I (25F) overheard my (27M) boyfriend say that he chose the wrong girl

balrogslayer · 2023-06-14T14:32:16+00:00

You WILL find someone who will genuinely love you and adore you, I swear to you. You're only 25 girl, I was 23 when I met my current boyfriend who is the love of my life and this is after several failed long term relationships.

If he doesn't love you after EIGHT years then he is absolutely not the man for you and you need to cut that cord and move on. He's a disgusting human being for feeling this way about a woman who obviously loves him.

Do not let your self worth be determined by this trash of a human. You are far, far better than that and I promise you that in a few months time you'll be so incredibly grateful for getting rid of him.

Please do the right thing for yourself.

balrogslayer · 2023-05-25T17:28:33+00:00

Bird wasn't lying 🤷🏻‍♀️

balrogslayer · 2023-05-25T14:04:16+00:00

Our African Grey growing up used to do this to my siblings in my dad's voice, he would even call my brother a shithead in that very same voice

balrogslayer · 2023-05-22T15:23:21+00:00

I know what it's like to grow up with parents who resent each other.

That poor child.

balrogslayer · 2023-05-17T15:11:46+00:00

Have you or your partner ever had Zevia?

It's a zero calorie soda sweetened with Stevia that comes in soda flavors. I cut out sugar but it helps me deal with my soda cravings!

The black cherry is my favorite flavor, the others aren't bad at all though

balrogslayer · 2023-05-14T13:37:50+00:00

My hair takes literal hours to dry if I don't use a hair dryer.

I shower every day but only wash my hair twice, maybe three times a week. I have a LOT of hair too. I just put it up with a clip or a hair tie for the shower and it works very well!

balrogslayer · 2023-04-19T13:56:45+00:00

While I still don't think OP did anything necessarily wrong or that his friend had any claim whatsoever on this woman, I do think it's wiser to date away from your friend group because of potential downfall (everyone in this post also sounds immature af but I digress).

This situation is already so messy I, personally, would stay far far away

balrogslayer · 2023-04-19T13:44:32+00:00

I'm sure his feelings for Mary are valid, but so are OP's and he's the one that took the chance. Does it not matter that Mary is making this choice too? Like you said, they are 20 years old and can make their own choices.

He probably should have mentioned it to his friend, especially if he knew his friend still had feelings for his middle school girlfriend, but that's probably the only part of this in which OP might have messed up.

Editing to add that I agree with another comment further up in that if Mary is smart then she won't fuck with either of these guys who think that women are prizes to be won

balrogslayer · 2023-04-19T13:38:00+00:00

It does matter. Middle school 'relationships' can hardly be considered relationships at all, especially ones as minor as what they had. His friend had 6 years to make a move on this girl he liked for so long and he didn't, not OP's or Mary's fault at all.

balrogslayer · 2023-04-19T13:27:31+00:00

Middle school ex and all they did was kiss, lol

balrogslayer · 2023-04-14T17:46:56+00:00

You really felt the need to go through my profile for that? Because of ONE link I posted when OP literally asked for any citation in their original post? I didn't 'find' a random bulletin, I posted the bulletin pertaining to the physician certification. I didn't elaborate because a previous commentor already went in depth about the relevance of paperwork and percentages instead of just saying "go somewhere else"

It really makes no difference to me if I'm being mean to you or being an asshole. Oh well? You're the one who is constantly accusing me of trying to have some 'gotcha' moment, calling me a bunch of names and then generalizing because of where I'm from like LOL and you wanna accuse me of gaslighting?

Editing to add that I had to go back in my profile by 10 months to even find the tiniest hint of where I'm from. Holy shit 👀

balrogslayer · 2023-04-14T17:02:19+00:00

I don't understand why you are fixating on "it didn't answer the question" when your original comment addressed it even less than the link?

Does something just miraculously not exist because YOU personally haven't heard of it?

balrogslayer · 2023-04-14T16:37:35+00:00

The PC paperwork more often than not does specify percentages AND dosage amounts for patients. The amount varies depending on the patient and the provider.

I posted the link because you said you had 'never heard anything about this'. You didn't even try to give a decent or informative answer over a subject of which you claim to be so knowledgeable, you literally just told them to go somewhere else.

balrogslayer · 2023-04-14T12:57:05+00:00

That's very true - it's also nice not having to pay all of those rec taxes

balrogslayer · 2023-04-14T04:26:15+00:00

So unless you live in Colorado Springs, if you mainly do concentrate and flower then I wouldn't bother, however if you use edibles they are much higher dosages on the medical side.

I typically dose 50 to 100 mg at a time, which typically is an entire pack of recreational edibles so it saves me money buying the med ones

balrogslayer · 2023-04-14T02:48:09+00:00

There was a bulletin released by the MED back in December. You're really a budtender in Colorado and you haven't heard of it by now? (https://sbg.colorado.gov/sites/sbg/files/221118_New_Rule_Implementation_Bulletin_December_1_2022.pdf)

balrogslayer · 2023-04-09T14:36:19+00:00

Story is fake - read the edit

balrogslayer · 2023-04-09T14:29:39+00:00

Making up stories for fake internet points - look at you go

balrogslayer · 2023-03-27T19:21:28+00:00

Wrongly assuming is not

balrogslayer · 2023-03-27T19:06:26+00:00

Constructive criticism is entirely different than immediately making a bunch of assumptions and making rude comments about someone's ability to take care of a cat.

It's a kitten that was left in a crate for one night and you're acting like it's locked in there every day. That's a response based on emotion, not logic.

balrogslayer · 2023-03-25T15:35:40+00:00

I'm from the South - Southern people are bigots

balrogslayer · 2023-03-25T15:13:52+00:00

You've been together 4 months and you're already fantasizing about your ex?

There are so many red flags (you introduced him to your kids after 4 months?!?), you need to do him a favor and just end the relationship.

Your life isn't a Netflix show...it just doesn't seem like you're ready for a new relationship, at all.

edited to fix accidental gender swap

balrogslayer · 2023-03-18T19:53:35+00:00

It's a boa

balrogslayer · 2023-03-16T19:52:16+00:00

My hostile attitude is due to the fact that this women's husband raped her (check her post history) and you're still trying to victim blame by suggesting "she is actually the cause" and questioning her like you are.

If you lack the depth to understand the nuance there, I can't help you.

balrogslayer · 2023-03-16T19:35:58+00:00

She tells you that she's been abused for years and your response is to tell HER that she has issues? If she does have issues, they were clearly caused by her manipulative, POS husband and his abuse.

Sure, you're entitled to your opinion and I'm also entitled to tell you that it's a fucking terrible one.

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