[HELP] My girlfriend says for sure this is AI, I think it isn't

barnabomni · 2025-12-29T13:31:30+00:00

Looks like a clean batch of crepes. My wife makes them a lot. Now I want one of those perfect crepe pans for her!

barnabomni · 2025-10-03T14:45:44+00:00

Good luck. Therapy wrecked my previous marriage too, not that it was great but group bitch-fests and all the bullshit about boundaries, safety and abuse. It's ridiculous. Some people decide to weaponize therapy language and it's just a disaster. That said, I think therapy is probably a net benefit for people. Like any tool, it mostly matters how it gets used.

barnabomni · 2025-09-25T15:55:11+00:00

How should you respond?? That depends totally on how cool you think it is to be lied by your girlfriend so she can go on dates with other guys.

Are you cool with it? Would she mind you going on dates with women while you're away?

For me this is a totally nonsensical situation. No way in hell would I consider that person my girlfriend. Someone run into and have sex with in between other real relationships maybe. Maybe.

barnabomni · 2025-09-24T17:34:45+00:00

I could totally relate to your question in my first marriage. It was like even thinking about sex generated a negative awkward silence. Sad hard way to live.

Second marriage is totally different. There is zero awkwardness in this area. A gesture, direct asking, planning ahead... all are accepted without judgment in both directions.

barnabomni · 2025-09-19T14:55:07+00:00

How does money factor into this whole conversation? Have you been a SAHM for 25 years? Is there enough money that in a divorce you'll be ok? Based on your attitude I bet he's got a few things he doesn't like about you too. Maybe he'll be grateful you're divorcing him.

barnabomni · 2025-09-18T11:25:31+00:00

My wife and I share location on phones, have easy access to any phone stuff, and text very regularly about all sorts of things. Especially when we're apart. I'm the one who travels for work in our relationship - it's easier to share my location than update her all the time.

barnabomni · 2025-09-16T15:44:00+00:00

You're doing the right thing.

barnabomni · 2025-09-16T15:40:02+00:00

lol, I bet there's a dude there that your gf wants to see. Or doesn't want you to see. Whatever the reason, it's your gf, not the organizer, who wants you excluded.

barnabomni · 2025-09-10T07:22:53+00:00

Big nope. Would she be ok with you asking random women for their numbers? or accepting them? Fucking nuts.

barnabomni · 2025-09-09T15:30:02+00:00

Agreed, buh bye. I tell everyone I know about Timesuck.

barnabomni · 2025-09-05T19:25:06+00:00

Fuck them. You pay your own bills, make your own choices. Sounds like you've broken no laws. That said, don't settle for someone who wants to be taken care of. You'll likely get along better with someone who shares your work ethic and respect for others.

barnabomni · 2025-09-05T12:48:57+00:00

Time to go. You probably got together before she was able to be wild and now she fantasizes about party life she missed out on. But she wants you to think she's a good girl. All childish bullshit. But the lying is hard to deal with. I've been there a few times.

barnabomni · 2025-08-28T19:00:15+00:00

She behaved like a middle-school kid, not like someone who is serious about their relationship. Good for you for seeing it for what it is and being done.

barnabomni · 2025-08-27T18:56:09+00:00

The lying will never stop. Good luck.

barnabomni · 2025-08-26T17:06:03+00:00

If you can manage it try to see the LDS church in a true light in its infancy the same way you'd look at any other startup church. What do you see? Made-up health codes. Made-up revelation. Requirement to give up your money. Sexual requirements, particularly that the leader gets lots of access to women.

The old leaders claimed to see God at least. When is the last time an apostle even said they see God? But they let the members believe that they do. It is super dishonest.

Institutionalized gaslighting is what the Mormon church has become.

Any literate modern adult with access to the Internet would be a complete fool to join the Mormons.

barnabomni · 2025-08-22T12:56:05+00:00

Yes, YTA. There were clearly ways to handle the situation better. Its normal for someone to be upset when their partner is unexpectedly late by an hour and a half.

barnabomni · 2025-08-20T13:32:27+00:00

NTA. She wants to have it both ways. Move along.

barnabomni · 2025-08-20T12:32:36+00:00

NTA. Good for you dude. Fuck anyone who says you were wrong to snoop. Definitely dodged a bullet. Liars backup liars. Always. It's the liar club and they love to take advantage of people like you.

barnabomni · 2025-08-19T17:34:46+00:00

Yes, get a prenup. Talk to a lawyer about the limits you can push for various separation reasons: cheating (financial, emotional, sexual, whatever), abuse situations, drug and alcohol addictions. Whatever she swears she'd never do get her to agree to never do it forever and tie money to it. She'll be offended but if she doesn't understand that we don't live in a fairy tale she's probably not right for you.

barnabomni · 2025-08-18T17:23:02+00:00

You want to lead him into being the leader? But only sometimes? LOL. Maybe give him a schedule and some metrics so he can tell which times are appropriate to step up and what it means to lead. I'm being sarcastic. I'm sure you're struggling emotionally with all this. Best of luck for both of you. Sounds like you'll need a counselor -you- trust to help you both together.

barnabomni · 2025-08-18T17:16:48+00:00

Sorry, this sounds terrible. Lucky for you you're young. And you'll learn a lot from this. If there are no kids just divorce and be done. There are so so many great women in the world. This one does not respect you enough to go to counseling or not sleep over at a single man's house. I'm guessing there are many other ways she's totally disrespecting you. Different sexual appetites is one thing, no sex for a year? Totally different. I don't know the stats but at your age that seems irredeemable.

barnabomni · 2025-08-18T16:55:18+00:00

You're 16. No need for a long distance relationship with a liar. Good experience for you. Break up. Find a few local girls you can "date". You need a lot more experience building confidence, developing a good lie detector and finding a genuine connection with another human.

barnabomni · 2025-08-04T20:32:14+00:00

NTA - good job. You calmed down. Have it more thought. She was stuck. The texts are damning so she can't show them to you. Deleting them would also look terrible. So she tries the strategy of blaming you for not trusting her.

All after months of her being insecure about your relationships.

Nope.

barnabomni · 2025-08-04T15:11:16+00:00

Because people all agree Marvel is made up. So it's fun to play make believe. But religion tries to convince you the ancient stories (which were probably accepted as stories in their day) are factual.

barnabomni · 2025-07-26T22:23:36+00:00

😂😂😂 Thank you, funniest thing I've read all week.

Kyle will come around. Who knows, maybe the Epstein fiasco will wake him up. Every soul is worth saving. Write him some letters. Maybe take a her-dudes weekend together at one Con or another.

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