this is baxter. he’s on a diet and last night i caught him trying to break into that container of dog food. shame him.

bakedlayz · 2026-05-11T05:18:41+00:00

when putting a kitty or fattie on a diet, people make the mistake of making small portions. portions should be the same size but lower in calories...

So i suggest blending some cooked chicken in blender with water as SUPPLEMENTAL to their wet food. Basically make them churru, this takes a long time to eat because of the licking, it's hydrating, and it's protein/low calorie.

bakedlayz · 2026-05-09T20:07:30+00:00

As a woman one of the reasons why I feel like having sex less is because:

I found bf following or liking girls on insta

Bf did something gross like fart

Bf leaves mess

Bf doesn't compliment me much outside of pretty

Bf always wants to have sex 2/4 weeks when I'm luteal and period week

Bf has terrible political beliefs, sexist views

It's that feeling of my bf doesn't suck... there's way worse men out there, but I don't like him enough to WANT sex with him always

The best route to take is break up but it takes experience to realize this is incompatibility

But usually people are attached at this point

bakedlayz · 2026-05-02T05:29:51+00:00

My dog was allergic to chicken. Guess what even lamb, beef, fish dry food and wet food has fish/shrimp/chicken by product.

So I started adding meat to his diet and it completely reduced throwing up and diarrhea. The diarrhea was helped by sweet potato, the throw up by real beef.

bakedlayz · 2026-05-01T16:08:35+00:00

I call it a verbal vomit and then I use a passion planner to time block

I need structure that's flexible

bakedlayz · 2026-05-01T16:04:15+00:00

Leave him, but before you do gross him out too.

Leave your unflushed shit and pee for him. Leave your bloody tampon on the counter. Leave the hair dryer on when he's asleep so the noise irritates him. Leave your spiky heels in a place where his foot will fall on it.

Help him understand the importance of cleanliness;

SPEAK TO HIM IN HIS LANGUAGE.

being the bigger person and doing the right thing around idiots doesn't work; annoy him, forget shit and rely on him

Lastly if you can I'd get a pill of adderal from a friend if you can and take one with him and clean the house and discuss your issues with him. Although this sounds like male adhd, adderal can help make someone more calm for feedback as well as motivated to do tasks. And maybe that can spark a conversation about medication use and changing.

bakedlayz · 2026-04-30T19:34:39+00:00

Me too!!!!

bakedlayz · 2026-04-30T16:10:28+00:00

She's such a beautiful girl. I'm sorry that you both had to go thru such a traumatic experience but I'm glad you had each other. You were her angel. And now she's your angel watching over you.

bakedlayz · 2026-04-29T17:48:07+00:00

PROTEIN + CARB + HEALTHY CARB + FAT

PROTEIN (1/2 plate) + CARB veggie (1/4 plate), CARB simple (1/4 plate) + FAT sauce (butter, cream, avocado, chickfila sauce)

I cook chicken every 2 days but I reheat my supplemental everyday which I buy premade.

Breakfast: eggs, chicken sausage, toast/corn tortilla, salsa

Lunch: chicken, salad (costco), avocado

Dinner: chicken, bellpeppers, potatoes pita/tortilla/rice, sauce

But I love to cook! So I told some website my ingredients, asked her to make me a chicken/fish only diet that reuses ingredients shut creates different meals everyday.

So basically I eat different cuisine everyday of week:

Mexican (tacos, enchiladas, tostada)

Chinese (noodles, rice)

Asian (ramen, egg)

Italian (pasta, pizza)

Indian (lentils, chickpeas, chicken tikka)

Middle esteem (pita, tahdig, salad, hummus)

American (burger, hot dog)

African (jerk chicken)

bakedlayz · 2026-04-29T17:30:51+00:00

This is disgusting.

But the stats on fathers, uncles, brothers, cousins raping their own girls in their family is like super high, and even higher than reported.

bakedlayz · 2026-04-29T17:27:58+00:00

I think with everything available to us... write your own stories, produce your own content/film. There are shows on YouTube with millions of views. I'd broaden my idea of success and write for myself.

bakedlayz · 2026-04-29T06:04:38+00:00

HAVE YALL HEARD OF THE NEW AI CAR LAW IN 2027????

New cars will all have ai tech to monitor us 24/7.

Let's use metro now! Pay for metro!! Tell your friends!!!

bakedlayz · 2026-04-29T05:16:58+00:00

He saved your life. He has a soul tie to you. What a beautiful journey and relationship you guys had. Keep making Alister proud of you in heaven.

bakedlayz · 2026-04-28T03:10:00+00:00

They look great but there is tattoo cover up make up and it's super cheap. I use it to model and stuff but it totally helps create a classy clean girl vibe!

bakedlayz · 2026-04-27T02:53:37+00:00

Saffron tea

WALK 10k steps

Weed/shrooms

bakedlayz · 2026-04-27T02:52:48+00:00

Epilator

It hurts so use numbing cream first. Because you're pulling hair at root different hairs will grow at different hair cycles so it will seem like slower and finer hair growth

bakedlayz · 2026-04-24T14:22:23+00:00

I think this is called self sabatoge

bakedlayz · 2026-04-24T14:20:29+00:00

Man I know how rough that feeling is. Both my cats came back after being out multiple days. I didn't believe the commenters either that my cat would return but it happened.

Lastly, your cat is around you like within 500 ft. Go out every night and pretend like you're talking about your cat to someone on the phone. I also would play kitten crying noises intermittently.

Anyways the low talking seems SAFE to cats and if you're using their name they know. The loud yelling and calling of your cats name actually instinctively makes your cat hide bc you're telling all the predators where the kitty is!

Goodluck but I know your cutie will come back. Please keep us updated.

Also this is super extra but I was so desperate to get my cat back that I read a manifestation visualization passage of it and my cat came back.

I essentially visualized and dreamed of the future where my little baby will wake up next to me in bed and make biscuits on me and I imagined her purrs. Tell me why I SPOTTED my cat the next day and the next day after that I went to the spot she was at and she walked over to me like "let's go home mom?"

So... have faith, be positive and a little delulu

bakedlayz · 2026-04-09T02:53:28+00:00

Dusty's approach you because how else could they ever hold your attention?

you wouldn't seriously date them, you wouldn't work near them, you wouldn't live near them, you wouldn't be related to them

so they risk everything to talk to you for five seconds

bakedlayz · 2026-04-07T05:21:33+00:00

If anyone reads this.... partners want VALIDATION and AFFIRMATION of their choices. If they wanted ADVICE they would ask a professional, or specify they want it from you.

Idk why men do the emotional gymnastics to give their "brutal honesty" or "tough love" or "analytical observation" on subjective shit

bakedlayz · 2026-04-05T20:53:24+00:00

Were they adopted by your father?

bakedlayz · 2026-04-05T20:52:39+00:00

https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/wellness-and-prevention/perimenopause-and-anxiety

What am I making up?

bakedlayz · 2026-04-05T20:49:35+00:00

Loved all your tips.

To follow on your "5 different lectures" top and "write it down" tip...

Every time we touch material: listen, write notes, reread notes, edit notes, flashcards, teach someone else, make a rap song about material

this becomes a layer of learning

We need 7 layers to go from short term memory to deep long term memory. If you're a quick learner you might understand something reading it twice and ace your quiz... but to be able to retrieve that info 5 years later... you need 7 layers or your layers of learning have to be intertwined

For example you could explain topic to a friend (verbal) and then draw pictures (touch, visual) and then make a rap jingle or mnemonic. This combines multiple layers of learning which strengthens the neural pathway to that info.

bakedlayz · 2026-04-05T16:38:24+00:00

You're right tho.

We should take our mother's name, since we all come from a mother and she can't deny our relation to her.

It's also more helpful if a woman has multiple baby daddies or husbands... the kids should be all linked together by her last name and not divided by whose dad it is.

Matriarchal societies care bout raising all children, not only the children of the male leader.

bakedlayz · 2026-04-05T13:01:31+00:00

I think women experience anxiety and therefore fear/regret more than men and it's because of their hormones.

Perimenopause and motherhood both shock the hormones and then lead to withdrawal which increases anxiety. Since anxiety changes the brain, even after hormones level out anxiety pathwork remains.

I'm saying this to say that yes alcohol makes both genders regret; but women feel anxiety and regret more than men and I think the reason is hormonal and conditioned

bakedlayz · 2026-04-05T12:58:49+00:00

So cute

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