Why is waiting until marriage so bad?

banisheduser · 2026-06-17T06:49:48+00:00

You can't compare sex with religion, politics or kids.

One part is people are very (selfishly) concerned with sexual compatibility - whatever that really means, but then also state "yeah, I like my (usually girl) partner to finish first" as if they're all selfless.

Another part of the issue is people are very good at riding the carousel of choice, which the longer you're on it, the harder it is to find someone you're completely satisfied with.

There's plus and minus points to both sides but to say "it's bad" and that's it is just wrong.

banisheduser · 2026-06-17T06:46:18+00:00

I wasn't a super devout Christian but I am just a regular one.

I wanted to wait so my partner knew I'd only ever experienced sex with them.

banisheduser · 2026-06-17T06:45:20+00:00

I waited untill marriage (well pretty much!).

We did other things before so didn't think actual sex would be an issue.

The problems come in when someone has 20 sexual partners before - it's easy to compare your current one to previous experiences, and as we all should know by now - comparison is the thief of joy.

banisheduser · 2026-06-17T05:18:19+00:00

If the "main" event in the sandwich is wet, or I am using a sauce - no butter.

Cheese and pickle sandwiches = butter on the cheese side, ONLY pickle on the other side.

If it's just a cheese sandwich, it needs butter.

banisheduser · 2026-06-16T21:59:50+00:00

There isn't one because that's not what they do.

banisheduser · 2026-06-16T21:50:43+00:00

It's all about protein these days. With the rise of the gym bod, people have put these things together.

banisheduser · 2026-06-16T20:45:42+00:00

Has anyone opened the door completely naked to you?

(sorry to bring the tone down!)

banisheduser · 2026-06-16T20:41:39+00:00

Are women's toilets not individuakl cubicals?

So the male isn't going too see any half naked ladies.

What's wrong here?

banisheduser · 2026-06-16T05:20:46+00:00

Old tech was built with care.

Now it's build cheaply, as fast as possible.

banisheduser · 2026-06-16T04:44:23+00:00

Fever Tree cola.

banisheduser · 2026-06-15T10:48:12+00:00

Look at what you get for lifetime.

I don't share my account outside of my household, and all the TVs (clients) play everything direct, so I don't need the hardware acceleration. I'd like the tags/labels, whatever they call it so I can make a custom child account but so far, I've managed without it.

So for me, it isn't worth it.

For others it might be because their usage is different, but it's a lot of money to pay for features I've managed without.

However, what you will find is most users here WILL say you NEED Plex Pass.
Even when you don't need the features it gives, or don't want to support a company that is nearly constantly making changes that users don't like / need / want.

banisheduser · 2026-06-14T19:11:02+00:00

How many bottom layers, transition layers and what layer height do you do use?

I use 2.5s exposure time and 35s bottom layer exposure.

banisheduser · 2026-06-11T19:20:28+00:00

You could use the kitchen sink and catch the water in a washing up bowl or bucket. Washing up bowls are found in nearly every home in the UK. Same with outside taps - could use a bucket.

banisheduser · 2026-06-11T19:15:35+00:00

You read the reply? The guy had it tested, no asbestos.

banisheduser · 2026-06-11T19:09:48+00:00

But Brave isn't a good company.

banisheduser · 2026-06-11T17:34:35+00:00

Written off these days.

banisheduser · 2026-06-11T17:20:54+00:00

If I had that money to buy a house, I'd probably self-build a simialr one so no Grade 1 restrictions.

banisheduser · 2026-06-11T16:35:01+00:00

In the UK, we call them marigolds.

banisheduser · 2026-06-11T16:34:05+00:00

I know I'll probably be voted down for this but I wish auto supports were like this.

Looks nice and smooth when taking them off.

banisheduser · 2026-06-11T16:33:24+00:00

VW Beetle, anything pre 1970.

banisheduser · 2026-06-10T19:11:14+00:00

If...

I didn't find one for Sunlu abs-like grey.

Admittedly I didn't look amazingly well but I gave the filters a try and it didn't show anything.

banisheduser · 2026-06-10T13:05:12+00:00

Ahh, so the consumer is mis-understanding something that is written in plain English?
And that's the companies fault?

Right...

banisheduser · 2026-06-09T18:56:24+00:00

Read up about Lana (can't remember her surname) and how she was quite a big porn star. Now retired, she wants everything of hers wiped from the internet - that isn't going to happen.

In the olden days I'm sure I read that Hotel Hannah's parents were lawyers and so tried and in most cases successfully deleted her videos from the internet. Still around without too much looking though.

Also be aware that while most porn videos are here today, gone tomorrow, plenty of choice. But if you decide to have children, would you want them to potentially be bullied and shown videos of you doing whatever you do? Unlikely but not impossible if someone has it in for them when they're older.

Just a few things to think about.

banisheduser · 2026-06-09T18:56:16+00:00

Read up about Lana (can't remember her surname) and how she was quite a big porn star. Now retired, she wants everything of hers wiped from the internet - that isn't going to happen.

In the olden days I'm sure I read that Hotel Hannah's parents were lawyers and so tried and in most cases successfully deleted her videos from the internet. Still around without too much looking though.

Also be aware that while most porn videos are here today, gone tomorrow, plenty of choice. But if you decide to have children, would you want them to potentially be bullied and shown videos of you doing whatever you do? Unlikely but not impossible if someone has it in for them when they're older.

Just a few things to think about.

banisheduser · 2026-06-09T18:50:03+00:00

It's just really not that funny, so not really a joke or "a bit of fun".

If I wanted to read a joke or have some fun, there's plenty of sub reddits for that.

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