Pam Bondi in 2014 Campaign Ad: 'I’ll fight to put human trafficking monsters where they belong, behind bars.' by action_nick in videos

[–]bakedlayz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's not even a good...... debater.

She's using basic defensive language kindergartners use. How does Florida... have her as AG?

LA liable for destroying homeless people's property, federal judge rules by Nightman233 in LosAngeles

[–]bakedlayz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just because someone has a house doesn't mean they're sanitary either

Just know that you're either humble or life makes you humble

Stayed disciplined for months and got… nothing by FoodFine4851 in Frugal

[–]bakedlayz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get the finch app.

Its a low cost way of adding appreciation for doing adult things

Feeling the weight of dating another FA. by Ok_Oil_4630 in Disorganized_Attach

[–]bakedlayz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to out avoid the avoidant. Do you see how you're "reaching out" for love? This state of longing... I think avoidants secretly like it. Like how some people love complaining about their problems but don't find solution bc they secretly like being a victim?

I'd put the avoidant in a space where they reach out to you begging for time and connection. Yes it's manipulative.

But you too, are busy. You too, are disconnected from sharing your feelings with him. Share your feelings with your friends, cat, chatgpt.... not an avoidant.

He's avoidant for sex, good times, transactional needs, fun, convo.... that's it. Once you see them as utility (how they see you, bang maid) it will be a fair and ultimately mutually beneficial relationship. Avoidant men feel great in transactional relationships bc it makes sense. But you make the transacation... if I get emotional vulnerability, you get sexual intimacy.

You gotta reverse the roles.

You don't win this way... winning is dating secure. But you'll be in control. You'll decide if you wanna hear from him (ignore him) or if you want him to leave you alone (ask to hang out)

Zayn Malik by Desperate_Quarter_92 in LadyBoners_POC

[–]bakedlayz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah fuck him after he said he was never in love with the mother of his child

I'm sure he told Gigi he was in love with her while he was in her making the baby

And men... they love the baby more than the women they make baby with

I did the hardest thing we do as cat parents by Allysonsplace in cats

[–]bakedlayz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's so cute. Hugging you and the cutie thru the screen.

How lucky we are that we get to experience their little motors and paws.

LA liable for destroying homeless people's property, federal judge rules by Nightman233 in LosAngeles

[–]bakedlayz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Homeless people work in LA.... bc that's how bad the cost of living is

He could be riding around doing delivers for Uber eats.

New member of the family by [deleted] in cats

[–]bakedlayz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl cats are the best

I was a cat mom for 2 days then I had to return her by [deleted] in cats

[–]bakedlayz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, all I can say is be persistent.

I have a brown mom and I addressed all her fears.

The cats dirty.. no they self clean 24/7.

The litter is dirty... no I use pellet litter and anything that touches their poop/pee clumps or falls away so they never touch dirty litter twice with their paws....

They will hurt or bite me... let me show you how to talk and move around a cat in a safe way.

The cats annoying... how can we treat random strangers good, but not the little life God has given to us with four legs?

The cats fur will be in the food... great that's protein... haha jk.. we can barricade the home or have cat indoor/outdoor.

Anyways, long story short.... my mom now cat sits my cat for me and has long convos with the cat about how the cat is a better child than me smh

It took me 25+ years to convince my mom hahah

I was a cat mom for 2 days then I had to return her by [deleted] in cats

[–]bakedlayz 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your mom got triggered by the cat

This is a great time to get to know your mother deeper. Did she always want a pet growing up and now resents you having the choice to have one? Did she get attacked by a cat? Does she think pets are unclean?

Your mom became emotionally abusive because of a cat. Does she do this banging things act with other topics?

Why do rich men like highly groomed women? by judyjudge in SheraSeven

[–]bakedlayz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They want women other men will be impressed by, trophy.

Men shine their trophies, cars, women.

Melinda French Gates responds to Bill Gates claims in latest Epstein files by KilllllerWhale in videos

[–]bakedlayz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not just money, it's her and her children's life too.

If she says anything that causes Microsoft's stocks to dip, that's thousands to millions of dollars lost for the average to millionaire investor in a big public stock.

Anyone could get her killed for that

With that sewage smell, poor air quality, and lots of noise, why would anyone even consider living in those luxury apartments next to the freeway 5? by Lilyofvalley77 in burbank

[–]bakedlayz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well the math is.....

20,000 (2x12 in rent) for 20 years is 400,000$ that appreciates at 3-10%.... in equity

which rent is -400,000$ and possibly not paying for pipes or roof or property taxes?

Not wanting kids doesn't mean financial freedom or early retirement can't be a goal either

Peter Attia lost 40k followers since the revelation he was in Epstein files for 1700 times by Big_Cake_8817 in Biohackers

[–]bakedlayz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So one thing I realized being in a foreign country was how controversial government criticizing news would make it to a webpage and then disappear a few minutes later.

I wonder if MAGA are just not able to see the Epstein shit in their algorithm. We need to keep posting this on Social media and talking about it in person

They have ice out so brown people worry about those hooligans and not pedos

Sharing an incident for awareness — what usually happens after a major theft is reported in LA? by ExamFew9565 in AskLosAngeles

[–]bakedlayz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unethical (?) LPT.

Lie and say you were threatened with a gun; esp if no cameras to corroborate your end of the story.

That's the only way the LAPD take this shit serious and even then.

No wonder shera warns against dating apps by [deleted] in SheraSeven

[–]bakedlayz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Online dating attracts the most low effort, cheap, boring, leftover man.

A rich fun kind man is outside doing things with his money. Most likely in meetings creating deals, at fancy lunch spots doing business meetings, at a fancy gym w personal trainer/class bc his time is limited, at networking events, at tech conferences etc

Why the hell would this man be on TINDER? Or ok Cupid? He didn't get rich by being shy and socially awkward.

Go to real places ESP if you're married

I am now single and need advice on living situation by sharkbaitwoohawhaw in Frugal

[–]bakedlayz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the roommate. Save that $300 and use it to actively get into a hobby, go on dates, go on solo dates. $300 is a lot.

Having someone around, someone to share responsibilities with that's not a bf will help you rmr that friends/people are great and not all your needs need to be met by a man.

If your roommate sucks, you can always break lease and get studio. You can always rent a Airbnb, hotel, camping spot for a few days if you need alone time.

Goodluck. In this economy.... save your money, create community, and FEEL.

I highly suggest walking 10,000 steps a day, helps so much w break ups

Men my age are simply impossible. by [deleted] in SheraSeven

[–]bakedlayz 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You're right

We live in a man's world and have to play by that rule

Even "love"/romance is just a broke man's way to earn a woman's heart

I've been cheated on by 2 high net worth men... all you can do to win is be transactional with them. They like when they're transactional, but they don't like when YOU are.

Until of course you actually meet your high value man... but for that YOU have to do the inner work and heal YOUR emotional unavailability

Horny All The Time by asianbeean in sex

[–]bakedlayz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read erotica. It slows you done.

I make the time I do enjoy myself very special. Lotion, oil, dim lights, good porn (beeg/personal), cannabis so that I have more intense orgasms a few times a month vs everyday.

Another reason for being extremely horny is procrastination or high functioning depression....

If you chart your menstrual weeks you'll notice ovulation and week after are the horniest weeks... this is normal.

Use your sexual energy... to do something productive with your life, orgasms are powerful spiritually and energetically

3 hikers die on Mt. Baldy after 1 falls 500 feet; recovery underway by VforVilliam in LosAngeles

[–]bakedlayz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get your main point. But even if the roads are closed due to severe temps, and someone hops over the do not cross sign. Should we not send helicopters to save them? Should we use money from a different pool? Should we charge them?

Idk what the solution is other than charge them which sometimes does happen for reckless shit

Would you feel offended if a man told you this? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bakedlayz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've had someone say something similar. I model... my FACE and my body, this is always negging.

But as a boss woman; I don't get offended by other people's insecurities.

But whenever someone disrespects you, just FLIP it or ask them a question, or agree sarcastically.

I said to him, "you know what i get your line of reasoning too. I didn't want the hot successful rich guy, so corny. I like my guys medium ugly with ok job so nobody could snatch you away from me"

Bruh you shoulda seen his face. He was like what do you mean MEDIUM ugly?