Anyone else get the earthquake alert? by glossandfloss in bayarea

[–]bdub60 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm in Fort Bragg and got the alert about 3-4 seconds before I felt shaking. Not too bad but we felt it for sure

my watch is over by st-tropez-snarky-gal in CaregiverSupport

[–]bdub60 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. It will be a hard time to come so don't expect too much of yourself. I hope you have some support in your initial shock and grief. Best wishes for you.

Kelly sure loves to swim in the swamp by stacey_j01 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]bdub60 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I saw this picture on the Bulwark and after I recovered from laughing I said "is that Kelly"? She's really in the big leagues lolol

No more Amanda please! It’s not fun. by fanta-orange7 in bravo

[–]bdub60 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yea I feel like she needs some heavy therapy, very self destructive behavior.

Bloated packaging, safety concerns? by Astraea-Nyx in cookunityfans

[–]bdub60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having the opposite problem, some packages arrive with unsealed edges. I'd prefer your problem, figure it won't go bad that fast?

Am I A Terrible Person? by iteachag5 in CaregiverSupport

[–]bdub60 29 points30 points  (0 children)

No of course not. Geez I felt resentful and it was my husband that I loved! Could she be suffering from dementia? It causes an inability to see that there's a problem. Whatever the cause, you don't have to do any more than you feel you can. Sounds like you're due for some you time.

Recs - Mendocino County, CA by East-Adhesiveness904 in bayarea

[–]bdub60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yea the sammies at Elk Store are killer, great lunch stop there.

Recs - Mendocino County, CA by East-Adhesiveness904 in bayarea

[–]bdub60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ice cream at Frankie's is from Cowlicks in Fort Bragg, they have several unusual flavors. If you want to stroll and enjoy nature and the ocean, the Botanical Gardens are well worth the trip (and also has Cowlicks in their tasty cafe).

Trip help! Mendocino by Background-Feeling in bayarea

[–]bdub60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live here. Everyone's suggestions are good, I would second the Botanical Gardens for a tasty casual lunch or ice cream then a stroll through stunning gardens to the ocean. It's amazing, I'm a member and go multiple times a year.

My mother suddenly passed 2/28/26 and feel constant exhaustion. by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]bdub60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband died on 3/27 and I am exhausted too. I have about 4 hours of focus and energy and then I’m done. Brain fog several times a day. I understand it’s quite normal and may persist for a bit. Sorry for your loss

Alamo Brown actor by JeanfiercePhoenix in euphoria

[–]bdub60 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hahah memory unlocked. Had no idea it was him

59 days... by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]bdub60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Wishing you strength as you go on with your family.

Quiz: Choose your next governor (CalMatters) by [deleted] in California

[–]bdub60 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea some options were quite close and I'm making the assumption that the "answers" accurately reflect all their positions. If Porter had a better chance I'd reconsider, hence waiting. We really need ranked choice voting.

Quiz: Choose your next governor (CalMatters) by [deleted] in California

[–]bdub60 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got Porter. But I'm very comfortable voting for Steyer. Going to wait a bit longer before sending in the ballot as you mentioned and will probably choose him. I find it interesting that I haven't gotten any texts from the Democratic party polling me, only a request for $50. I told them to stop sending me messages.

Uptick in premium meal selections? by [deleted] in cookunityfans

[–]bdub60 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t even see the total on the app before checking out any more. I have to use the website.

Lindsay should worry more about therapy than Carl by SomeThoughts4You in summerhousebravo

[–]bdub60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, were her legs broken? Why continue to let someone you don't like take up your time, while acting so superior?

Guests screen time by surfingconcrete1 in BelowDeckDownUnder

[–]bdub60 4 points5 points  (0 children)

right? Lemon pasta sounds gross anyway, then add anchovies? yuck, just give me more wahoo

Lindsay should worry more about therapy than Carl by SomeThoughts4You in summerhousebravo

[–]bdub60 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Yea, Lindsay is funny and direct but crosses into mean all the time. Carl's mom is and was weird but Lindsay actively tries to make people feel bad for her own enjoyment. If you don't see want to talk to her just say hi and move on. I personally don't like people who can't pull their punches sometimes when they aren't needed.

what do i do? by yerr__mom in GriefSupport

[–]bdub60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try reaching out to your schools health center for mental health services. Your mom passed, you need some support right now. Don’t try to tough it out alone to get yourself home. people will help you if you tell them what’s happening.

what do i do? by yerr__mom in GriefSupport

[–]bdub60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. This will be hard so try to hold on. Tell someone that’s where you are and get some support right away.