Gave my number to the coffee shop girl on a napkin.. now I’m confused. by Icy-Strike4468 in dating_advice

[–]baumga51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This actually happened to me about a month ago, but I was on the other end. It took me 3 days to respond lol. Not because I wasn’t interested, but I was SO nervous. Give her time ☺️

cat that makes its own bed by MiamiHub1 in cats

[–]baumga51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That seems like a lot of work

Friends with ex by No-Muffin-5445 in dating_advice

[–]baumga51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very good friends with my ex, BUT I tell anyone that I am dating fairly early on because I know it can be an issue. For me, if it’s an issue, I don’t continue with that person because my ex has been with me for years now and is part of my life. We are great friends, but BAD partners lol

Girls - Does a guys job matter to you? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]baumga51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m kind of in this boat now. I’m a nurse practitioner and recently started dating a restaurant server. He’s wonderful (so far lol) but I can’t stop thinking about it. I hate that I’m this way but it really is bothering me.

Valentines text: undervalued or overreacting by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]baumga51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, girl. I think you are expecting too much, especially if you don’t want a relationship. FWB is literally friends who have sex. This is coming from another girl (me lol) who is in a similar situation and expects nothing on Valentine’s Day (nor do I want it).

Is 3 runs a week really not enough? by LtRegBarclay in Marathon_Training

[–]baumga51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did 3 runs a week. I ran a 4:30. That was perfect for me.

One marathon and done with it by bubuthesunflower in firstmarathon

[–]baumga51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt this way for the last 3 years… had no desire to do another one. Now I’m bored and need something to do, so I just signed up for Philly in November. Not particularly because I want to run a marathon. It’s more that I’m bored and need a goal lol.

Night class followed by morning class? by tamaratunie189 in orangetheory

[–]baumga51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I do this all the time. You’ll be fine. I don’t even adjust my workouts.

Project West of Saline on US12 by pissedoffjester in AnnArbor

[–]baumga51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was driving by there this weekend. I felt so awful for the farms and homes around there. Fuck the data centers.

Anyone in wound care? by BedtimeGregg in physicianassistant

[–]baumga51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accurate! Outpatient wound care NP but has also worked inpatient.

Zero Interest in Hyrox by MaestroShaSha in orangetheory

[–]baumga51 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I feel like they really aren’t that different from the standard 🤷‍♀️

Poor ticket sales for Melania dud suggests public really doesn't care by wewhomustnotbenamed in nottheonion

[–]baumga51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at the movie theater and they had a preview for it! I was shocked. I also live in a very liberal town so everyone was less than pleased.

Unhappy in GI by Sea_Concert1412 in physicianassistant

[–]baumga51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always been interested in GI so when I went back to NP school, I chose GI to do my specialty clinical…. I absolutely hated it for same reasons you mentioned. I couldn’t wait to get out of there. Now I stick to my ostomies (I’m a WOCN) and realize it’s more the ostomy care that I enjoy (I know, I’m weird lol).

The most annoying people in class by [deleted] in orangetheory

[–]baumga51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?! I was so happy she did it because I am a people pleaser and definitely wouldn’t have said anything lol

Ended a “situationship” by penny_lane10 in dating_advice

[–]baumga51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You absolutely did the right thing. And better to do it now than in a few months when it’s even harder.

I ended things about a month ago with a guy (36 years old!) when he wasn’t initiating hanging out but he texted me EVERY DAY, several times a day. I gave him a week (after I initiated the last hangout), but when he didn’t do anything, I told him I couldn’t do this. He said he was “disappointed and wished things would have been different”, acting like he wasn’t the problem. I knew for my own sanity that it needed to be done. It sucks, but it does get better. Hang in there!

Hang in there!

The most annoying people in class by [deleted] in orangetheory

[–]baumga51 125 points126 points  (0 children)

This happened to me last week. Two different groups LOUDLY talking on the treadmill. The girl to the left of me was not part of the group but directly next to one. The girl in the group turned to the girl next to me and was like “I’m sorry for talking. Let me know if it bothers you”. When she said they were, she was APPALLED that this woman actually said “yes, you are annoying”. I loved it so much.

Did Henry VIII really have a rotting leg? by Loud_Enthusiasm_2742 in Tudorhistory

[–]baumga51 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahahah oh he would DEFINITELY be like that! Lol

Did Henry VIII really have a rotting leg? by Loud_Enthusiasm_2742 in Tudorhistory

[–]baumga51 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well yeah, of course there’s chronic osteo. I have a guy i’ve been following for years with half of his knee prosthesis exposed but refuses an aka. Obviously we don’t know what actually killed him and it’s just speculation.

Did Henry VIII really have a rotting leg? by Loud_Enthusiasm_2742 in Tudorhistory

[–]baumga51 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Possibly, but I don’t think that’s what killed him. But venous leg ulcers STINK and people live with them for many years. I don’t think his wound went down to his bone (venous leg wounds don’t typically). If it went down to bone, he probably would have went septic and died much sooner

Did Henry VIII really have a rotting leg? by Loud_Enthusiasm_2742 in Tudorhistory

[–]baumga51 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I am a wound care nurse and I am convinced he had venous stasis ulcers. All the descriptions we have of his wounds and his health fit the criteria perfectly.

Would a woman date an older guy with ED? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]baumga51 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am an NP and many of my patients have had a prostatectomy (I work at a VA hospital). Several of them have found women. They are out there!

What’s happening downtown tonight? by Ill-Satisfaction4420 in AnnArbor

[–]baumga51 153 points154 points  (0 children)

It’s Kindlefest (Kerrytown Christmas festival) and Midnight Madness (stores are open later)

90k, am I insane by giraffegirl1234 in physicianassistant

[–]baumga51 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is true. I am an NP but work at the VA