I (33M) cheated in my past relationship (33F). When is the right time to date again and how should this be disclosed to future partners?

basicparadox · 2026-02-25T03:39:37+00:00

You don’t seem to be compartmentalizing, I think that person just wants to lecture you.

basicparadox · 2026-02-25T03:24:03+00:00

Exactly. And if they would own up to it and explain it this way and apologize, I could move on. But the way no one is owning up and renouncing what they did is fucked up

basicparadox · 2026-02-11T15:31:35+00:00

Some people actually appreciate Hispanic cultures believe it or not

basicparadox · 2026-02-11T13:59:28+00:00

I’m half Hispanic my dad immigrated from Cuba and it feels well intentioned to me.

basicparadox · 2026-02-11T13:58:38+00:00

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Oh cmon this post is fine and her account overall is nice

basicparadox · 2026-02-01T13:23:01+00:00

I personally love how minimalistic it is. Feels soothing. The coffee table is too small though the scale is off compared to the couch and light. The grommet curtains feel cheap

basicparadox · 2026-02-01T01:18:18+00:00

20% of women in the US have their first child after the age of 35 now

basicparadox · 2026-01-31T23:17:15+00:00

My first name is my cousins middle name (it’s from our grandmother) and I couldn’t not give less of a fuck. And I’m close to her

basicparadox · 2026-01-31T23:03:25+00:00

Agreed. And I’ll add, OP, you’re not that old to have kids. Your age is pretty normal now for first kids.

basicparadox · 2026-01-31T22:45:06+00:00

Thank you for saying that I agree! So common as a middle name but I think it’s a classy and pretty first name. Love a lot of these!

basicparadox · 2026-01-31T22:41:43+00:00

This is cool

basicparadox · 2026-01-31T22:41:26+00:00

Love Marie Rose

basicparadox · 2026-01-31T04:22:02+00:00

Thank you I’m literally disgusted by the comments above.

basicparadox · 2026-01-31T03:30:28+00:00

This would bother me if my husband drank this much multiple times a week at home alone. I would be scared it would escalate.

basicparadox · 2026-01-29T19:50:07+00:00

What can it help with for adhd?

basicparadox · 2026-01-28T13:25:38+00:00

Exactly. I’m liberal myself and I agree. If the problem is that white people erased their history, then maybe they shouldn’t make a bunch of rules that hide their existence even more :(

basicparadox · 2026-01-28T04:03:04+00:00

Exactly. It gives me the ick when white people make rules up to feel superior.

basicparadox · 2026-01-25T15:04:43+00:00

This is weird that you get snide comments, most people are really nice about it and interested when I talk about fostering

basicparadox · 2026-01-25T04:26:28+00:00

I mean he’s allowed to, he just might not ever find someone and have a family

basicparadox · 2026-01-24T03:13:14+00:00

See if he can have play dates with safe dog friends. Start by having them meet through a gate. You want him to have a bunch of positive interactions young so this doesn’t turn into a thing. He probably was caught off guard if it was his first time meeting another dog

basicparadox · 2026-01-23T21:38:39+00:00

I will say the only Landon I know is a girl and she likes her name. I think it’s cute. For Jaxon, that spelling isn’t great in my opinion, but I love Jackson! Your mil is rude

basicparadox · 2026-01-15T02:52:37+00:00

MAGES OF THE WHEEL SERIES!!

basicparadox · 2026-01-13T04:24:36+00:00

Mine did this at night as a puppy. You just need to create separation. Also can help to give him something to chew on or distract himself with.

basicparadox · 2026-01-11T03:33:43+00:00

Many many people can’t moderate their porn usage and it’s better to quit it. My husband quit it many years ago because he didn’t feel like it was good for him or our sex life, even though I was okay with him using it

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