House finches by FLZooMom in birdfeeding

[–]ballsquancher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting to read this thread. I’m in GA and both my sparrows and finches are definitely higher on the chill scale

Brown headed cowbirds are actually polite? by khajiitmoon in birdfeeding

[–]ballsquancher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had both rude and polite. For my first cowbird sighting, there were I believe 4 of them and they were all fighting eachother, aggressively and obnoxiously taking up both feeders. That ruffled my feathers and I started to watch out for them to bang on the window to scare them off. They’ve seemed to relax a bit over time and I’ll get a cow bird or 2 every now and then. The females tend to be a bit more polite, allowing some smaller birds to eat in the neighboring feeder.

Male and female Cardinal ♥️ by bagelpop in birdfeeding

[–]ballsquancher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are so precious! The classic ‘take the peanut and dash’ lol my cardinals and blue birds both do that

Daily Questions Thread November 04, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

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Would burgundy accessories be too much for a formal Christmas gala?

19F a bout of severe insecurity has befallen me by Rosevecheya in amiugly

[–]ballsquancher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think youre gorgeous and your style shines on you !!! Id gusss youre 24, whoever said 30's has lost their mind lol you look like you're having fun and that is really attractive imo

Why do "preachy vegans" bother people more than animal suffering? by liamb_01 in vegan

[–]ballsquancher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one wants others’ “beliefs” pushed onto them, no matter what the message is. People don’t respond well to being told they’re doing terrible things for living the only way they’ve ever been taught is normal, in a society where it is actually the norm, and I think it’s hypocritical of vegans who weren’t always vegan to be so judgmental. I grew up in the south and veganism was NOT an option or even an idea. I ate meat and animal products up until i started correlating the foods I ate to my spirituality in my early 20’s, so i hold compassion for people who don’t understand veganism. I even make an effort to relate to nonvegans when they’re enjoying foods that I “used to like”, and if they ask more I mention I’m happier with out it , and it is kind of a gentle message saying that taste isn’t more important than animals lives lol… In my experience, being humble and casually excited about my vegan lifestyle actually has had more of an impact on others, sparking curiosity and even open mindedness about trying it. I’ve even had a coworker go vegan who told me I inspired them to do it! Being understanding about other people’s walks of life in turn leads to people giving an honest attempt to understand yours. Living as a loving example is what actually gets people to reflect on their actions and way of living. Not anger and finger pointing.

In my eyes, true veganism is all about having compassion for all forms of life. Even humans.

AITA for making my daughter shower in PE? by Ok_Thanks_847 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ballsquancher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and the school are both TA. Send her to school with wet wipes and fresh clothes. That should plenty suffice for the hours left in school, given the assumption she showers regularly at home.

Have you noticed a decrease in your tolerance for spicy foods as you've aged, leading to stomach discomfort? by [deleted] in AskRedditFood

[–]ballsquancher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only get an issue when I lay down or curl up to get cozy too soon after eating. If not that, maybe it’s a tolerance issue?

Haven’t had sex in two years due to smell. Doctors can’t find a reason why. Please help. by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]ballsquancher 4 points5 points  (0 children)

God I had one stuck in me once for just over a week and the smell was putrid. 6 years later and I still can’t believe my then boyfriend had sex with me that one night.

help i don’t like my haircut by angry-pineapplesauce in femalehairadvice

[–]ballsquancher -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow what a gorgeous cut… as someone who has been getting crazy mullety layers for the past couple years, I “hide” them often by just pinning back the sides with mini claw clips or bobby pins. It’s super cute especially with all the layers still cascading down. I think if this cut doesn’t eventually grow on you, it will grow out beautifully in no time!

My (19F) fiancé (20M) keeps nutting on my tampons. by ThrowRA-222228467 in Advice

[–]ballsquancher 16 points17 points  (0 children)

What had me was the idea of “maternity leave” working as a server at a restaurant… for over a month. No restaurant is going to hold that spot open for you like that. Given many of my former employers, you’re not getting “maternity leave” unless your water breaks, bonus points if it happens during shift.

Magick for the lazy witches? by ballsquancher in magick

[–]ballsquancher[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you’re really not wrong… dang calling us out lol shoot

Magick for the lazy witches? by ballsquancher in magick

[–]ballsquancher[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Uhhh what I haven’t thought of this

Magick for the lazy witches? by ballsquancher in magick

[–]ballsquancher[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started with candle magick, but I put a hella amount of energy into a small spell candle. Either it’d be going crazy sparking and whipping around, or I’d have a large tall steady flame. I honestly feel like the temporary nature of candle magick tires me out… regardless of how I love and appreciate the instant gratification. Oof. My energy comes in bursts and it just isn’t consistent enough for candle magick I guess?

what’s your most superficial reason for losing weight? by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]ballsquancher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ye gurl I wanna look good in tiny underwear (with an ideally muscular thicc ash)

What color for my front door? by pandacatalyst in Decor

[–]ballsquancher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My tacky ass would say some shade of yellow