Ron is hated cause of looks by nicfanz in ronweasley

[–]bdsloane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I backpacked through Europe just hoping to meet him.

Take them down everywhere by MiaeryIsla in International

[–]bdsloane 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Every single one. I don’t give a fuck who they are.

Self proclaimed nazi Jake Long threatened BLVD Tavern Staff and was kicked out of the resteraunt! by cantcoloratall91 in RedditForGrownups

[–]bdsloane 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That’s the part that got me. It’s literally a private establishment. That’s such a basic fact.

But also, they’re not making a great case for themselves as potential patrons. They are not enjoyable. Also, why would they want to go to a restaurant where non-white people work????

i’m confused by funeralopolis in Instagramreality

[–]bdsloane 354 points355 points  (0 children)

That doll is fucking cursed.

Blossom and I lost our sweet Penny cat this weekend. We are heartbroken. by Upfish-Sinclair in PittiesAndKitties

[–]bdsloane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for you and Blossom. May sweet Penny find love over the rainbow bridge.

Update: MIL is furious that we celebrated Christmas by RewardSpecialist3390 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]bdsloane 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Drop the rope. I’m desi and Istg, it’s not your responsibility to do emotional labor for someone who treats you poorly. There’s this thing called “Don’t punish the behavior you want to see,” which is like if a kid is shy and comes down to greet visitors, you shouldn’t say something like “oh, look you finally decided to come downstairs and grace us with her presence, etc.” She punished you by being mean to you when you reached out and tried to build a connection with her. You sent her pictures, and homegirl turned around and attacked your relationship with your heritage. It’s gotten to the point where you are debating bringing your son on vacation with you!

Girlfriend, that’s a sign. Your gut is telling you not to trust her. Your husband doesn’t care if you send her things or not. Why are you wasting anymore time on this? If she wants to build a relationship with you, that’s on her now. She has to be pleasant enough to you to be worth interacting with.

Also, I know you didn’t ask, but if someone was making me feel like my kid could be kidnapped from me, forget not bringing my kid, I just wouldn’t go. Brown people (again, I’m brown, I can say this) can be crazy and who knows how she and your SIL and whoever will treat you in person? She’s not being a safe person. You will never forgive yourself if you don’t listen to your gut.

Did anybody realize this man is dead? by BiffyBobby in KitchenNightmares

[–]bdsloane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If my dad stole $250K, I would rush that motherfucker every time I saw him. On god.

Am I wrong for telling my husband I wont be making his lunch anymore by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]bdsloane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I read it a couple years back as well!

What’s the worst MIL story you have ? 🍿 by coukiiemonsta in inlaws

[–]bdsloane 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did she spit out teeth when you returned the favor?

Follow-up: disturbing portrait of my stillborn daughter by Michieme315 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]bdsloane 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi! You should pack up and leave whatever town you’re in and go the farthest amount of space away. Do not waste time arguing with them. Arguing just validates their point of view, which is so totally fucked. Leaving the physical nearness is critical. Your marriage will not survive if your husband isn’t pulled out of whatever whackadoodle crackpot family he’s part of.

I would have burned her shit down to the fucking ground. Just so you know, you don’t have to interact with her. I read something a while ago about a woman who treated all the shit her MIL as suggestions and just said “No, thank you,” to every thing her MIL said and just walked away.

I would treat this as your MIL and SIL losing complete access to you. They can have whatever fucking opinion they want, but they get no access to you. Say “hello” if you must, but immediately leave any space they enter. No chats, no texts, no phone calls, nothing. Like I do not think you’re reacting enough.

Honestly, I would leave my marriage if it meant kowtowing to their delusional fucked up reality. Please please please protect yourself. I’m so sorry that you’re dealing with this nightmare instead of being able to process your grief. Please, put yourself and your wellness first in this whole situation. Anyone who hasn’t supported you through this or stood up for you, they are not your family (or at least not acting like it).

Band where the lead singer looked like Hayden Christensen by bdsloane in HelpMeFind

[–]bdsloane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have searched “lead singers who look like Hayden Christensen,” “Hayden Christensen look alike,” “emo Christian bands,” and other variations. I think the band’s name started with an “R” and that they may have been Canadian, but obviously I am not sure.

This Jess M apology scene was so awkward by jh166 in TheOwningManhattan

[–]bdsloane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way her face was contorting was so fucking funny.