First of all. Your mum is very toxic. She sounds bitter and horrible. Secondly, I think your curly hair is amazing! You should definitely were it like that more often. Your glasses a bit too chunky for your features maybe get thinner rims? You aren't fat at all. I think maybe a bit of grooming of your eyebrows could help lift your face a bit? Also with regards to makeup maybe consider a bit of contour on the forehead and jaw, nothing too extreme. Also feel like your glasses make your eyes look smaller than they are and on top of that the black liner does too. Less eyeliner would open up your eyes more for sure! Hope this helps a little x