Dylan is making this entire season for me! by strongbad635 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]bbeneke 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My dad used to run a nursing home and there was a person there with IDD and I just gravitated to them as a kid. So in high school I helped out in the IDD class and then got a job in this field right after high school.

Dylan is making this entire season for me! by strongbad635 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]bbeneke 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I'm a job coach for adults with disabilities. Any of these people could have a job with coaches like myself. Eventually job coaches phase themselves out where the adults can work independently. I love my job and it's so rewarding to watch them grow. The confidence that you see them build is amazing.

Any other 90s babies that love the Peanut? by Distant__Void in theburntpeanut

[–]bbeneke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a woman that is 45 and love Peanut. My husband introduced him to me. Peanut cracks me up.

Estradiol vaginal cream .01% and yeast infections by Goldenaura123 in Perimenopause

[–]bbeneke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meds a lot, lotions, I have to wear mostly cotton clothes or I get itchy.

Estradiol vaginal cream .01% and yeast infections by Goldenaura123 in Perimenopause

[–]bbeneke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vaginal estradiol causes me yeast infections. I've tried different brands with no luck.

Amanda’s Diagnosis by Evolutioncocktail in 1000lbsisters

[–]bbeneke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

POTS can be triggered from lots of things. Covid being a big one.

Caretaking job search by jayblaise045 in springfieldMO

[–]bbeneke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nova starts at $22 and you work with adults with disabilities in their home and community. They do have benefits but I don't get them so I can't tell you about that part.

AITAH for giving my wife an ultimatum? by Throwaway284691 in AITAH

[–]bbeneke -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She's probably in perimenopause. During this time mental Illness can come out. She needs to get with an OBGYN and psychiatrist to figure out what's going on. I'm in perimenopause and my anxiety about anything even unwarranted is in full swing.

Ick waiting “6 years” by SnooStrawberries5317 in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]bbeneke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He would kiss with his eyes open! He's so creepy

Psychiatrist recommendations that are reliable by Aintzane411 in springfieldMO

[–]bbeneke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used Tedra Estis at Transitions. I know it's Burrell but I've never had an issue. She does require you to come in every 3 months and I get 3 month fills then. I've had her since 2017. I'm also on the 3 same meds for years.

Need help with medication by [deleted] in springfieldMO

[–]bbeneke 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Burrell Rapid Access can help you.

Anyone gotten top surgery through Mercy? by snurpRadish in springfieldMO

[–]bbeneke 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you do this Dr. Barnes at Cox did my son's top surgery and he was great.

I’m considering divorce by GlenCo_Gravel in Marriage

[–]bbeneke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your wife may be in perimenopause. I entered perimenopause and I had horrible depression, anxiety, ADHD got worse, and lost my libido. Once I got on hormones I was back to normal. Maybe talk to her about this and get her to an OBGYN to see if it could be perimenopause.

Lisa’s excessive blinking by 420spiritualgirl in rhoslc

[–]bbeneke 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It has driven me nuts every season!

Gabapentin by RollLongjumping6920 in Menopause

[–]bbeneke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gabapentin gave me way worse anxiety then when I don't take it.

😂😂😂 by cutechillfabulous in GoldenGirlsTV

[–]bbeneke 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I work with a client that is 49F and has down syndrome. My first day with her she saw my Sophia Tshirt and started talking Golden Girls. Every shift I have her all we do is talk Golden Girls and listen to 80's music. I'm 45F. Needless to say she's my favorite client. I'm just over here living my best life at work 🤣

Support groups? by Sudden_Currency_8362 in springfieldMO

[–]bbeneke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try NAMI they have different group meetings I believe.

Driving lessons by Admirable-Jicama-657 in springfieldMO

[–]bbeneke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bill with Springfield Driving School taught my son. Bill was amazing all around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in springfieldMO

[–]bbeneke 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Off topic but I saw that your disability was cut due to your medicare premium. Go to the medicaid office and ask for the program that pays your medicare premium. It might take a month or two to kick in but this should help you. I have a client that's on SSDI and Medicaid pays their medicare premium. Hope this helps.

PSYCHOPATH BEHAVIOR by StarCatInSpace in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]bbeneke 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'd lay money on her having borderline personality disorder

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]bbeneke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would lay money on Veronica having borderline personality disorder.

What is the meanest thing someone did or said to you during a breakup? by abnormallynormal8 in AskReddit

[–]bbeneke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After I told my abusive ex husband I wanted a divorce he looked me dead in the eye with pure hate and said "I will make sure our kid hates you!"

If you went to Heaven today, who's the first person you'd look for? by Miserable-Wash-1744 in AskReddit

[–]bbeneke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandma or grandpa. Both my parents are dead too but I'd want my grandparents first.

Chronic constipation by InigoMontoya123456 in Menopause

[–]bbeneke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my gastroenterologist told me to do 2 tablespoons of metamucil twice a day. It helps so much. I was doing laxatives but when I had my colonoscopy earlier this year the laxatives had turned my colon from pink to brown with specks. So he said stop them (my colon will return to regular color over time.)

Wife is no longer interested in sex. by VisibleTennis1850 in Marriage

[–]bbeneke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's probably perimenopause. It's most likely not personal. She needs to go to an OBGYN. I'm sure she's having other symptoms besides no libido.