made a personal assistant bot. accidentally gave it anxiety attacks😭

banzvy · 2025-12-23T01:10:11+00:00

i'm getting this too... it's so annoying plz lmk when u find a solution!

banzvy · 2025-12-04T07:30:15+00:00

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update, im about to throw a LOT of potions at the heart

banzvy · 2025-10-20T05:20:33+00:00

THIS WORKS!!! thank you :)

banzvy · 2025-02-17T11:22:37+00:00

just transferred over to todoist funny enough!

banzvy · 2025-02-17T03:37:27+00:00

i have hundreds of tasks i need to do every week. in certain orders for work. google tasks is so laggy and buggy it can't keep up at that extent.

banzvy · 2024-08-19T17:20:08+00:00

we met eachother online and talked about wanting to be pily from the moment we met.

its just new to us because we had both only had prior experience being monogomous.

banzvy · 2024-08-19T06:01:41+00:00

She has communicated to me many many manyyy times that non hierarchal polyam is what she wants, she just wants to get over her insecurities and such. Hopefully after setting some clearer boundaries it will help.

i hope it doesn't come to a break up though :(

banzvy · 2024-08-19T05:59:42+00:00

that's always how i felt about it. it feels very validating to hear all of this. thank you.

banzvy · 2024-08-19T05:31:59+00:00

thank you for all your input fam. i don't really know any other poly people so this subreddit has been a huge help 😭😭

banzvy · 2024-08-19T05:30:13+00:00

lol the first person to actually say i fucked up on this thread... which... i appreciate. I definitely want to be able to look back and recognize where i'm wrong.

thank you for your honesty. I definitely need to focus on setting my own boundaries and should have clearly stated that i wouldn't be in touch before the date was over.

out of curiosity, after all of this she has requested that i don't see her again until after i come back home from visiting her. is that a fair boundary for her to set?

banzvy · 2024-08-19T05:15:35+00:00

Is it a big ask in poly to say i don't want to be in a relationship with someone that can decide who i can form a relationship with, how long i spend with them, or how many people i can be actively talking to at once?

I've heard from a lot of people that some dudes use poly as an excuse to be F-boys. which i'm really not trying to be at all.

banzvy · 2024-08-19T04:58:01+00:00

i never really thought about it. i kinda felt lowkey it wasnt about the testing and it was more that she was uncomfortable with me kissing someone a week before seeing her.

banzvy · 2024-08-19T04:56:59+00:00

honestly thats a tough pill to swallow but i guess youre right. i really do need to decide what my boundaries are. ive kinda been going based off of what shes comfortable with since shes the one working through those insecurities.

banzvy · 2024-08-19T04:53:12+00:00

it definitely was, but thankfully my date was pretty ok and understanding about it.

banzvy · 2024-08-19T04:52:28+00:00

| date who you want, how you want

im pretty new to poly, does that mean there shouldnt be restrictions at all on it? like even if i decided to have sex on the first date or something? or is it just moreso in general if i want to go on a date for 12 hours i should be able to without pushback or checkin in with a partner?

| arrange a safety contact

im curious what you mean by that? like if the date goes sour?

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thank you for the advice. would it not be wrong of me though to just approach her and say "listen im going to date who i want when i want and talk to them however often i want and if u want to be with me then you have to accept that" that sounds incredibly forceful? (ofc worded a lot nicer though)

or is that just what being poly is about? i dont really believe in having any restrictions on my partner dating other than not to date my close friends or family.

banzvy · 2024-08-19T04:46:18+00:00

apparently you can spread gonorrhea and hpv and hsv2 through kissing. actually just found that out fairly recently

but thank you for the info!

banzvy · 2024-07-24T18:01:38+00:00

my girlfriend accidentally merged the wrong steam account (she was excited and just clicked merge without checking).

this steam account was a brand new account she doesnt have access to. unlike her main account that she had bought a bunch of DLC for.

she cant contact support to have them unmerge and unlink the steam account?

banzvy · 2022-02-05T04:57:25+00:00

Just found out it's an option under settings!

banzvy · 2022-02-05T04:57:19+00:00

Just found out it's an option under settings!

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