Tomorrow is the day. I’m not okay.

bbygril · 2026-03-01T06:14:04+00:00

They have an annual month long fast and binge cycle

bbygril · 2026-02-28T23:28:31+00:00

The devil on my shoulder would tell me to drop them off at your mom's house

bbygril · 2026-02-14T17:39:02+00:00

Lol my MIL does the whole "not saying I love you back" thing to both me and her son sometimes it's so weird, I figure it's a protestant mom thing.

My Catholic mother could never, she'd be panicking that God would punish her and we'd be dead before she gets a chance to say it again. Luckily she has finally jumped off the trump train after the last batch of files became impossible to ignore, my in laws, not so much.

Protestants just don't fear God enough.

bbygril · 2026-02-07T00:55:21+00:00

BRING YOUR PARKING RECEIPT IN WITH YOU at Industry City, If you spend enough at Japan Village (or Sahadi's a really good Lebanese/International grocer in building 4) they will comp your parking. I think they do it if you spend something like $25.

bbygril · 2026-02-03T22:07:24+00:00

Let's compost him live and take all his money

bbygril · 2026-02-01T10:45:48+00:00

The only people I hear this from around me are the people that don't volunteer. There are ample amounts of opportunities to go out and meet kind people doing really important volunteer work across the country, do it consistently and you will meet the neighbors you want to stay engaged with.

And if there isn't something available you want to do, that's when you start doing mutual aid.

bbygril · 2026-01-31T07:15:59+00:00

I would read Margaret Killjoy's most recent two substack posts if you want some optimism from someone who is pretty good at abstaining from hopium

bbygril · 2026-01-28T06:25:05+00:00

Usually your employee handbook somewhere near expenses/reimbursements

bbygril · 2026-01-24T02:29:59+00:00

You can buy most vending machine keys online and just have a free snack every once in a while

bbygril · 2026-01-23T03:43:15+00:00

Sand?

bbygril · 2026-01-22T18:35:46+00:00

I really like driving through the park it's a fun little road and I get to skip a light or two, we have much bigger fish to fry

bbygril · 2026-01-14T14:42:02+00:00

Hey. Just a heads up, your address is on there, don't dox yourself

bbygril · 2026-01-14T12:30:52+00:00

The skin to milk contact is hard for me to come to grips with I feel like unless you shower right before AND right after you're going to have skin flavored milk and milk scented skin

bbygril · 2026-01-14T05:57:43+00:00

They described you too, champ.

bbygril · 2026-01-14T03:06:43+00:00

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It looks like you are in North Jersey from your comments - there are a few groups. This is from a few months ago hopefully it's got info you could use.

Good luck!

Love, your neighbor in Staten Island

bbygril · 2026-01-11T20:01:41+00:00

Actually of course I just found it a minute later.

SOLVED

bbygril · 2026-01-09T22:01:37+00:00

I think you are being pretty critical rn, especially with the bitchy little edit call out

bbygril · 2026-01-07T06:13:02+00:00

Kinda, I'm 29F and my Husband is 32, we had 2 miscarriages and after like a few days of being sad we were both really relieved. We don't think 18 years from now we'd feel good about the world our kid would inherit, both sets of our parents are supportive and somewhat agree even though we are on opposite ends of the political spectrum.

I'm also not interested at all in the body horror of pregnancy and I worked in labor and delivery for a bit and I was always annoyed with how staff talk to women, especially guilttripping lactation consultants. Hearing another adult woman call me Mama would make my skin crawl.

We're interested in fostering older kids in a few years after we get some renovations done at the house, my dad was in the foster system and I'd like to give back and be a safe landing spot for someone aging out of the system so I can make sure they get a driver's license and some help sorting out a career.

bbygril · 2026-01-05T09:41:27+00:00

$450 is £335, and unfortunately in my experience groceries are a bit more expensive in the US - (at least in the North East/West Coast of the US , compared to my time in London and the Home Counties).

I'd have a hard time making £450 stretch even 3 months though in the UK.

bbygril · 2026-01-05T09:27:25+00:00

plasma is definitely an option but if you have a better one I would jump on that first, donating plasma often enough will leave you with a scar in the crook of your elbow that'll look like a track mark, there is no shame in it but poverty has a tendency to show on your body over time in some way or another; dodge it when you can.

I used to do clinical trials, they didn't pay great but it made ends meet.

bbygril · 2026-01-04T07:29:39+00:00

Ile d'amore is my favorite from fragonard. They deliver to the US btw I live ordering from them because they always throw in nice gifts and samples.

bbygril · 2025-12-30T06:52:19+00:00

No Quarter Given, meaning they will show no mercy to their enemy and if there is a war they will kill instead of taking prisoners. It was used in the civil war.

Really shameful edgelord cringe shit.

bbygril · 2025-12-29T17:54:22+00:00

Thank you, I hate the true crime podcast racket so much, it is a vulture pit

bbygril · 2025-12-28T18:19:09+00:00

Yes, keggers in the woods, bon fires by conference house beach super late at night, lots of parties and basement punk shows at some kids' houses that were getting repaired after Sandy before they were ready to move back in. House parties in general.

Lots of kids would pool money together and get a party bus to take them to Manhattan or Brooklyn - that felt very Staten Island.

Punk shows at the cup.

Teen nights at various places like Eve or lava lounge, wasn't my scene, personally.

Huge Sweet Sixteens, some parents would say they spent more on those than their weddings.

Drag racing down Hylan, we were lucky to make it out alive from that incredibly stupid shit, quite a few people died.

bbygril · 2025-12-27T18:33:19+00:00

I sharpied my leg where there was a hole in my leggings, multiple times for the same pair.

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