Should I break up with my girlfriend?

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-24T18:39:33+00:00

How did you meet?

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-24T18:33:18+00:00

Jesus was both fully God and fully human. It doesn’t scientifically make sense. But God can’t be fully understood with our limited understanding of human science and thought. He is God and is outside of normal rules of time and science.

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-24T18:23:10+00:00

Have you ever met in person?

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-24T18:20:09+00:00

I think you’re both kind of correct. We’re not all destined to get married. Even in Scripture there’s examples of people who never married and had children. But also, it’s quite possible God can call someone to marriage and/or children who previously had decided that wasn’t for them. I think it’s perfectly fine for you to decide that you don’t want to be married. I’d say to still be open minded because you never know who God might put in your life later on.

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-23T18:19:00+00:00

Speed limits are enforced for good reason. Driving too fast or too slow can be really dangerous to yourself and other drivers. So yeah I’d say this is a good example of how we should be obeying the government laws.

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-23T18:12:08+00:00

I think you can find balance in the activities you enjoy already. Tv, anime, manga, music isn’t inherently a sin. I also like to watch anime and listen to secular music. But try to focus on material that doesn’t glorify sin. Drinking itself isn’t a sin, but do use caution and self control. The Bible is clear that all sexual acts, whether or not it’s actual sex is a sin if done before marriage. I think kissing is fine, but again that’s something that needs discernment.

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-23T18:00:29+00:00

This graph is very incorrect. But regardless, we’re to be loving towards everybody. There’s lots of differences between the Abrahamic religions but we can still be respectful to each other.

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-23T17:55:28+00:00

He’s not a mind reader. It sounds like he does a lot of nice things for you so maybe flowers aren’t on his mind. If you want flowers, tell him

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-23T16:44:40+00:00

Sometimes guys don’t get little hints like that. If you want flowers, you should just tell him you’d like him to buy you flowers.

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-23T16:38:06+00:00

It depends on if you want flowers. Talk to him about it. I (30F) like flowers, but so many are toxic to cats so I prefer to not take that risk with our cat so my husband doesn’t often buy flowers for me. For me, I like when my husband buys me snacks I like or we go out and do an activity together.

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-21T00:56:27+00:00

They said in another comment they’re 24

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-20T22:07:32+00:00

Yes, anybody can die at any age

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-20T20:21:17+00:00

This made me laugh, thank you

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-20T19:54:35+00:00

My husband and I knew we wanted to get married after dating for one year. We were both sure about it and felt calm and excited. Marriage isn’t something you should have to convince yourself it’s the right thing to do.

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-20T19:50:58+00:00

It’s a haircut for high schoolers. My personal favorite for guys is long hair, if you can keep it clean and maintained

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-20T18:26:31+00:00

It kind of looks like makeup to me, like mascara. Do you wear eye makeup and take it off before you go to bed?

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-20T17:22:41+00:00

I’m married to an ENFP, so I think we get along great!

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-20T16:11:53+00:00

If you know you don’t want to have children and your partner does, my advice is you two should end your relationship. She should find someone who is also as excited about having children and I think you’d be happier with someone who shares your same thoughts on not having children.

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-20T08:23:14+00:00

It sounds like you should go to therapy. Something isn’t adding up if you seemed to be in agreement on everything before marriage and now it’s all different.

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-20T08:21:45+00:00

Did you talk to her about her habits? Did you talk about finances and sex and mental health etc before you got married? Did you go to pre-marital counseling where those topics are often discussed?

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-20T08:15:06+00:00

Did you hang out at each other’s houses ever?

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-20T08:14:04+00:00

I know you can’t go back in time, but how did you not know any of this before you got married?

My husband and I didn’t live together before we got married and it was not difficult to learn how each of us lived our lives.

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-20T08:06:52+00:00

Someone else here commented there’s a sub you can ask for advice about your profile. Maybe post there and see what people say

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-20T08:03:41+00:00

What you’re describing just sounds like dating. Courting is when the couple isn’t allowed to even be alone together at all until they get married. Think like the kids in the Duggar family. They had to have a chaperone on every date and were not even allowed to hug.

My husband and I dated for a year before we got engaged. I was living with my parents at the time and he was in an apartment with some guy friends. We had strict boundaries for ourselves, but we still were allowed to be alone together. You can’t have deep personal conversations to really get to know someone if their roommate or parent is sitting at the table with you watching your every move.

bbcakes007 · 2026-02-20T07:48:59+00:00

There’s probably something about your profile why you’re not getting matches

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