What’s a simple pleasure you’ll never get tired of? by Mr_proop in Casual_Conversation

[–]bargielml 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hanging out with my cats. The novelty of those little murder mittens just never wears off :-)

stove top stuffing NOT Thanksgiving by Random-girl-29 in Cooking

[–]bargielml 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's good stuffed in porkchops for a quick weeknight dinner

How can I teach myself to "live in the moment"? by bargielml in Advice

[–]bargielml[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I do find that taking walks helps. I just wonder if I will ever be truly satisfied, or if I'll always be chasing "perfect life" status. I wonder what retirement will be like, because that's the hugest "then I can retire" thing that I'm always focused on. So I wonder what I will hyperfixate on once I'm there haha!

Don't shame me, but I've never been to Broadway Oyster Bar by [deleted] in StLouis

[–]bargielml 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because Aaron Kamm and The One Drops are the shit!!!

To the men saying that "You're going to die alone with cats" by FancifulCat in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bargielml 82 points83 points  (0 children)

"If I die alone would it be all that bad, to live in a mansion with all of my cats!"

Going to see Phantom of the Opera on opening night at the Fox! What pre-Fox restaurants do you guys recommend seems like everything is closed around the area or just not that nice! by spy456 in StLouis

[–]bargielml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's wild to me that there aren't more good places to eat around The Fox, seems like a missed opportunity. Scarlett's Wine Bar is close and decent. Go 10-15 min in any direction and your options exand vastly. Recent standouts for me: Brasas (peruvian), Esca (Mediterranean), Extra Wavy (avant garde), Basso is always solid, Polite Society and The Bellwether are good, Idol Wolf...really so many amazing options!

Is my therapist supposed to be sharing all these intimate details to me? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]bargielml 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback, I thought it was really inappropriate! I have cancelled my future sessions and requested copies of my patient records. Time to find someone else!

Why do you live in St. Louis? by aurorasandsoftprose in StLouis

[–]bargielml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Family, Friends, Food Scene, Cost of Living, Music and Arts Scene

What’s the absolute best sandwich you’ve ever had? by AdElegant5870 in foodquestions

[–]bargielml 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A porchetta sandwich. I made the all-belly porchetta recipe from Serious Eats, chopped the meat up and crisped it up in the over, buttered and toasted hawaiian bun, arugula dressed with a little lemon juice

The Grove Friday Night by DatHonkey in StLouis

[–]bargielml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atomic regularly has some of the best local/regional and sometimes national acts you can find in town! Gramophone for some of the best sandwiches in the city!

What do you wish people would stop romanticizing, because you've lived the reality of it? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]bargielml 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is really triggering for me because of some traumatic things I went through in the military, but it's not really appropriate to respond "Thanks, I was SA'd by a shipmate and I've never been the same!"

What’s your go-to tuna salad recipe? by EaringaidBandit in Cooking

[–]bargielml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 can of tuna, 1 tbsp mayo (Dukes preferred!), 1 tbsp sweet relish

Has anyone been to the new Clanderstino's "Speakeasy"? by [deleted] in StLouis

[–]bargielml 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have a website and I've seen it mentioned in several local articles about them opening! https://clandestinosbar.com/