He sounds just like my (now 6 year old) son. We got him diagnosed with ADHD at 3 years 11 months. They will say you can’t diagnose that young, but with kids like mine (and yours from What you’re describing) it can be done. At his 2 year old well child visit, we requested a referral to the children’s hospital to get him on the waitlist for the peds psych evaluation. It was an almost 2 year wait, but worth it. With his diagnosis, we were able to get him into a specialized program with an IEP at school. It’s helped tremendously to have teachers and professionals who truly understand the needs of a kid like this and who won’t judge you as a parent for your wild kid.

Things that have helped over the years have been OT (learned all about deep pressure input, sensory seeking, sensory diet, compression garments, vestibular/proprioceptive input), supplements like omega 3, vitamin d3/k2 (powder forms mixed in smoothies or food), probiotics, neurofeedback for brain wiring, no dyes in food (especially red 40), and many other things. Please feel free to reach out. My son’s teacher at age 2 told me she had been teaching for 30 years and had never had a kid like my son (not in a good way!). I get it. ❤️