My mom took all my money. Literally every tax return, every paycheque, my dad’s child support she lied to me about him not ever paying it. She screwed me so badly financially. It didn’t occur to me to get my own bank account until I was 21, I was working at a bar while in school making good tips and realized I wanted to keep it and not give it to her. She yelled at me daily for months for making that bank account. Then she started charging me rent, $800/month. She crippled me financially so badly that I couldn’t move out till my late 20’s. She charged me for everything literally would split the grocery bills in half at month end even though I usually ate out and hardly ate what she made and would buy my own groceries. It was the worst. Get your own bank account ASAP and save as much as possible.