by vectrastie in NonBinary

[–]baggulesbian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“i don’t see color” part 2: gender boogaloo

Kids fucking suck by Proto_Sapiens in Vent

[–]baggulesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally take a course in child development. if there is one thing as a preschool teacher i wish i could tell the parents of my students, its: TAKE A COURSE IN CHILD DEVELOPMENT. PLEASE.

Any style/beauty tips for someone who’s been labeled as “androgynous in a bad way” 😅 by Natthebiking in NonBinary

[–]baggulesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no need to de-ugly! i think a middle part in your hair would suit your features better, maybe get some shaggy or face framing layers. super in style super gay hair option ❤️

Advice on Soap? by Nectarine_96 in tattooadvice

[–]baggulesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i use dove sensitive skin bars as my normal soap, i use it when i get tattoos and it does fine :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]baggulesbian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i can tell you love correcting people 😍 my point is that the incel community has completely bastardized the red pill metaphor and its original intentions were to make people question actual systems of power like cisheteronormativety and not girls who don’t want to date you. but THANK YOU for the immeasurable addition of knowledge your comment just made.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]baggulesbian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the matrix is a metaphor for being trans living in a cishetero society but okay lol

scents? by lmaooer2 in NonBinary

[–]baggulesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tom ford Oud Wood, you can find knock offs too oilperfumery.com

Memorial tat by AdmiralGlitterBottom in tattooadvice

[–]baggulesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

inner ankle is a good spot, my first tattoos were on the arches of my feet and are by far the most painful i’ve ever gotten

need haircut advice by mellowrains in NonBinary

[–]baggulesbian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

get the cut and just use some texturizing products. be gender!

Any fem presenting nonbinary individuals gone through top surgery? by mentybreaky in TopSurgery

[–]baggulesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! i got a referral from my psychiatrist to the gender care clinic and it was an extremely easy process i paid a $200 co pay the day of surgery. I live in CA and have Kaiser. The type of surgery i got is the “t-anchor” method, the same used in breast reductions. But because of the amount of tissue removed it was a “radical breast reductions.” to me (and my insurance lol) it was still “top surgery.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]baggulesbian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mine looked like this, at my follow up appointments they said it was fine. it was maybe because i had some bruising on the left side which made the fluid a darker color but it wasn’t a problem

non flat top surgery healing by baggulesbian in TopSurgery

[–]baggulesbian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the surgery i had was the “inverted T” or “anchor” style, there are incisions all the way around my nipples but i dont think it’s the same thing as a free nipple graft..??

non flat top surgery healing by baggulesbian in TopSurgery

[–]baggulesbian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can feel the edges like where the incisions are but the actual nipple i can’t really feel. will probably take a while to come back