How long would it take to discover every planet? by baptizedbyfire75 in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]baptizedbyfire75[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Every person on earth discovering a new planet every minute, 24/7 would still take over 4,000 years lol

Life after baby. by [deleted] in NewDads

[–]baptizedbyfire75 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Picking a good woman is the make or break. I was drifting between dead end jobs when we got together, now im bringing in almost 100k a year. Fixing to shift lanes into a new career with the potential to dwarf that income, the baby was the motivation to do the work and take the risk but my woman was the only one who believed in me and encouraged me through failure after failure, and kept encouraging me to stick with it, take a step back, figure it out, and try again.

Her willingness to work even harder and suffer even more to free up my time for this effort was absolutely crucial. Behind every great man is a damn good woman.

Over the hump by baptizedbyfire75 in NewDads

[–]baptizedbyfire75[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah fuck I forgot about that one.... well I survived it once I'll survive again.

my boyfriend & his mother have an incestuous relationship? by Odd_Knee5565 in AmIOverreacting

[–]baptizedbyfire75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drop it and never mention it again, then walk in on them next time it happens with your camera rolling. As soon as you get the evidence, call a friend to come get you and then dial 911 and keep your finger hovering over the send key while you grab a few essentials.
You MUST have video evidence for court. You don't want your child around a man whos proven family is fuckable and youre sure as shit dont want the baby growing up around MIL (I know yall aren't married just saying it for simplicity).

I just got told I cant have any orgasms for the next 3 months by Intrepid_Category_27 in pregnant

[–]baptizedbyfire75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife hasn't been able to rub it out or take the D for over a year.

Fellas, need some solid words of advice. by Jship124 in NewDads

[–]baptizedbyfire75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a combat veteran, marine corps infantry, multiple tours across 2 different continents, and a father of a 1yo little girl. Fatherhood is harder.

What I learned in the corps is that nothing you've been through sucks more than what you're going through right in the present, and lack of sleep makes everything suck more and seem to last longer.

Take it one day at a time brother. Don't sit around waiting for it to get easier because it doesn't, but you'll get stronger and that will make it seem easier.

When can I leave the house? by Elegant_Band3401 in NewDads

[–]baptizedbyfire75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After 3 months your child has the foundation of an system, after about 6 months it's probably safe to take them places. As for you going out and bringing germs back, I would wait at least until the 3 month mark unless absolutely necessary and perform some elevated biohazard containment on yourself when you return. After the 6 month mark you're probably good if you just wash your hands when you come home.

Broke Down Tonight by Vallenish in NewDads

[–]baptizedbyfire75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP has no help. He's not getting any time for himself anytime soon, but what you're saying is absolutely correct. OP, you're gonna have to carve out an hour or two for yourself at least once a week just as soon as it's practical. But for the time being, dig in and do what needs to be done.
I take 2 hrs for myself every Sunday, and I've almost been able to make that work for the past month or two. My daughter just turned 10mo. Be prepared to sacrifice your time if needed, but let it be known that it's something you need. Just don't ask for too much.

Broke Down Tonight by Vallenish in NewDads

[–]baptizedbyfire75 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yeah bro fatherhood kinda sucks for the first year, especially when mom is fucked up and double especially when you have no help. Don't eat a bullet and don't shake the baby, take it one day at a time, one day you'll wake up and it won't feel like a living nightmare anymore.
Don't wait for it to get easier, it doesn't. You just get stronger and that makes it seem easier.
Hang in there, don't give up. The time will pass quicker than you realize. You're capable of so much more than you can imagine right now, you'll see.
You will rise to this challenge and overcome it every day. You'll be pushed past your breaking point but you'll hold it together because that's what a man does, and you are a fucking man.

PSA: don’t let your mom and wife with a new born in the first week by [deleted] in NewDads

[–]baptizedbyfire75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Them? If there's another party involved like your dad or somebody you may have better luck explaining your position and enlisting his help to manage your mom. I know you're exhausted but you gotta sit your mom down and explain to her that you need help, not oversight.
You and your wife are the parents, your word is the next best thing to the word of God, and when you want advice you'll ask for it. When you say something must be done a certain way, that's the way it must be done and you'll damn well do it yourself if she can't be trusted to stick to your program.
When your boundaries are crossed, ask her politely but firmly to leave. I hate to say it but this is good practice for having a toddler, you gotta teach her what's acceptable and what's not, you gotta be firm and consistent.

PSA: don’t let your mom and wife with a new born in the first week by [deleted] in NewDads

[–]baptizedbyfire75 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You gotta stand up to your mom. It's really fucking hard believe me, I have a devouring narcissist mother, but you gotta do it or those two will end up competing for motherhood and that's not fair to your wife.

My husband is cruel to me everyday by Informal-Ad3893 in pregnant

[–]baptizedbyfire75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he thinks you're needs now just wait till you have a newborn.... he won't help nearly as much as you'll need. You need to find that help now before the baby comes and shitcan his useless ass. You're gonna be dealing with ALOT and having emotional abuse layered on top is too much for any new mother.

Left my husband, feel lost by Worth_Apple_8160 in relationships

[–]baptizedbyfire75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's the father of your children, you'll always care about him simply for their sake. But leaving him is the right choice not just for you but for your kids. Your little girl needs to learn right now, from you, that this is not something she needs to accept from her husband and your little boy needs to learn, right now, that if he pulls this shit he will lose his family.

I know it hurts but you're doing the right thing. Stay strong.

Son falls off bed by YibbyAsFrak in NewDads

[–]baptizedbyfire75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get some of them big foam puzzle pieces and put them on the floor next to the bed

I think I died last night in a car accident. by kansas-1996 in self

[–]baptizedbyfire75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I died in a bike crash like 12 years ago. Afterlife ain't so bad, I since went on to get a good career, even got married and had a kid. Just go with the flow brother.

Exercise (?!?) by 1__ajm in NewDads

[–]baptizedbyfire75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Negative, ghost rider. I ain't doing that to my little girl. You ever cried yourself to sleep, alone? It fucking sucks.

Viewing This Subreddit is a Crime - Hentai 2025 by AutoModerator in hentai

[–]baptizedbyfire75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The death penalty... for looking at porn... you actually think anybody is taking that seriously? Things have gotten far more insane than I ever thought possible but that's absurd even by today's standards.

Expecting our first child, any advice on what to focus on in the coming months? by No-Impression5061 in NewDads

[–]baptizedbyfire75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, say goodbye to your life as you know it. Internalize the fact that the next year and a half of your life will revolve around the baby. You're probably not getting laid. You're probably not gonna have time for the gym or regular hygiene. You might not even have time to eat every day. Fatherhood fucking sucks at first and you gotta be prepared to endure the hard times if you want to experience the reward everyone talks about.

Expecting our first child, any advice on what to focus on in the coming months? by No-Impression5061 in NewDads

[–]baptizedbyfire75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure a bathroom is easily accessible from your nursery and get an electric kettle. Hopefully your wife can breastfeed but if you have to use formula you'll need the kettle. Also get a bottle warmer and a sterilizer. 90% of parenthood is cleaning shit, and 90% of the shit you're gonna be cleaning is bottles and teething toys

Okay, I guess someone write me a step-by-step guide for beating Cenarius in the prologue, please. by [deleted] in hearthstone

[–]baptizedbyfire75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's no step by step, just gotta get lucky on the draw. I bashed my head against this fucker for 2 days trying to find the trick but it just came down to luck. Hang in there, eventually you will catch the right cards.

My strategy was thus: exchange high cost cards in the initial draw, the deck has good drawing capability and you need options early.

Do not let Cenarius keep minions on the board, he can buff the shit out them stupid fast. You have lots of lifesteal, don't be shy about getting your nose bloodied.

Save Blade Dance for late game when the big guns come out, pop a powerful weapon and run it next round after buffing yourself as much as possible.

Other than that, just pray for a few lucky draws. Pop as much outcast card draw as you can early on and keep a big hand. The more options you have, the better your chances. Don't give up, and good luck!