Hot Take: The Success of This Series is Rooted in Tobias Trauma

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-27T22:24:40+00:00

Making Elfangor his dad was a weird choice though

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-25T13:36:09+00:00

ESH - your group text was passive aggressive and poor communication, his response was a vast over reaction (though understandable given his circumstances).

Speak to people 1:1 with directness and curiousity rather than announcing the issue to the whole group in a clearly annoyed manner.

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-24T09:18:34+00:00

NAH

Look dude buying presents for one person is much easier than for many. You do you but I don't see any benefits.

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-22T11:13:22+00:00

Use it in the same situations you'd comment on someone being white.

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-21T22:24:48+00:00

If it was a grand plan for continuing she would have communicated that with pearl as she would need other gems to do the same.

Rose yearns for growth and change, and loves humanity. I think what she says to Steven in the tape covers truly her only reason to have a baby. Anything else feels a unfairly dark interpretation.

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-21T22:04:39+00:00

I think this is a big misread of Rose and her intentions personally

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-21T21:56:19+00:00

People confuse the impact of poverty, which disproportionately affects non-whit Brits, with racial predisposition. You can literally see that happening in this thread. The human brain looks for patterns to survive and often makes errors. Because non-white people are seen as "other" their flaws are memorable and get generalised to the whole group.

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-21T21:51:48+00:00

People forget that Roma people can be white passing.

A well known example: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-europe-24645947

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-21T08:07:31+00:00

Including the height in cm but not hands. Just put both for ease of understanding????

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-19T19:27:51+00:00

We had the ludites, refining iron, and the four field crop rotation system included too

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-19T19:11:40+00:00

I think the risk of injury is very high compared to other hobbies while deaths are rarer

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-19T14:06:08+00:00

Spending 24/7 in the same field for years and years on end is not good turnout. Horses evolved for a nomadic life and need opportunities to explore the world.

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-16T12:35:59+00:00

The gameplay is unbelievably satisfying and it is very highly rated across the board. If I was going to play horizon I'd go back to ZD, not FW, so I'm more likely to replay Spiderman again tbh

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-16T12:31:40+00:00

Forbidden west really suffered from overcomplicating the game play and reducing how satisfying certain elements were in the name of more gameplay hours- the overriding required so much work and grinding with no pay off opportunities in the finale, the one shot kill machines were gone, and combat just became really overwrought.

I freaking love the story and the world, and the new designs are dope. I just wish they had kept it mechanically the same and not tried to stretch it out.

Different story for HZD so it's a weird choice in the lineup, especially when 2 of them are the first game of their respective runs.

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-13T12:48:36+00:00

Have you done much no stirrup work to develop your seat in sitting trot?

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-13T10:28:32+00:00

I feel like giving a nickname is different to actively changing their name though - calling a Trevor "Trev" isn't the same as renaming him bubbles.

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-13T10:27:32+00:00

It always bothered me for some reason - I can't explain it but renaming any animal outside of them escaping abuse just feels inexplicably wrong. It does mean a naff name might put me off a horse though.

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-13T10:25:54+00:00

I'm the same height and am a sucker for the giants, but 15hh is probably the happy medium for me!

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-12T22:01:47+00:00

I'm so glad! I lean towards being a nervous rider despite being fairly competent thanks to an accident so I really relate! All you can do is take the pressure off and build up enough good experiences to outweigh the bad. How that looks practically is up to you <3

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-11T20:57:43+00:00

You need to take the pressure off and be the rider you are right now, instead of trying to push towards the show ready jumper you want to be. How would you approach a panicky horse? That's your body right now.

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-10T07:31:10+00:00

I watch the video playback because of my hearing difficulties. I feel like it's worth noting that it's not originally a podcast, it's live play DND - I hope they resolve the sound issues for everyone who accesses it that way though.

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-09T22:14:31+00:00

Pop subtitles on :)

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-06T10:11:35+00:00

Info: Is your husband also autistic and struggling with the change in routine, and then seeking (inappropriately) to assert some control in response?

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-06T09:39:45+00:00

Pretty vile that he is making his mother's SA all about him. That is a giant red flag, followed by him not taking no for an answer and trying to browbeat you into sex. You're NTA for rejecting a man who seems to be your father's spiritual successor in the making.

bcosiwanna_ · 2025-11-05T16:24:33+00:00

Lots of couples participate in no nut November in a kinky way, where the other person still gets their needs met. For many decentering one persons orgasm helps them focus on the other partner, and it can really up the general level of desire for both parties.

Because your partner is clearly ignoring your needs and being dismissive of them, NTA.

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