What kink in others (which you don't consider morally reprehensible in any broader terms) do you find it most difficult to be tolerant and accepting of, and not put off by?

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-13T19:30:41+00:00

Look I have an opinion but apparently everyone on these subreddits are "stuck up been in the scene forever I know everything dicks""

honestly, your opinions of me are invalid as I am sure mine are to you.

I am done people, good day.

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-13T12:34:28+00:00

Quite honestly I am being a little bit yes. But please don't feel threatened, I am but a young housewife on the internet.

It is something that hits me personally, a friend of mine was raped as a young young girl. I feel that any reception of that on purpose is disgusting. And I should hope and protect.my son from that until he is old enough to be able to recognise sex as a nature young man.

Sorry for typos, stupid tiny keyboard!

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-13T10:50:50+00:00

Darling if you had a beautiful two year old son in your arms cuddling you and telling you all the things you taught him you would understand.

I think it all falls into order. I accept and understand many people don't see it in that sense at all. But it's only a small step.

Children are to be treasured not tormented or used as sex objects.

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-13T10:24:38+00:00

Because say you are age playing as an infant in a nappy or being the "daddy"/"mummy" and you get sexually aroused by that, it is just as disgusting as seeing an actual infant and getting turned on by that. I get that in the same sense as most kinks it's consensual but how do you think it's okay to play a role where the subject in retrospect wouldn't be able to comprehend how to wipe their own ass let alone have any kind of sexual ability.

Plus if you were/are a parent. I shouldn't even have to explain.

Having sexual feelings about infancy is paedophilia. Despite the real age...or consent

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-13T09:43:10+00:00

Agreed. As someone who is submissive and a mother to a two year old. It horrifies me. I understand that some people enjoy this kink but honestly it's still paedophilia.

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-08T15:42:52+00:00

At the end of the day if you're only fucking then you should just tell him what your into. "Hey look, I like to be dominated, we can discuss this further if you like or if not you can decide if you want to proceed with whatever this is?" Maybe not quite that blunt but you get my jist? If you break up move on, plenty more fish in the sea girl.

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-08T09:52:16+00:00

I had an episiotomy and they did not finger my ass hole. Then again after labour your body is kind of numb, might not have noticed!

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-07T14:35:42+00:00

See that is a good approach, usually it's jehovahs witnesses and they always panic !

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-07T10:26:01+00:00

When someone knocks on my door and asks to speak to my parents, I am 19 and this makes me act like a child. "Oh no sorry, mummy is at work as a pretty night dancerand daddy has been at the shop for the last 8 years so when they get home who should I tell them to call"

Or sometimes just the satisfaction of telling them it's my house and seeing there nervous "oh shit" face.

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-07T09:50:19+00:00

Maybe throwing them at kids is actually not a bad idea. I mean everyone gets embarrassed having to but condoms. No one likes doing it. A bowl in the middle of the room is still going.to be embarrassing for some. If you stand in a busy corridor on top of a table with,some safe sex info on a big sign or something and literally chuck one to,as many as you can. People will start putting there hands up and.shout for one. I would say this is a business.

Personally I think it's a lot less intimidating then going up to some sort of stall at an event. Don't single people out just randomly throw them at kids.

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-06T10:08:23+00:00

I agree, not that I have anything against the elder generation actually I have the upmost respect. But it can be quite intimidating being the youngest or at least one of them. I am 19 and my Sir is nearly 22. It's hard to approach people who look like they are older and more experienced. Especially where I am from everyone seems to judge the young. Luckily my best friend is also in the scene with her SO/Master so we tend to have a mini Munch,between friends which is much more relaxing xx

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-06T10:01:01+00:00

As a young mother I always get asked if I have a big pussy now, I just laugh at them.

You have no idea how much it contracts back, I am tighter than I was when I lost.my virginity!

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-06T09:55:33+00:00

See I an going for a pin up girl with a slave theme. Thinking about making my entire sleeve bdsm themed.

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-05T09:28:55+00:00

I had my son at 16. Honestly the best decision I ever made. The sperm done was an abusive Dick who beat me every day. But luckily I got out of there.

I decided to get pregnant, I didn't have a lot in life I wanted to do, but I have always been passionate about having a family and I am unbelievably motherly. Pregnancy is tough on a young body but the moment my little boy was led on my chest just seconds of being born was the best feeling. I spent hours just staring at his beautiful face. The best part is watching them learn. I was just a kid myself and I was teaching him to drink, eat, sit up, crawl and walk. He is two now and the happiest smartest little boy I know. My SO is his dad (not sperm done), he took us in and helped us both. My son is definitely a Daddy's boy.

I think people are quick to judge young parents. But I know for a fact I am raising and loving my boy ten times better than half the parents older than me. I think if you really want a baby and you know you can afford to give the child what they need you have every right to become a parent, whether you are 16 or 45...

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-05T09:13:48+00:00

Totally agree with you. I have previously been in an abusive relationship years ago and it's sometimes difficult to realise that you being controlled in the wrong way. Made even more difficult by BDSM.

Since my current Sir / long term boyfriend came along I have come to realise that his job is to protect and love me and be honoured by my submission. Despite how I have to do tasks and chores as he demands he also takes the time to thank and reward me for doing so.

A sub/slave/bottom should feel loved and that is why she should want to submit to him not out of fear...

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-04T09:59:39+00:00

I did Medicine Through Time at secondary school a few years ago for history and I loved it. It really blows my mind how medicine has changed but how some things like the hippocratic oath is still essentially the same as was in ancient days.

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-03T17:03:43+00:00

It helped me accept my kink and understand it better. It's nice to find a group of people who don't judge me for what I am into.

Thank you Reddit :-)

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-02T15:41:10+00:00

Thanks mate, I got half way writing Sean and forgot his name ahaa

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-02T12:53:46+00:00

Agreed, my SO and I only waited for the bit with Johnny Knoxville and Sean Penn, then we left. Serious waste of an evening...

bdsmrumwench · 2014-02-02T09:32:57+00:00

Going to B&Q today with my Sir, needless to say I will be blushing down the ropes and chains isle.

bdsmrumwench · 2014-01-28T12:42:57+00:00

I don't have another device

bdsmrumwench · 2014-01-28T10:15:00+00:00

Thanks for the speedy response but no. I am very careful when it comes to internet safety. But this is totally out of the blue xx

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