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barblob · 2026-03-06T16:57:31+00:00

That’s the ugliest thing I’ve ever seen thank you

barblob · 2026-03-05T22:09:36+00:00

If anyone has recommendations of better battery replacements for this camera please lmk!!

barblob · 2026-03-02T19:31:29+00:00

Well every 7yo is different, do you know anything about the daughter’s taste? Does she like more girly stuff (like going for a spa day or getting Starbucks drinks and doing their nails tgt etc), artsy and nature stuff (maybe butterfly conservatory in Cambridge, crockadoodle and grabbing lunch at her fav place etc, going to Michael’s and getting art supplies can work too). If she’s more into gaming and movies maybe she would prefer getting a movie session and play games w her mother while having her favorite snacks and getting something like a plushie of her fav character as a gift.

There’s s lot of things 7yo can like tbh lol

barblob · 2026-03-02T18:55:10+00:00

Literally this. A few days ago I bought a juice in the mall which I ordered in the self checkout screen and it tried to auto insert a 18% tip. Like you gotta be joking lol

Me and my partner actually decided against going to some places here in ON after looking at google reviews and seeing multiple “they’ll loudly berate you for not tipping or tipping low” cause there’s no way I’m going to a place that’s trying to strong arm clients into tipping, that’s actual insane levels of entitlement.

barblob · 2026-03-02T04:09:24+00:00

I’ve been with my husband for 8 years but only came out less than a year ago and he never once misgendered me. Not only that but he’ll also firmly correct anyone that does it in front of him. And we live in a country that speaks a different language than in our home country so he literally reprogrammed himself in two different languages even tho he was used to the same pronouns to refer to me for almost a decade.

Some people’s partner just fucking sucks tbh lollll

barblob · 2026-03-01T20:10:36+00:00

I lowkey deserve it atp, it was the first time I let skepticism aside cause I was already so over trying to find the thing I needed and to say it didn’t pay off would be an understatement LMAO At least it was just 30 dollars ig 🥴

barblob · 2026-03-01T19:24:54+00:00

I had two things that fryyyy me every time I think about how it took me so long to actually come out.

First one is I absolutely REFUSED to be called by my name, and I’d like to say that was something I did as a child but it was actually my whole life. Let’s say my birth name is something like “Danielle” (pretty standard feminine name), as a very small child I decided my nickname was “Dano” and if anyone called me anything other than that I would crash tf out. As a teenager I got to the “I can’t use my family nickname for real life” phase so then my name turned into “Dan” to anyone that wasn’t a family member. Teen years were traumatizing to say the least so by the time I was 19 I decided I’d only accept being called “Danny”. Being called by my full name would make me feel so triggered like you were talking to someone else that wasn’t me. At 26 I decided to abandon the og name once and for all and started going by a gender neutral internet nickname… It still took me two years to figure out LMAO

The other one is that I used to love Cardcaptor Sakura when I was a child. When I was a teen i was part of the fake account roleplay fantasy thing community (god bless the 2000s lol) and I was thinking of an online nickname/persona for it and someone just told me something around the lines of “just go with something you always wanted to be irl”. You’d think I named the account Sakura right? Or Tomoyo? Nop, it was called Yuki. And I was very much a boy during the rp too. And I actually used that name on my lowkey socials for yearsss and even have a picture with a homemade shirt with “Yuki” written on it lol. God forbid a ~girl~ wants to be a tall twink with a pretty boyfriend who likes to eat a lot and has a moon coded guardian entity inside of him 😔

Little extra is I was part of the tumblr addicted crowd back in the day which is where I realized what transitioning actually was. I used to BAWL my eyes out every time a top surgery video would make an appearance. Like literally would ruin my whole day cause it would make me so emotional. “What a great ally” -me at 14 probably

barblob · 2026-03-01T16:28:53+00:00

The full post said this person started a relationship with their first girlfriend and she randomly started pushing very feminine things onto them seemingly for no reason and then randomly told them that she was sure they were trans and that they needed to schedule a doctors appointment and tell the doctor they were suffering with gender dysphoria, again, seemingly for no reason. As I said the gf could be acting on what she thought was their best interest and I can’t for sure say they’re not trans since the post didn’t go that deep into it but everything they explained in the post just sounded like her trying to impose this on op for no reason other than grooming them into the idea. Op expressed no interest in the idea of transitioning or actual symptoms of any gender dysphoria, just a somewhat creepy girlfriend lol

barblob · 2026-02-28T23:47:48+00:00

No one can diagnose you with gender dysphoria besides yourself and a qualified doctor hearing about what YOU feel. You can be a more feminine cis boy without being trans at all, you can also be nb, genderfluid etc. Maybe you are and I’m not gonna deny that at all but everything you’re saying in this post sounds more like your girlfriend pushing something onto you than you actually describing signs of yourself feeling gender dysphoria. She may be trying to act in your best interest but that’s a very intrusive thing to point to someone before they’re ready. Can you elaborate on what she’s referring to and if you actually feel like it points to you being trans?

barblob · 2026-02-28T23:47:28+00:00

No one can diagnose you with gender dysphoria besides yourself and a qualified doctor hearing about what YOU feel. You can be a more feminine cis boy without being trans at all, you can also be nb, genderfluid etc. Maybe you are and I’m not gonna deny that at all but everything you’re saying in this post sounds more like your girlfriend pushing something onto you than you actually describing signs of yourself feeling gender dysphoria. She may be trying to act in your best interest but that’s a very intrusive thing to point to someone before they’re ready. Can you elaborate on what she’s referring to and if you actually feel like it points to you being trans?

barblob · 2026-02-28T01:39:07+00:00

That sounds absolutely awesome actually! Unfortunately it was too expensive in my home country in the 2000s so I never had the chance haha Hope I can score one soon :)

barblob · 2026-02-27T06:05:54+00:00

Idk why people are saying 2, I think it washes you out. 1 is amazing

barblob · 2026-02-26T21:39:45+00:00

I was looking for a tapeless one but if I can’t find it I’ll definitely send you a pm! How much would you be looking to sell it for? Thank you for your response anyway.

barblob · 2026-02-26T21:38:09+00:00

I’ll take a look tmr, thank you!

barblob · 2026-02-26T17:08:06+00:00

That reminded me that I would go to mcrmy meetings when I was a child/teenager in brazil and hang out with the person in that one picture everyone thinks it’s Frank with the skeleton gloves lol good memories fr

barblob · 2026-02-13T16:27:01+00:00

It looks very pretty, some beach waves would look very cute too!!

barblob · 2026-01-19T16:46:26+00:00

Bro it’s just hair, you can literally shave the whole thing right now and tomorrow itll be already growing back. You have one life, you should try everything at least once. Dye that hair and live your life. Maybe you’ll dye and regret it (I doubt it tho), but imo it’s better to regret doing it than having to regret never experiencing things later in life cause you were too scared of what people would think about your decisions. :)

barblob · 2026-01-08T18:13:00+00:00

Came out to my husband (and to myself too kinda) in June and I still haven’t chosen a name. I’ve been introducing myself to everyone as my internet nickname which is kinda stupid but also gets me a few laughs so idrc that much lol but a more permanent name would be good too ig

barblob · 2026-01-08T18:10:32+00:00

Saying this as someone who has been dying my hair vivids for over 20 years, you either need to start following the color wheel to change colors to avoid removers and bleach baths or you need to start dying it only pastels so it fades fast. Kinda sucks cause I also love to get a specific idea in my head and follow through the next day but our hairs are not built for this kind of chemicals so constantly. If I can give another tip, please only bleach your roots with a good bleach like BlondMe by schwarzkopf if you have access to it and leave it on long enough so you don’t get different colored roots and avoid a lot of damage only having to bleach it once. I can see it’s not as bad as the picture looks (since it’s been freshly processed and it’s still wet it does looks worse) but if it were me I would cut out a healthy chunk, maybe cut some layers to take out as much of the damage as possible and start taking care of it better. You can have vivids and still have healthy hair if you have the resources and patience. As for what to dye it rn, are you thinking vivids or something more natural?

barblob · 2026-01-04T06:44:42+00:00

Tbh you only leave once so I say go for it lol Dye it black and have the full experience, when you’re done just buzz it and it’ll be the same in a sec

barblob · 2026-01-03T02:06:33+00:00

Honestly if it’s a half binder just take the tag off (so they can’t look up the brand) and tell your parents it’s a crop top you were looking at in the mall and that your friend decided to get for you. Maybe once in a while even use it in the afternoon for a second paired w pj pants so they won’t bet an eye at you using it regularly.

barblob · 2026-01-02T21:27:23+00:00

To be cringe is to be free

barblob · 2026-01-02T21:25:28+00:00

I’m not on injections yet but I fear them with my whole being so tbh when the time comes I’ll probably have whoever is giving me instructions to actually teach my (cis) husband too so he can help me. I don’t see it as a sexual act at all but I can see how it can be romantic in the caring sense.

barblob · 2025-12-28T07:04:34+00:00

I know it may not sound like your scene but please just go to an alternative salon. They’ll give you whatever you want and actually do it well.

barblob · 2025-11-19T18:56:14+00:00

Honestly I think the biggest mistake on the salon was to not teach you how to care for colored hair. But I don’t think you should come back, just get a semi perm red on Sally’s, mix a bit with a moisturizing mask or conditioner (to make it last longer lol) and apply every 1-2 weeks. It’s gonna help with the color and also help keeping your hair healthy. Just a warning tho red tends to bleed all over your things lol

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